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| Author: | Brotein [ Fri May 18, 2012 10:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Created attraction, didn't number close, next move?(college) |
last month I was out with these girls partying. this hb blonde gives me mad iois. begins the night with tapping my arm with her hands. receptive to conversation. smiling. we location change a couple of times because i'm with her friends. torwards the end of the night we are at a house party shes off getting hit on by other guys and im just casually playing beerpong with one of my other girlfriends. we leave party shes having a hard time walking on her heels so she takes my arm when i offer it. we sit on curb waiting for cab and we get into deeper conversation. why she came to this college because I didn't think she was a typical girl that would go here. more qualifiers and connecting. when cab arrives she takes my hand into the cab and while i hate the word we "cuddle" the whole way back. we get back to my place and the group of girls decides they want to head back home. I can't really close on the hb blonde because shes with her roomates. it ends with a hug close. I didn't get the number. for some reason I thought it would actually help me not to go for it as to create non neediness... not to mention she complained about clingy guys earlier. didn't know if it was the right thing to do though. 2 days later she adds me on facebook. I guess shes still in town while alot of people left for the summer. do I A. message her on facebook and invite her out B. attempt to get her friend to come out and hopefully she comes with. (have no idea if shes still in town but she might come later) C. just hope to randomly run into her again (may or may not happen) does option A come across as needy? thanks |
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| Author: | charblad [ Fri May 18, 2012 11:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Created attraction, didn't number close, next move?(college) |
Quote: it ends with a hug close. I didn't get the number. for some reason I thought it would actually help me not to go for it as to create non neediness... not to mention she complained about clingy guys earlier. didn't know if it was the right thing to do though. No, just no lol2 days later she adds me on facebook. I guess shes still in town while alot of people left for the summer. do I A. message her on facebook and invite her out B. attempt to get her friend to come out and hopefully she comes with. (have no idea if shes still in town but she might come later) C. just hope to randomly run into her again (may or may not happen) does option A come across as needy? hugging her at the end of the day is "being friendly" (friendzone material) getting her number is called "being a man" calling her is called "being a man" calling her 24 times a day is called "being needy" See the difference? I can get the vibe that you're pretty new to this, so I'll be pretty blunt A) it's ok, not the best option (you should get her number, that way you have more direct access to her, and just overall facebook game is frowned on, not bad or hard, just frowned on) B) sounds like a bad idea, lotta bad things can happen, women like to gossip C) NEVER EVER think this; everytime you think "i'll get a second chance" tell yourself you wouln't, you might, but 9 times out of 10 you will not get another chance (and the one chance you do will be with that ugly chick you didn't like in the first place >< ) Quote: she complained about clingy guys earlier What she really means is she doesn't want a guy who has to know where she is, and what she's doing every day - she wants a guy who's independentRecap: GET HER NUMBER |
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