After reading "The Game" one thing was clear to me, before even approaching my first set: Following his, or Mysterys method is not for me, but still reading it helped my game, or helped me into it. Styles personality comes across through the way he writes, you see how he sees the world and the people he deals with and one gets a strong impression of what kind of man he is. He´s intelligent, educated, humble in the right way and truly respectful. This man doesn´t just love women, he loves the world and allit´s inhabitants with all their vices and mistakes. Learning the ways of PUA just gave him the tools to unlock his personality in a way that he was enabled to do something he couldn´t before: Convey what a truly likeable guy he is to women. He developed inner game over time, became a man that believes in himself.
It is the core of it all. To me inner game is understanding and accepting who you are and what is good about yourself. Outer game is nothing but successfully communicating this. That´s what I´m working on, what I´m aiming for. The "method" you follow is totally unimportant if it helps you achieve this goal in my opinion, as long as you learn and adapt. It is indeed true that pushing on, leaving the comfort zone is crucial. It will teach one about oneself.
Knowing who you are is what it all boils down to. In a world as fast-paced and superficial as ours there´s nothing more attractive then that. If taking Styles path, transform into a social robot and then back into an individual works for you, fine. What matters is that in the end you are yourself again. The amplified version of it!
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. Powerful words.