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| Author: | traffic247 [ Fri May 18, 2012 2:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to avoid the Friendzone. |
Is there anyway of getting out of the firendzone! and how do you build attraction with a female friend? There is a girl who puts most guys in the friendzone and never goes out with any of them. I am scared that I might be in the friendzone like the other guys so how do I game this type of a girl who is really hot and get loads of guys hitting on her? Please give me some tips. Thanks in advance. |
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| Author: | RetiredRodeo [ Fri May 18, 2012 2:19 pm ] |
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Gain compliance by making your intent known or leave. People get put into the friendzone, but aren't forced to stay there. If you're not sure how.... Caveman your way out or bolt.... or agree to the 'LJBF'. RR |
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| Author: | mapleleaf [ Fri May 18, 2012 2:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to avoid the Friendzone. |
Quote: Is there anyway of getting out of the firendzone! and how do you build attraction with a female friend?
To get out of friendzone, you will have to STOP seeing her, calling her, texting her imeediately. STOP all the activites, and CUT OFF all the interactions with her. Have NO contact with her for 3 to 4 months. Then when you come back to her again, you show your sexual side, and start acting differntly from what you used to act with her before. This time she will think "Wow, this guy have really changed, and she will start noticing your sexual side, and will start falling for you." Women put men in friend zone, due to men's personalities. If you are a masculine (not muscular), manly man, she will give you time before putting you in the friend zone.
There is a girl who puts most guys in the friendzone and never goes out with any of them. I am scared that I might be in the friendzone like the other guys so how do I game this type of a girl who is really hot and get loads of guys hitting on her? Please give me some tips. Thanks in advance. |
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| Author: | unknownpoet [ Fri May 18, 2012 3:59 pm ] |
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friendzone is indeed a major cockblock. you can't pick up a girl if you are in the friendzone. you really have to get out of it first. and that takes time. weeks maybe months. that's why it sucks so much. ofc there are some situations where you can get out quickly like if a girl is fragile and you act cavemen to comfort her and fuck her. then you became friend with benefits. but usually it takes time. |
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| Author: | skills360 [ Fri May 18, 2012 4:03 pm ] |
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| Author: | RetiredRodeo [ Fri May 18, 2012 4:42 pm ] |
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Quote: friendzone is indeed a major cockblock. you can't pick up a girl if you are in the friendzone. you really have to get out of it first. and that takes time. weeks maybe months. that's why it sucks so much.
Poet, I disagree man.ofc there are some situations where you can get out quickly like if a girl is fragile and you act cavemen to comfort her and fuck her. then you became friend with benefits. but usually it takes time. I see it like this... New chicks aren't my friends. My friends are people I can call anytime and count on. Can I do this with this chick right now? Highly doubtful. So, YOU make the decision about 'friendzone'. If she wants to friendzone me... I'll say "I don't fuck my friends."... or you can start kino then and there. Hand on the small of her back, slowly lower than the norm - right over the top of her ass, as you lean over to say something... YOU show the intent, and she makes the snap decision. If it's 'friendzone' then "Cool, we should hang out sometime..." and BAIL. If she contacts you via text, be random/funny - don't chat her up, try to make the conversation sexual, and re-assess. Still friendzone? Then tell her "Listen, I'm sure you have hot friends... so, buddy-to-buddy, I wanna meet them..." If you're not friendzone'd - FUCK her. If this is a chick you really want as friends... there's no issue as it is. The ONLY time I've been hit with friendzone trouble is when there's an outside influence (fucking my dad's cancer surgeon, for example), even then, I confronted the issue, and made my intent known. The only way this is an issue is if you allow it to be an issue, guys... RR |
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| Author: | unknownpoet [ Fri May 18, 2012 6:03 pm ] |
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RetiredRodeo it's a semantic problem. ofc they are not REAL friends. I don't consider them that. But they can consider your friends despite you not wanting it. that's why you act like that and don't let that ever happen. and that's cool. but most guys here have friendzone issues. sure you don't have because you are experienced and known very well how to deal with it. sure the best way to solve a problem is to avoid it. but the op clearly has problems because he ends up in the friendzone and he's seeking advice about it. |
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| Author: | agentprovocateur [ Fri May 18, 2012 6:10 pm ] |
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Friendzone isn't so cut-and-dry as people think. I've ended up fucking girls I've befriended. If they are attracted to you, friendzone is a bit an illusion in that if you escalate even slightly they're all too willing to jump on your cock (tension has built massively for a long period of time). But generally speaking if you're truly in friendzone you'd likely have to cut contact and re-invent yourself before coming back to her (there'll be a different air about you and she'll be intrigued by this, ideally). To avoid FZ from the getgo show her you're a man who can sexually escalate - be a sexual predator. The worst that can happen is she blows you out, in which case you don't waste your time 'befriending' her under the guise of wanting her and feeling the hurt and anguish of knowing she's dating/fucking other guys who weren't afraid to escalate. |
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| Author: | traffic247 [ Sat May 19, 2012 7:37 pm ] |
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I think that the friend zone happens when you do not create attraction with the girl or I think initially the girl does not find you attractive therefore she says she only sees you as a friend! But is there ways of turning this around and making her see you in a different light? Thats what i want to find out! |
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| Author: | daffy duck [ Sat May 19, 2012 8:35 pm ] |
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friendzone isn't always bad news. i used to regularly see this girl who i was sleeping with who would tell me we were only friends. fine by me, i said as i asked if she had any condoms. she had a lot of 'friends'... |
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