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Author:  will29 [ Fri May 18, 2012 11:46 am ]
Post subject:  I do wonder is this is for me

When something seems like it will never happen. I have to wonder if I need to change my view on things. My view on sex is messed up, I want to think its wrong or naughty. Mostly its that high school/college thing I missed out on where I picked up that a lot of people were doing it. I have a high school/college mentality view of sex. I have thought of monagamous sex and thought how could that be exciting? To make someone feel good that cares about you for you? I guess its selfish of me that I don't care about that. And monagamy usually means the right one and what if the right one isnt attractive to me. What if the right one is even being kept from me because I'm shallow? Also, I feel its wrong to just be relegated To one person the rest of your life. I mean, where's the fun or badness in that?

When I hear about why guys have sex, I hear the trite "it feels good, its awesome" yet I'm thinking the real reason is because they want to be a man and boss women around in addition to that. Idk, this is my view of casual sex. And its also my view on sex. Love at 30 isnt like love in your teens, where love can be naughty or dirty then, because puppy love or whatever is looked upon as a cool clique thing. AT 30, love is almost like a lifelong relationship. Noone is going to say how cool it is, nor is it going to feel so dirty when you start saying "I love you."

Back to topic on hand, if I changed my view on sex. then I would have to go for love rather than lust and might as well be a Christian, since I don't believe Christianity and lust can go together and I will never act on that combination. Sometimes, I wonder if the luck I'm having in life is the hand of God and He doesnt want me to be a player. I don't want to get all religious here but the truth is the biggest separation from it is casual sex. And do I want someone else controlling my life? No, I don't! I wonder if I became a athiest or embraced suffering afterwards and became a satanist would better things happen for me. Would I finally get what I want, maybe?

Author:  LBot [ Fri May 18, 2012 12:49 pm ]
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That made no sense. One minute your saying you don't want manogomy then you are saying you don't want casual sex?

Only in Florida.

Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Fri May 18, 2012 12:58 pm ]
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That made no sense. One minute your saying you don't want manogomy then you are saying you don't want casual sex?

Only in Florida.
LOL...

Not true...

I'm in Florida, and don't have any issue knowing what I want...

LOL

RR

Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Fri May 18, 2012 1:09 pm ]
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When I hear about why guys have sex, I hear the trite "it feels good, its awesome" yet I'm thinking the real reason is because they want to be a man and boss women around in addition to that. Idk, this is my view of casual sex. And its also my view on sex.
Your view of the world is really fucked up.

So if I sleep with someone, it's not because it feels good, but because I have dominance issues and need to boss women? Listen princess, I LOVE women. I don't NEED to boss them, it's not even a thought. I love to FUCK them, I love to touch them, taste them, talk with them - I fucking LOVE women. If you have latent tendencies to switch teams (which it's a borderline thought for you, I'm certain) go ahead, I don't care...

But - don't you dare bring your own warped, fucked-up twisted mentality and paint the broad paint brush and remotely begin to DEFINE my goals. You don't know what the fuck you're talking about.


You don't like women? I don't give a fuck, but don't sit there and think I'll idly sit by and allow you to insult MY lifestyle either. You came here, remember? Nobody asked, nor forced you.

I suggest getting help - therapy - STAT.

Seriously, your view of women is sad. Check yourself.

RR





...and what the fuck does having sex with women have to do with a religion you say you don't even believe in??? Damn dude... this thread of yours shows you're a train wreck. This 'game' isn't for you - at all.

Author:  LBot [ Fri May 18, 2012 1:18 pm ]
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When I hear about why guys have sex, I hear the trite "it feels good, its awesome" yet I'm thinking the real reason is because they want to be a man and boss women around in addition to that. Idk, this is my view of casual sex. And its also my view on sex.
Your view of the world is really fucked up.

So if I sleep with someone, it's not because it feels good, but because I have dominance issues and need to boss women? Listen princess, I LOVE women. I don't NEED to boss them, it's not even a thought. I love to FUCK them, I love to touch them, taste them, talk with them - I fucking LOVE women. If you have latent tendencies to switch teams (which it's a borderline thought for you, I'm certain) go ahead, I don't care...

But - don't you dare bring your own warped, fucked-up twisted mentality and paint the broad paint brush and remotely begin to DEFINE my goals. You don't know what the fuck you're talking about.


You don't like women? I don't give a fuck, but don't sit there and think I'll idly sit by and allow you to insult MY lifestyle either. You came here, remember? Nobody asked, nor forced you.

I suggest getting help - therapy - STAT.

Seriously, your view of women is sad. Check yourself.

RR





...and what the fuck does having sex with women have to do with a religion you say you don't even believe in??? Damn dude... this thread of yours shows you're a train wreck. This 'game' isn't for you - at all.
Owned, haha anyone that is thinking maybe if I become a satanist things will be better for me? They dooooo need help.

What you just profoundly pointed out is where my "Only in Florida" statement came from allthough I wasn't meaning to add collateral damage to all of FL it's just a common interwebz joke.

You Sir Need to add "Wordsmith" into your signature.

Like. RR -Wordsmith.

Author:  skills360 [ Fri May 18, 2012 1:29 pm ]
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When something seems like it will never happen. I have to wonder if I need to change my view on things. My view on sex is messed up, I want to think its wrong or naughty. Mostly its that high school/college thing I missed out on where I picked up that a lot of people were doing it. I have a high school/college mentality view of sex. I have thought of monagamous sex and thought how could that be exciting? To make someone feel good that cares about you for you? I guess its selfish of me that I don't care about that. And monagamy usually means the right one and what if the right one isnt attractive to me. What if the right one is even being kept from me because I'm shallow? Also, I feel its wrong to just be relegated To one person the rest of your life. I mean, where's the fun or badness in that?
The key is to get it out of your system till you are 28-32 before that, you probably not ready...Or to have one main gf, and maybe another girl on the side or 2..
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When I hear about why guys have sex, I hear the trite "it feels good, its awesome" yet I'm thinking the real reason is because they want to be a man and boss women around in addition to that. Idk, this is my view of casual sex. And its also my view on sex. Love at 30 isnt like love in your teens, where love can be naughty or dirty then, because puppy love or whatever is looked upon as a cool clique thing. AT 30, love is almost like a lifelong relationship. Noone is going to say how cool it is, nor is it going to feel so dirty when you start saying "I love you."
The problem, your deep problem is that unfortunately you do not get girls, i can tell...Therefore, you don't know what you are talking about..
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Back to topic on hand, if I changed my view on sex. then I would have to go for love rather than lust and might as well be a Christian, since I don't believe Christianity and lust can go together and I will never act on that combination. Sometimes, I wonder if the luck I'm having in life is the hand of God and He doesnt want me to be a player. I don't want to get all religious here but the truth is the biggest separation from it is casual sex. And do I want someone else controlling my life? No, I don't! I wonder if I became a athiest or embraced suffering afterwards and became a satanist would better things happen for me. Would I finally get what I want, maybe?
Get women first, which i can tell you don't, then worry about all your nonesense later, let me explain it to you, the reason must dudes want to learn to be good with women, is for them too have abundance and pick the best women from the best instead of settling with the first thing that comes along, second this forum is more than getting pussy is to improve all aspects of being a man, and one of those the right skills to get women, with that being said i have a problem because unfortunately the community does not teach how to keep women...Instead of worrying about all this nonesense go out and get girls, then worry...

Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri May 18, 2012 1:43 pm ]
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I'm in Florida, and don't have any issue knowing what I want...

LOL

RR
I visit the Gulf Coast semi often, RR. It is a mega of under fucked lonly women- of all ages!

Quite amazing
8)

Author:  will29 [ Sat May 19, 2012 3:45 am ]
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That made no sense. One minute your saying you don't want manogomy then you are saying you don't want casual sex?

Only in Florida.



No, I did not say I didnt want casual sex. Just that I feel going after love would be easier but it doesnt turn me on unless I change my ways.

Author:  will29 [ Sat May 19, 2012 4:21 am ]
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I knew I was gonna get slammed for this. But what I was trying to get at that what's keeping me from getting laid is never having money, not even to put to finishing school, and therefore not buying decent clothes and special grooming products. Having agoraphobia and either choosing to take baby steps in a familiar town or do nothing. I don't drive also because I have a fear of being behind the wheel. I cannot pray to be a player. God does not give you what you want, but what you need. I can't even do what I have been wanting and that's working out. Yet I know that if I called a church and joined their community my life would be a lot better, and I would probably find "the one".

As for women. Let me ask you this, if a woman is a bitch to you, would you respect her? Hell no I wouldnt and I may even go so far as to call her out on her crap. I didnt mean controlling women in the sense of beating them and being demanding, but during the act of sex when a guy is pounding away at a girl, he doesnt just want sex for himself, he wants to please her as well. Also looking at various tits and vaginas. I always thought there's something taboo about seeing most people you meet of the os naked. And I don't hate all women, just those ones that think they can bitch me out.

And Florida is one of the top states of casual sex.

Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Sat May 19, 2012 5:29 am ]
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I knew I was gonna get slammed for this. But what I was trying to get at that what's keeping me from getting laid is never having money, not even to put to finishing school, and therefore not buying decent clothes and special grooming products. Having agoraphobia and either choosing to take baby steps in a familiar town or do nothing. I don't drive also because I have a fear of being behind the wheel. I cannot pray to be a player. God does not give you what you want, but what you need. I can't even do what I have been wanting and that's working out. Yet I know that if I called a church and joined their community my life would be a lot better, and I would probably find "the one".

As for women. Let me ask you this, if a woman is a bitch to you, would you respect her? Hell no I wouldnt and I may even go so far as to call her out on her crap. I didnt mean controlling women in the sense of beating them and being demanding, but during the act of sex when a guy is pounding away at a girl, he doesnt just want sex for himself, he wants to please her as well. Also looking at various tits and vaginas. I always thought there's something taboo about seeing most people you meet of the os naked. And I don't hate all women, just those ones that think they can bitch me out.

And Florida is one of the top states of casual sex.
How many more excuses can you make?

Ive lost count.

Until you take responsibility for yourself - and actually LEARN the concepts, you'll be speaking from a completely ignorant (AFC) point of view. You seriously have absolutely NO idea what you're talking about.

RR

Author:  skills360 [ Sat May 19, 2012 2:33 pm ]
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I knew I was gonna get slammed for this. But what I was trying to get at that what's keeping me from getting laid is never having money, not even to put to finishing school, and therefore not buying decent clothes and special grooming products. Having agoraphobia and either choosing to take baby steps in a familiar town or do nothing. I don't drive also because I have a fear of being behind the wheel. I cannot pray to be a player. God does not give you what you want, but what you need. I can't even do what I have been wanting and that's working out. Yet I know that if I called a church and joined their community my life would be a lot better, and I would probably find "the one".

As for women. Let me ask you this, if a woman is a bitch to you, would you respect her? Hell no I wouldnt and I may even go so far as to call her out on her crap. I didnt mean controlling women in the sense of beating them and being demanding, but during the act of sex when a guy is pounding away at a girl, he doesnt just want sex for himself, he wants to please her as well. Also looking at various tits and vaginas. I always thought there's something taboo about seeing most people you meet of the os naked. And I don't hate all women, just those ones that think they can bitch me out.

And Florida is one of the top states of casual sex.

You do not need $$$ to get pussy, most guys that i know that get lay have very little money, i cover this myth in detail here:
the-lifestyle-game-bullshit-vt134071.html?highlight=

Author:  unknownpoet [ Sat May 19, 2012 2:51 pm ]
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You do not need $$$ to get pussy, most guys that i know that get lay have very little money, i cover this myth in detail here:
the-lifestyle-game-bullshit-vt134071.html?highlight=
And some even get paid for it.

Author:  will29 [ Sat May 19, 2012 3:59 pm ]
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Its not just women. But to go out and meet women, you run into other people, maybe people that knew you or people that seen you embarrass yourself on facebook with your statuses or creepy messages.

Author:  will29 [ Sat May 19, 2012 4:01 pm ]
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You do not need $$$ to get pussy, most guys that i know that get lay have very little money, i cover this myth in detail here:
the-lifestyle-game-bullshit-vt134071.html?highlight=
And some even get paid for it.



Who, gigolos? They sleep with ugly women too. I've seen the show based in Las vegas. Also, sites like dare dorm pay college students who submit sex and bang bros. But what are the chances a bang bus approaches me?

Author:  skills360 [ Sat May 19, 2012 4:31 pm ]
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Deleted, ok will i pm you..

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