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Author:  Ironclad23 [ Sat May 19, 2012 6:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Need some serious advice (Horrible Social Life)(Cliffs)
Whats up gents?? Watched a few PUA vids and figured I'd register on the forums. I'm having a tough time with life in general and looking for some advice on my situation.

I'm 23 years old living in the West End of Toronto. Moved here a year ago and have had absolutely no time to meet people or socialize at all with work and gym life. I'm curious what I should do as I have absolutely 0 friends in this area and the people I work with are all 20+ years older than me. How the hell am I supposed to meet new people? lmao this is incredibly sad but I really don't know where else to turn. I can't even work on my online game because my pictures are shit. Don't have any of me doing any kind of activities in the last few years. I am starting off here with an entirely clean slate and hoping to learn as much as I can.

Do people link up with Wingman's on this site at all? Do you guys think my best bet would be to go out to a bar alone and just try and mingle?

I've slayed a lot of women and don't want to come across like I'm e-bragging/stating but I've had previous luck in real life and online. I've been very dry these past couple years. I've never once approached a woman out of the blue either. I'm not the greatest looking guy that's for sure I really don't know where my style went or how I got by back in the day but the time is now and I need help.

Sorry for wall of text

Cliffs:
-OP has no friends in area
-OP spends all his time playing video games and working
-OP has no pictures for online game
-OP wants to make friends and have a social life again
-OP wants to know best method of acquiring some cool brahs with my situation.

Thanks :D :D
Author:  unknownpoet [ Sat May 19, 2012 6:58 pm ]
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PUA stuff needs time. loads of it. you absolutely NEED time. if you don't have any just work on that. making time, reorganize your life. THEN you can start.
Author:  Defy [ Sat May 19, 2012 7:51 pm ]
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you don't have time to meet new people, but have time for video games.

Dude, you should get your priorities straight.
Author:  Ironclad23 [ Sat May 19, 2012 8:01 pm ]
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you don't have time to meet new people, but have time for video games.

Dude, you should get your priorities straight.
I am moving in the right direction with this post looking to SET my priorities properly. The fact I spend my time playing vids does not mean I will continue doing so. I'm just trying to figure out how I can make some friends at this point, expand my social circle and get moving with the wimmenz. Don't mean to come off rude but I am going to give it my all. Most people have those 2-3 close friends they can call up on a Friday and do something. I do not. Reason for that is irrelevant but the time is now and I need to move forward.
Author:  Ironclad23 [ Sat May 19, 2012 8:05 pm ]
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PUA stuff needs time. loads of it. you absolutely NEED time. if you don't have any just work on that. making time, reorganize your life. THEN you can start.
I've made some time, opened my weekends right up. I am ready to start.
Author:  Defy [ Sat May 19, 2012 8:17 pm ]
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Most people have those 2-3 close friends they can call up on a Friday and do something. I do not. Reason for that is irrelevant but the time is now and I need to move forward.
That's the right attitude. But I can't understand how you can't find anyone to call to hang out? I was a fucking loser 5 years ago, but I still had people to hang out with.

Like Anthony Robbins says, outer restrictions are not what stops us, but inner restrictions. If it is like you say, no one from where you work, where you live, where you do whatever (which is hard to believe to me), change some of that. Change your job, change where you live. Thought I heard there was this one guy from Toronto that made it. :D
Author:  Ironclad23 [ Sat May 19, 2012 8:31 pm ]
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Most people have those 2-3 close friends they can call up on a Friday and do something. I do not. Reason for that is irrelevant but the time is now and I need to move forward.
That's the right attitude. But I can't understand how you can't find anyone to call to hang out? I was a fucking loser 5 years ago, but I still had people to hang out with.

Like Anthony Robbins says, outer restrictions are not what stops us, but inner restrictions. If it is like you say, no one from where you work, where you live, where you do whatever (which is hard to believe to me), change some of that. Change your job, change where you live. Thought I heard there was this one guy from Toronto that made it. :D
Honestly my closest friends from high school moved out to Western Canada for work and I am just living on my own and doing the same old bland thing everyday. I really want to go out tonight but damn! Nobody to call! The job part is something that can't change, very difficult to find jobs these days, however everything else I am willing to change for sure.
Author:  Defy [ Sat May 19, 2012 8:48 pm ]
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I really want to go out tonight but damn! Nobody to call! The job part is something that can't change, very difficult to find jobs these days, however everything else I am willing to change for sure.
This is where you are making mistake. You are passive and you are waiting for something to magically happen.
Author:  Ironclad23 [ Sat May 19, 2012 8:52 pm ]
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I really want to go out tonight but damn! Nobody to call! The job part is something that can't change, very difficult to find jobs these days, however everything else I am willing to change for sure.
This is where you are making mistake. You are passive and you are waiting for something to magically happen.
Damn you're good. Yeah that's exactly me. What do you recommend? Just get the f**k out there?
Author:  Defy [ Sat May 19, 2012 9:02 pm ]
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I really want to go out tonight but damn! Nobody to call! The job part is something that can't change, very difficult to find jobs these days, however everything else I am willing to change for sure.
This is where you are making mistake. You are passive and you are waiting for something to magically happen.
Damn you're good. Yeah that's exactly me. What do you recommend? Just get the f**k out there?
Yes. Even if you don't talk to no one tonight, you will still feel better. Game is mostly about momentum, nothing else.
Author:  daffy duck [ Sat May 19, 2012 9:03 pm ]
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yeah just go out. i remember just going out to a pub in camden and started drinking. after a few jds i was just hanging outside and random people were just talking to me chatting.

once i went to a bar late at night and ended up in bed with the bar manager. she was female. lol

better still get a job in a bar. you're socialising and working at the same time.
Author:  Ironclad23 [ Sat May 19, 2012 9:31 pm ]
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Thanks you guys have been great. Gonna head out tonight see what happens. You guys recommend me any reading/watching material in my free time on here?
Author:  Defy [ Sat May 19, 2012 9:41 pm ]
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Use your free time to do something ACTIVE you enjoy. You can always listen to audio program on your way there.
Author:  Ironclad23 [ Sat May 19, 2012 9:43 pm ]
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Use your free time to do something ACTIVE you enjoy. You can always listen to audio program on your way there.
Audio program such as??? :D thx man you've been a huge help srs. Will give reps when they are high enough, plan on sticking around for awhile.
Author:  Defy [ Sat May 19, 2012 9:51 pm ]
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Mystery Method Interview Series. There are like 50 volumes on different topics. Really good stuff.

Style's Anihilation method. You have to convert avi to mp3 though, since these are DVDs.

Swinggcat also has good audio programs.

Carlos Xuma Alpha male or something.

Who cares about rep man. I rarely even come here. Glad I could help you though. And don't plan to stick here for a while. Go out there and live your life.

Edit: Anthony Robbins also. He is fucking amazing.
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