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Author:  justinwa [ Wed May 23, 2012 4:49 am ]
Post subject:  Should women be considered bitches until proven otherwise?
I'm not trying to be disrespectful to females, but it's starting to seem like all women are bitches due to their similarities. Any comments?
Author:  Sparroww [ Wed May 23, 2012 4:19 pm ]
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Define bitch. Most people would find the women I like to be "bitchy" but I love the spunk and the attitude.

I don't think you should define all women as anything as a whole. People are different.
Author:  Danage [ Wed May 23, 2012 4:19 pm ]
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Ever heard the catchphrase that everyone is different. Older people categorize youngsters and say that they're all trouble makers but you know for a fact that not everyone is.

Not everyone falls under the same mold and sometime it's just a shield, it may be the way you're approaching them, if you're using pre learnt lines on them I can see why they would give you a response, if you are just more natural aka talk to them like they're your friend you'll get a friendly response.

So if you smile and say something like 'aww the music in here really creates a fun buzz!' she isn't going to turn to you and say go away! she will have to be polite... just be nice to her and if she's a bitch then punish... but i doubt you'll get a negative response.

Hope i've helped.
Author:  Little Panda [ Wed May 23, 2012 6:14 pm ]
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If you interact with a woman while having the mindset of 'women are bitches', you will talk to them much differently than if you come in with a loving attitude.

In fact, you'll act in such way that you'll even risk triggering her to become a bitch even if she initially wasn't.

Really not a wise idea . . . Imagine a woman talking to you while having a mindset of 'all guys are assholes'. How do you think she'll treat you? Even if subconsciously, she'll give off very negative vibes causing you to either back off away from her or react negatively to her behavior, making you seem like an asshole no matter what.

Any negative reaction from you will give her justification and make her go 'AHA. I knew it! They ARE all assholes!' - when in the ironic reality it was her behavior which caused you to behave that way all along.

Same goes for you and that dangerously risky mindset you're proposing.
Author:  justinwa [ Wed May 23, 2012 9:25 pm ]
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Define bitch. Most people would find the women I like to be "bitchy" but I love the spunk and the attitude.

I don't think you should define all women as anything as a whole. People are different.
I like girls with attitude too. Idk, I guess that mindset came about because of frustration from not getting anywhere very fast.
Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Wed May 23, 2012 9:47 pm ]
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Sure....Let's follow this logic....

So the reciprocal dictates that you're just "fucking asshole"?



Cool...

But - why are titles so important to you?

RR
Author:  justinwa [ Thu May 24, 2012 12:47 am ]
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Sure....Let's follow this logic....

So the reciprocal dictates that you're just "fucking asshole"?



Cool...

But - why are titles so important to you?

RR
Titles usually aren't important. I was using the wrong mindset I guess by thinking of women as bitches. I was thinking that if I kept this mindset of "bitch until proven otherwise" was a way to protect myself against stuff they do that might catch me off guard. Having a loving and chill mentality would be better.
Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Thu May 24, 2012 2:02 am ]
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Sure....Let's follow this logic....

So the reciprocal dictates that you're just "fucking asshole"?



Cool...

But - why are titles so important to you?

RR
Titles usually aren't important. I was using the wrong mindset I guess by thinking of women as bitches. I was thinking that if I kept this mindset of "bitch until proven otherwise" was a way to protect myself against stuff they do that might catch me off guard. Having a loving and chill mentality would be better.
Having NO attitude works best. Be yourself.

Until you like who YOU are, nobody else will.

Some women are bitches - no doubt. But I don't lump them together.

RR
Author:  vcwriter [ Thu May 24, 2012 3:17 am ]
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It works for some guys. Some guys can only feel powerful if they think that all girls are bad in some fundamental way.

My personal belief: all girls are dying to fuck, but are trapped by all the rules of society. I help them navigate their way to bed. (Or the shower. Or the kitchen. Or a burger king bathroom.)
Author:  agentprovocateur [ Thu May 24, 2012 4:37 am ]
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So lemme guess, somehow all us guys are different/unique in some way, but women are all cut from the same cloth...


Makes perfect sense to me!
Author:  jurupa [ Thu May 24, 2012 5:23 am ]
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Titles usually aren't important. I was using the wrong mindset I guess by thinking of women as bitches. I was thinking that if I kept this mindset of "bitch until proven otherwise" was a way to protect myself against stuff they do that might catch me off guard. Having a loving and chill mentality would be better.
The thing is if you go in thinking like that well more than likely they will be bitches to you as you are in short treating them such so they will react in kind. And if you are doing this to protect your self you are going about if totally wrong.
Author:  Techgame [ Thu May 24, 2012 1:54 pm ]
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My personal belief: all girls are dying to fuck, but are trapped by all the rules of society. I help them navigate their way to bed. (Or the shower. Or the kitchen. Or a burger king bathroom.)
Yep, society teaches women to be mindful and ashamed of liking sex, but oh god, is that ever fucking false :).

It's actually one reason I'm glad for the women's lib movements throughout history. Because one of their core messages is "women should not be ashamed of sex" and fuck I agree!!

Can you imagine how hard it was to get laid pre 1960's without being married or having some kind of affair? Eek.
Author:  NikAFC [ Thu May 24, 2012 1:58 pm ]
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bitches don't exist :)
Author:  vcwriter [ Thu May 24, 2012 2:28 pm ]
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My personal belief: all girls are dying to fuck, but are trapped by all the rules of society. I help them navigate their way to bed. (Or the shower. Or the kitchen. Or a burger king bathroom.)
Yep, society teaches women to be mindful and ashamed of liking sex, but oh god, is that ever fucking false :).

It's actually one reason I'm glad for the women's lib movements throughout history. Because one of their core messages is "women should not be ashamed of sex" and fuck I agree!!

Can you imagine how hard it was to get laid pre 1960's without being married or having some kind of affair? Eek.
Makes sense to me.

That's why I never buy that a girl is just a bitch. If she's a bitch, I assume that's something she does to keep players and losers away. If I open right, I'm signalling to her that "I get it". I know she wants it, and she just needs a guy to make the whole lead-up feel right.
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