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Author:  GKS [ Fri May 18, 2012 8:01 pm ]
Post subject:  My dilemma with picking up.
I have no idea why, but it seems that ever since I've been doing pickup, I talked to a lot more girls, gotten a lot more confidence and better at handling them, even more number closes. However, I've gotten less f-closed than before I started doing it. Before I gamed only a few girls but I f-closed most of them.

I wonder if either I'm doing something wrong, or my old natural way is more fit to my personality than all these canned routines and "fake it til make it"/"women are disposable" mindset.
Author:  charblad [ Fri May 18, 2012 8:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: My dilemma with picking up.
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I have no idea why, but it seems that ever since I've been doing pickup, I talked to a lot more girls, gotten a lot more confidence and better at handling them, even more number closes. However, I've gotten less f-closed than before I started doing it. Before I gamed only a few girls but I f-closed most of them.

I wonder if either I'm doing something wrong, or my old natural way is more fit to my personality than all these canned routines and "fake it til make it"/"women are disposable" mindset.
Or maybe you raised your standards and are getting higher quality women now... which don't "sleep around" as much
Author:  GKS [ Fri May 18, 2012 8:22 pm ]
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Oh right I might have overlooked that. I go for 8 or above nowadays :p Comparing to how I used to think 7.5 is out of my league, it was a big step up.

Any suggestion on how to be more success as F-closed HB8s or 9s? HB10 is a bit out of reach for me at the moment.
Author:  unknownpoet [ Fri May 18, 2012 10:02 pm ]
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nothing is out of reach. the limits are just in your own mind. with that mentality you'll never get a 10. try, practice. you'll get there.
about F-close maybe you are doing something wrong. review your game, find out what's happen. change it and move on.
Author:  In$tinct [ Fri May 18, 2012 10:13 pm ]
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Try this scale: There are no 10s, 8s, 7s etc. Two types of girls exist: 1) I want to bang her. 2) I don't want to bang her.

If you adopt to this mindset you'll never again worry about a girl being "out of your league"(there's no such things anyway... hotter girls are just as easy as not so hot girls. sometimes even easier)
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