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Author:  CaptainJackHarkness [ Mon May 21, 2012 6:55 am ]
Post subject:  What To Do When A Girl Says 'Fuck Off'

Just a quick note to people....note sure if any of you have gotten this - but I saw a HB10 at a club. Went right to her and her friends and said "You all look like you're fucking boring."

One girl said Fuck Off! Pulling her friends away. I went towards them and went to the Fuck Off girl - and went 'FUCK OFF!' These are my friends, I brought them here. You can't PICK THEM UP. Fuck Off!

And she was like what? I'm like I'M Protecting them from girls like you (her own friends). She started laughing and said her name right away.

If you get told to fuck off - PERSIST

DON'T LET HER CONTROL YOUR FRAME.

Author:  CaptainJackHarkness [ Mon May 21, 2012 7:10 am ]
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I wanted to add...I honestly wouldn't let an actual fuck-off in daytime phase me. Don't think anyone is willing to do that in the day though....

Author:  daffy duck [ Mon May 21, 2012 8:36 am ]
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i would have started crying....

although are you sure your opener wasn't too aggressive? you did call them fucking boring...

Author:  Defy [ Mon May 21, 2012 6:21 pm ]
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I don't know if you planed of opening with that or not. What used to happen to me often is I am in the state and having a good time and I approach the next set and their energy is just so fucking low and I can't help but use similar opener to yours. The thing is they always get defensive after that I get something like you got. Just don't use it ever again. You are shooting yourself in the foot for no reason. Unless you wanna screw with them and see how far you can push it.

Author:  Picun [ Mon May 21, 2012 6:44 pm ]
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Great example of frame control. Inspiring Dude! Thanx!

Author:  CaptainJackHarkness [ Tue May 22, 2012 3:05 am ]
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Defy has a point. It can INTIMIDATE people, but I feel like those people are of low value if they get intimidated or knocked off a pedestal they keep for themselves when they can't see the blatant fucking smirk/smile on my face.

Author:  tareaxtragedy [ Tue May 22, 2012 3:17 am ]
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That's...pretty fucking genius I have to say. I think your opener was a little too aggressive for my tastes. I'm a nice one though, I can't be rude to people if I tried unless they were really just horrible. But that definitely would have made me look at my friends like "wtf" depending on delivery. But, you would've won me back with the whole "these are my friends" deal- again depending on delivery. Definitely unique.

Author:  CaptainJackHarkness [ Tue May 22, 2012 3:49 am ]
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It was definitely aggressive, but they were FUCKING boring. No joke. I mean throughout the night, they didn't dance, they turned down absolutely anyone who wanted to dance, and I just couldn't think of anything other than: WHY ARE YOU EVEN HERE?!

Author:  supraman [ Tue May 22, 2012 4:24 am ]
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she said her name... and that was the end of it lol jk dude

Author:  EddieFews [ Tue May 22, 2012 8:32 am ]
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It was definitely aggressive, but they were FUCKING boring. No joke. I mean throughout the night, they didn't dance, they turned down absolutely anyone who wanted to dance, and I just couldn't think of anything other than: WHY ARE YOU EVEN HERE?!
If they were so boring why bother if opening them or wasting your time with stuck up bitches?

Why do you feel the need to express your manliness and call out women for not wanting to be interested in anyone there?

And that opener is a bit too much man... Where did you learn about approaching?

Author:  CaptainJackHarkness [ Tue May 22, 2012 9:49 am ]
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They seemed like stuck up bitches, sure. But I tend to not mental masturbate about what girls might seem like. I figured I'd give it a shot. And once again people are getting seriously caught up on this fucking opener. Girls don't give a shit about the opener.

I've opened girls saying "and then it went away to toon town"

I mean they don't fucking care. I just go what...nothing whats your name.

The opener is bullshit. In this case, i wanted them to definitely hear it. But turns out they were pretty nice girls by the end of the night. They had issues but they were really cool girls after all.

Turns out they told me they actually came to turn down guys. I didn't think this was real...but turns out some girls show up to do that.

Also I didn't feel like a man for calling them out...just like..not socially retarded.

Author:  daffy duck [ Tue May 22, 2012 11:33 am ]
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I was just shit testing you about your opener...

You failed miserably. Qualified yourself to no end... :D

Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Tue May 22, 2012 11:43 am ]
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Never had that happen at a bar, but I also don't have the stones to use that heavy of an opener.

Kudos for that - I'm sure it's a game-separator. It'll weed out the PUAs from the AFCs, that's for sure (Challenge accepted! I'm going to work that opening on purpose this weekend).

During the day, I've told a lady "If you lowered that that aura of hate around you, we might actually get along..." and I've bounced. I've even been pulled back with "I'm not a bad person, I'm haivn g areally bad day" and that offers my easy line of "I didn't make your day bad, I don't appreciate you trying to make MY day bad. I was m,erely saying you look amazing, and we needed to meet... I was obviously mistaken". The takeaway here works well.

I've also told a chick that if she were ice cream, she'd be 'pralines and bitch'. That always gets a giggle. But yeah, never told a set they were fucking boring fromt he onset.

I'll let you know how it goes this weekend. I've got homeowrk to do.

RR

Author:  Defy [ Tue May 22, 2012 3:57 pm ]
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I've also told a chick that if she were ice cream, she'd be 'pralines and bitch'.
Great one. :) I'll try to remember this. What do you do btw? I think I read somewhere you are like 45?

Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Tue May 22, 2012 5:15 pm ]
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I've also told a chick that if she were ice cream, she'd be 'pralines and bitch'.
Great one. :) I'll try to remember this. What do you do btw? I think I read somewhere you are like 45?
Recruiting. Self-employed and work from home. Fully maverick.

And yes, I'm 45.

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