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Author:  RustledJimmies [ Mon May 21, 2012 10:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Same old "what should I do in this situation"?
So I met this girl on online dating site and we chatted (have common interests) for a few days now and I really see signs and remarks from her messages that she's really interested in me and would love to meet me personally, but I was consciously ignoring them because of stupid and kinda selfish reason: she's not my type. I mean, judging from here photos I am not physically attracted to her. :oops: (and no, she's not fat, and actually, I sometimes prefer chubby women, but that's another story)

And not to sound like a total asshole, I am not a model myself (not fat either), but still, it's either my standards are too high or I am just blind or something? I just don't want to hurt her feelings (she seems like the type of girls that aren't picked up very often, because I wasn't even trying to impress her through my messages, I just acted normal, even purposefully made "mistakes", so to speak), but she still keeps enjoying it, so it's a definite attraction.

For the record, fun fact: I haven't had a girlfriend in my life, so maybe I should try to hook up with her and to look where it goes? But even if we meet, I probably won't be able to escalate anything sexual because of my impression that she is kinda a loner like me and I would only scare her away (and I am horny as fuck at this time, I haven't fapped for more than 40 days).

Again, I don't know for sure, that's just my impression, but I feel, that I am guessing right on this one.

So what would you guys do in my situation? Take the bait and try to look where it goes or leave before it's too late?
Author:  crowdude [ Mon May 21, 2012 10:40 pm ]
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Unless she's explicitly told you that she expects something more from you than friendship, just be friends with her. You can still meetup with her and maybe make an amazing friend from it.
You have to remember that being a PUA doesn't mean that you always have to fuck hot girls. It's also broadening your social circle and interacting with whoever you find interesting without any hesitancy.
My advice: meetup with her as a friend, hang out and have a good time etc. Maybe you might end up liking her in the end. Just don't have sex with her just because you're horny :S that's a terrible reason to have sex.
Author:  unknownpoet [ Mon May 21, 2012 10:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Same old "what should I do in this situation"?
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For the record, fun fact: I haven't had a girlfriend in my life

Do you known this forum is about PUA right?

For you being here it's like trying to learn quantum physics without knowing how to read.

imo just go fuck her. lose your virginity grow some balls. make yourself a man. then report back for further instructions.
Author:  RustledJimmies [ Mon May 21, 2012 11:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Same old "what should I do in this situation"?
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For the record, fun fact: I haven't had a girlfriend in my life

Do you known this forum is about PUA right?

For you being here it's like trying to learn quantum physics without knowing how to read.

imo just go fuck her. lose your virginity grow some balls. make yourself a man. then report back for further instructions.
I am not here to become just another PUA, dude :) I am here to learn something about people and specially, women psychology and how to approach and interact with them, my intention isn't simply to learn how to fuck any women I like and take pride on this , that's shallow and no surprise many people see PUA sites as lounges for assholes (no offense to normal people here).

And if you haven't noticed, this website is overrun by virgins (including those, who only had sex once while being drunk at some party) and they are all trying to make themselves better persons, not just "have sex" for the sake of losing virginity.

Thanks for advice anyway.
Author:  RustledJimmies [ Mon May 21, 2012 11:11 pm ]
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Unless she's explicitly told you that she expects something more from you than friendship, just be friends with her. You can still meetup with her and maybe make an amazing friend from it.
You have to remember that being a PUA doesn't mean that you always have to fuck hot girls. It's also broadening your social circle and interacting with whoever you find interesting without any hesitancy.
My advice: meetup with her as a friend, hang out and have a good time etc. Maybe you might end up liking her in the end. Just don't have sex with her just because you're horny :S that's a terrible reason to have sex.
Thanks, really well said :) Just to repeat myself, I am not trying to become PUA, hope no one will ban me for this :D I just like psychology and I like some PUA ideas and just trying to take back all the time I wasted in my teens, by interacting with people and have a girlfriend. That's all I need at this time.

So yes, I will probably try to meet with her, because after all, probably what I need most at this time, is not just a gf but a simple friend with common interests and she is kinda like me in a sense.
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