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Author:  Criss hell [ Tue May 22, 2012 4:45 am ]
Post subject:  sending a sexy pic of urself when hb doesn't respond?
Hey guy,
I met this hb last week and tonight , I sent a text and asked how she is doing. She didn't respond me back. So I was thinking of sending a pic of myself showing my upper part of my body when I was having good time to show some DHV and tell her "This is me in the case you've frogotten me..."
Does it sound creepy or not?
Thank you,
Author:  Dalinkin [ Tue May 22, 2012 4:51 am ]
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Is the pic meant to show off your body or to show you are out having a good time? If you are just trying to show off your body, and you haven't really talked to her much, I think this would come off as desperate, or you just saying, Hey! Look at me! I'm hot right? Right?!!

If the pic was you at a beach or party or something, and you said something like, you are really missin out tonight. I think this would be the better approach.
Author:  Criss hell [ Tue May 22, 2012 4:55 am ]
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Is the pic meant to show off your body or to show you are out having a good time? If you are just trying to show off your body, and you haven't really talked to her much, I think this would come off as desperate, or you just saying, Hey! Look at me! I'm hot right? Right?!!

If the pic was you at a beach or party or something, and you said something like, you are really missin out tonight. I think this would be the better approach.
Actually, I didn't talk to the hb much and didn't have enough rapport with her unfortunately.
and to answer your quetion : Both.The pic shows upper part of my body(naked) while having a hb besides me in a pool party in Vegas.What do you think?
Author:  bartm [ Tue May 22, 2012 5:02 am ]
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dude, that is such an afc move. even i wouldnt do this.
Author:  Criss hell [ Tue May 22, 2012 5:12 am ]
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dude, that is such an afc move. even i wouldnt do this.
she has not responded me, so she may have forgotten me or she may not as interested as before since I texted after 4 days. I think girls are visual. It could create attraction.
I don't care if it is afc but I don't want to look creepy. The only reason I am asking is that she is going to the same college as I am and although I graduated I may see her again.(like with probability of 10%). So I don't want to look creepy.
Author:  bartm [ Tue May 22, 2012 5:34 am ]
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dude, that is such an afc move. even i wouldnt do this.
she has not responded me, so she may have forgotten me or she may not as interested as before since I texted after 4 days. I think girls are visual. It could create attraction.
I don't care if it is afc but I don't want to look creepy. The only reason I am asking is that she is going to the same college as I am and although I graduated I may see her again.(like with probability of 10%). So I don't want to look creepy.
ok? and you think sending your picture will make you look not creepy because ??
Author:  CaptainJackHarkness [ Tue May 22, 2012 5:35 am ]
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I'm going to side with OP here. Sending a picture is nothing wrong, but keep in mind what's creepy for one girl is not creepy for another. Don't expect same responses.

Sending a picture to one girl of you may be sexy while another it'll be completely turdish.

In any case, have freedom from outcome.
Author:  Criss hell [ Tue May 22, 2012 5:50 am ]
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Ok,Although it was effective on girls who I was in touch with and lost connection for while, I won't send it.
I texted her : " hi X,this is Y. How are you doing girl?"
No response after 3 hours. I know the text is boring especially after 4 days.
But I thought she liked me.What happens was: she got my phone and put her number in my phone and called her number. Probably she didn't save my number.
So what should I do now?
Author:  tareaxtragedy [ Tue May 22, 2012 6:08 am ]
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Ok,Although it was effective on girls who I was in touch with and lost connection for while, I won't send it.
I texted her : " hi X,this is Y. How are you doing girl?"
No response after 3 hours. I know the text is boring especially after 4 days.
But I thought she liked me.What happens was: she got my phone and put her number in my phone and called her number. Probably she didn't save my number.
So what should I do now?
I don't do a lot of text game, I don't care for it much myself. But I can offer from personal experience on what worked for me when a guy used a similar tactic.

I think sexy pictures are great in the right context. I had a guy send me a picture of him at the gym looking extremely good with the caption "So you don't forget what I look like." Had me smitten.

I'm going to say you had a missed opportunity, you sent an especially boring text. When I get texts like these I usually read them, then toss my phone aside, unless I really like the guy. I think texting her back tonight would come off as a little desperate, but as a female I don't think sending a picture of yourself would come off as creepy. Maybe try again tomorrow with a fresh outlook, maybe look through some text game material. The texts I'm usually more inclined to respond to are the ones that bring up something we've talked about.

I went out with this guy who was teasing me like crazy after I gave him the green light and went pervy on him (lol) said something along the lines of "Oh I'd love to give you a bath. Just pamper and spoil you, rub you down and lather you up. Dry you off and then pick you up and carry you to the bed then we could...play a really bitchin game of Yugioh." I didn't hear from him for 2 or 3 days (gave him my number) and then I got a random text that said "Up for a game of yugioh?" Maybe try bringing something up you talked about that will associate a positive/sexual/tension memory of you to the text if you got that far.
Author:  feature [ Tue May 22, 2012 7:10 am ]
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Dude, it is creepy. Don't do that.
Author:  1façade1 [ Tue May 22, 2012 9:00 am ]
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DHV is better off shown if you are making it seem unintentional, like through a social networking site and she sees your pictures with HBs, better off in person. DHV is something you have to incidentally prove to her, not blatantly, like you did. It might seem like a desparate move depending on the girl what you have done. If you shove pictures of yourself to her like that at random sure she might like them, but you are implying to her at the same time that you can roll over and do tricks for her, you're giving her a go at the whip. Try to get her to send pictures of herself by initiating a whose sexier contest somehow, try to be more creative and make a game out of it, have an excuse for it and tease her to make her want to play. It could be an ever going text game where eventually there's less and less clothes involved. Asking her how she's doing, worst conversatiom starter, and extremely AFC. Yes she saved your name because she knew you'd call and she wouldn't give up a chance on not being able to identify you in case she wants to reject or continue keeping you around.
Author:  pumpington [ Tue May 22, 2012 9:27 am ]
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if by ''creepy'' you mean needy and an extra turn off, then yes, most likely, there is a reason why she didn't respond in the first place, and it wasn't to bait you into desperately trying harder and sending her pictures

just give it time, maybe she was busy when you texted and didn't read it or something, give her a good 3 trys before you give up on her and don't take your 3 shots all in a row, one unanswered text maximum a day, wait for her to respond, don't double text ever unless it is during an active conversation and it was just because you missed some points, never to try to harass a girl into talking to you when she stops responding, if anything back off and when she texts you back let her know it sucks when people don't respond by not responding (unless of coarse she said good bye)

I dis-like when girls are in an active real time convo and stop responding without saying good bye or ending the convo, it is rude and frankly a girl who makes a habit out of it, is a girl who you would not catch me texting

if you have that feeling of neediness cause she gave you her number, use it to your advantage and channel that energy into meeting a new girl, everytime you feel anxious and want to call her, put your phone in your pocket, walk outside your front door, proceed to the nearest location full of girls (mall, supermarket, univercity, public parks, streets of downtown, museums, etc.), and keep talking to girl after girl until you have a couple numbers to text with to keep yourself busy, hopefully those numbers respond and you don't have to send pictures because you feel needy
Author:  7000 [ Tue May 22, 2012 9:40 am ]
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Ok,Although it was effective on girls who I was in touch with and lost connection for while, I won't send it.
I texted her : " hi X,this is Y. How are you doing girl?"
No response after 3 hours. I know the text is boring especially after 4 days.
But I thought she liked me.What happens was: she got my phone and put her number in my phone and called her number. Probably she didn't save my number.
So what should I do now?
I don't do a lot of text game, I don't care for it much myself. But I can offer from personal experience on what worked for me when a guy used a similar tactic.

I think sexy pictures are great in the right context. I had a guy send me a picture of him at the gym looking extremely good with the caption "So you don't forget what I look like." Had me smitten.

I'm going to say you had a missed opportunity, you sent an especially boring text. When I get texts like these I usually read them, then toss my phone aside, unless I really like the guy. I think texting her back tonight would come off as a little desperate, but as a female I don't think sending a picture of yourself would come off as creepy. Maybe try again tomorrow with a fresh outlook, maybe look through some text game material. The texts I'm usually more inclined to respond to are the ones that bring up something we've talked about.

I went out with this guy who was teasing me like crazy after I gave him the green light and went pervy on him (lol) said something along the lines of "Oh I'd love to give you a bath. Just pamper and spoil you, rub you down and lather you up. Dry you off and then pick you up and carry you to the bed then we could...play a really bitchin game of Yugioh." I didn't hear from him for 2 or 3 days (gave him my number) and then I got a random text that said "Up for a game of yugioh?" Maybe try bringing something up you talked about that will associate a positive/sexual/tension memory of you to the text if you got that far.
How much had you spoken to the guy from the gym before though? I'd have though you would needed to have already felt quite a lot of attraction/chemistry to like that, but I'll take your word on it given that you're a female and I'm not!

The bit in bold at the bottom is good advice though. Having an 'inside joke' or some sort of connection is a great way of building rapport, no reason why that shouldn't be the same for text game. I actually got something similar sent to me the other day. I'd lost contact with a girl I was seeing towards the end of last year, but then out of the blue she text me saying 'wow I'm almost as bad as staying in contact as you are at bowling'. We had been bowling on one of our early dates and she beat me (I played the "letting her win" card, but she wasn't having it), and something like that is a really good way of having a hook to get the conversation going but also to relate back to that person and create a sense of comfort.
Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Tue May 22, 2012 12:15 pm ]
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dude, that is such an afc move. even i wouldnt do this.
she has not responded me, so she may have forgotten me or she may not as interested as before since I texted after 4 days. I think girls are visual. It could create attraction.
I don't care if it is afc but I don't want to look creepy. The only reason I am asking is that she is going to the same college as I am and although I graduated I may see her again.(like with probability of 10%). So I don't want to look creepy.
You sound like a pussy.

If she forgot you - you didn't MAKE her remember. That's on you.

A chick ignores you and a pic will reel her back in? That's fucking funny!

Seriously, you look like a pussy - and this is why you've been forgotten.

Lesson learned - improve and move forward.

RR
Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Tue May 22, 2012 12:17 pm ]
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Ok,Although it was effective on girls who I was in touch with and lost connection for while, I won't send it.
I texted her : " hi X,this is Y. How are you doing girl?"
No response after 3 hours. I know the text is boring especially after 4 days.
But I thought she liked me.What happens was: she got my phone and put her number in my phone and called her number. Probably she didn't save my number.
So what should I do now?
Now, you should wake the fuck up and move on. She moved on right after 'getting your number' - you should too.

If not, welcome to one-itis... Enjoy it.

RR
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