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Author:  Criss hell [ Fri May 18, 2012 5:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Hb 9 - I don't want to fuck it up-plz help

I've seen this hb9 at college and two weeks go I saw her at a bar with her friends. I approached her and introduced myself.Since she was with her friends and I wasn't able to talk her friends she told me she had to join her friends since they wanted to get drinks. So I left her and started to talk to other chicks. She saw me talking to hbs and She was not so happy, since I didn't come back for her that night.
Last night I saw her with her friends at a bar and this time I asked her to introduce me to her friends and after that I talked to her for like 5 mins, she told me one of her friends is from where I am from (same nationality) but she is not here now.
I told her I'd like to meet her too when she comes back.So I told her let's be in touch and she gave her number to me.After getting number and talking for 1 min she told me she had to join her friends. Actually, her friends were waiting for her.
So my question is that,she gave me IOIs like having eye contact with me and checking me out when I talk to other hbs. She is a little shy.But I didn't like the reason for getting her number and her reason for ending my conversation.
I want to know how deep I can go with this hb based on the fact I talked to her for like 10 mins and what I should do next?
Thank you,

Author:  agentprovocateur [ Fri May 18, 2012 6:00 pm ]
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Long story short, call her and find out.

Wondering about this, that, and the next thing with a girl you've yet to even go out with is like talking about the outcome of a sports match that hasn't even happened yet. In other words, it's a complete waste of time.

Author:  xxXTemptationXxx [ Fri May 18, 2012 6:50 pm ]
Post subject:  What you Should Really Do!

Quote:
Long story short, call her and find out.

Wondering about this, that, and the next thing with a girl you've yet to even go out with is like talking about the outcome of a sports match that hasn't even happened yet. In other words, it's a complete waste of time.
I know It might appear to you that it's a big deal! , AND THAT'S PERFECTLY OK! I have fucked up so many sets when I was a newbie that It's not even funny. But The Best advice and what you should really do, is:

Wait for a couple days text her saying I'm going to do this: (have a plan ) for example say I'm going to drop some shit at my sister's tomorrow you can keep me company, only if you'd behave. , or you'd say My friends and I are having a kick as party this weekend but before I run I'm having a couple drinks at this bar, you can tag along . YOU SEE! I'm not inviting her to my event but I'm letting her spend time with me out of curtesy. Girls LOVE BUSSY and popular guys (guys with high social value) have plans all the time, they don't have time for dates and even if they had they didn't need to take a girl to a restaurant and spend a fuck load of money on her to get laid. (girls are after them all the time , so they're not needy) Always remember the best way to blow yourself out with a girl is to show her that she has higher value than you. you're DONE!,

Guess What?!

If she didn't answer , DO NOT CALL/TEXT her again, she's not worth your time big boy! Imagine if you we're a very high value guy (a celebrity...) would you care if she didn't answer your text / didn't come to your plan?!

Fuck NO

So, be completely chilled about it, and it it didn't catch don't give a fuck, there are lots of fish in the sea, (AND YES I MEAN A LOT OF HB10s) you just have to believe it and not give the Value that they don't deserve (haven't worked for!)
look at the second part of this article you'll see what I mean.
GOOD LUCK, Playa,

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Author:  Criss hell [ Fri May 18, 2012 9:25 pm ]
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Thank you guys for the help.
Just want to give you more details. she saw me opening girls like crazy.I am not crazy hot but good looking enough that stands me out. So, she knows or at least thinks I have so many options and I know one of her friends is interested in me but didn't have a chance to talk to her.
So the reason I am worried is that the bar was so noisy and it was impossible for me to talk to her properly.But when she started talking to me her body language was great.she was standing face to face me while ignoring her friends behind her.
She was the one suggesting me to give me her number.
Generally, she likes me sexually but don't know exactly who I am. I don't want to call her first.I think the first step would be texting like in 3 days.I don't know it's too much or not. Guys what do you think?

Author:  agentprovocateur [ Fri May 18, 2012 10:14 pm ]
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Quote:
Thank you guys for the help.
Just want to give you more details. she saw me opening girls like crazy.I am not crazy hot but good looking enough that stands me out. So, she knows or at least thinks I have so many options and I know one of her friends is interested in me but didn't have a chance to talk to her.
So the reason I am worried is that the bar was so noisy and it was impossible for me to talk to her properly.But when she started talking to me her body language was great.she was standing face to face me while ignoring her friends behind her.
She was the one suggesting me to give me her number.
Generally, she likes me sexually but don't know exactly who I am. I don't want to call her first.I think the first step would be texting like in 3 days.I don't know it's too much or not. Guys what do you think?
You're making all these assumptions, you aren't a mind reader. Ask her out already.

Author:  Criss hell [ Fri May 18, 2012 11:57 pm ]
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Quote:
You're making all these assumptions, you aren't a mind reader. Ask her out already.
I'll ask her out but I don't have a good experience calling as the first option. 70% time no answer and have to leave a message.But when I text the person instead of calling for the first time, from her response I know how much she is interested in going further.

Author:  xxXTemptationXxx [ Sat May 19, 2012 2:45 am ]
Post subject:  I Like the Three day wait period

Quote:

You're making all these assumptions, you aren't a mind reader. Ask her out already.
Dude, I agree you are over analysing a little bit, but you really have to keep in
mind that If she is a HB9 she probably has guys hitting on her all the time,
so don't get trapped into the Idea that She's really into you because she
faced you while talking to you, she might have just being polite.
(I don't mean this in a bad way) just remember, hot girls are such
flakes so she might flake on you when you setup plans,
(DO NOT MAKE A BIG DEAL IF SHE DOES!)
but punish her
by ignoring her for a while working on other targets. If her
friend likes you try to sleep with the friend first.
That will give you two BIG bonuses,

1. you get laid with two different girls

2. you're setting up a jealousy plot line!

Jealousy is a much more powerful factor in girls than hornyness.
get her jealous and
she's in your bed.


ps. don't micro analyse her behaviour too much just be chill and don't take her seriously, she'll try harder for your approval!
(from years of experience with SHBs)

Best of Luck and Game ONNNN :twisted: :twisted:

Author:  DJ_Z [ Sat May 19, 2012 2:48 am ]
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...if the girl doesn't give a shit about you, why would she get jealous? The guy does have a basic idea right. You dont' wanna panic about this girl? Then stop not meeting other women. This is the common problem. Guy meets hot chick. Guy has some "success," which can be debated to no end for no real purpose, with hot chick. Guy doesn't talk to other hot chicks cuz he focuses on getting original hot chick. Hot chick wonders why guy constantly talks to her, and loses interest. So just meet other women.

Author:  xxXTemptationXxx [ Sat May 19, 2012 11:19 am ]
Post subject:  Why She will Become Jealous!

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...if the girl doesn't give a shit about you, why would she get jealous?
Here's Why the girl will get jealous BigBoy! DJ_Z:

Why the girls doesn't give a shit about him in the first place?
because he hasn't created enough attraction for the girl to give a shit (invest in the interaction).

Why is that?

Because he hasn't conveyed enough VALUE for her to do so!

Wy would fucking her friends make her jealous?
because it demonstrates value in the following ways:

1. It show's preselection (that they guys has already been chosen by another girl)

2. Because it's target's friend she has no choice but to feel jealousy and competition because that's what we as humans are hardwired to do when we see our peers scoring when we don't.


3.jelousy plot-lining is FUCKING POWERFULL I've seen girls fucking heroine dealers without condoms just based on jealousy plot-line!


I agree with the rest of your stuff though DJ_Z! , good work man,:D
that's a very common sticking point, but you'll get passed that if you do enough sets.

Author:  Soncheese [ Sat May 19, 2012 11:45 am ]
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Its simple

If you want her, you go make the move on her

Call her and ask her out because obviously like you said shes "shy"

Man up ;)

Soncheese x

Author:  P-Style [ Sun May 20, 2012 10:55 am ]
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Don't call her a nine. It fucks up your mind and fucks up advice here. Every girl has guys hitting on her. It doesn't matter when there's sufficient attraction.

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