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Author:  Toke [ Thu May 17, 2012 11:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Being the bad guy. Why chicks love it.
Okay, So I think a lot of us know that a lot of chicks like that ''bad boy''. The guys who have the balls to do whatever they please. I'm interested if anyone here has actually made a change from that 'good guy' attitude to the bad boy attitude. I want to warn you guys, dont do stupid stuff like weed or any drugs to get a girls attention. Girls really don't like pot heads. One of the main reasons I quit that shit 6 weeks ago :)
I always hung with out the bad guys in high school, and after a while, you kinda start doing what they do. For example, Every since the end of last year, I discovered drugs, shop lifting and the main one graffiti. Since then. I've stopped everything except for graffiti. Might as well get out of the game before I get caught! For any graffiti artist puas out there, chicks dont like tagging, they think this is ugly vandalism. What makes there vaginas cry is guys who do massive pieces. The ones which museums would consider art.
Because of all this, a lot of those conservative, rich babes always try get with me. I mean, sometimes they even ask me out, not me. So I guess with these chicks, they are after adventure and want more.. extravagant experiences.
But remember BE YOURSELF. Chicks dont want a guy who follows around and copies what everyone else does!
I'm wagging school today and just felt like posting this onto here.
Im off, getting ready for another night of heavy drinking and getting hunted by cops in the Australian bush. Cya!
Author:  GeorgePH [ Fri May 18, 2012 1:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Being the bad guy. Why chicks love it.
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Okay, So I think a lot of us know that a lot of chicks like that ''bad boy''. The guys who have the balls to do whatever they please. I'm interested if anyone here has actually made a change from that 'good guy' attitude to the bad boy attitude. I want to warn you guys, dont do stupid stuff like weed or any drugs to get a girls attention. Girls really don't like pot heads. One of the main reasons I quit that shit 6 weeks ago :)
I always hung with out the bad guys in high school, and after a while, you kinda start doing what they do. For example, Every since the end of last year, I discovered drugs, shop lifting and the main one graffiti. Since then. I've stopped everything except for graffiti. Might as well get out of the game before I get caught! For any graffiti artist puas out there, chicks dont like tagging, they think this is ugly vandalism. What makes there vaginas cry is guys who do massive pieces. The ones which museums would consider art.
Because of all this, a lot of those conservative, rich babes always try get with me. I mean, sometimes they even ask me out, not me. So I guess with these chicks, they are after adventure and want more.. extravagant experiences.
But remember BE YOURSELF. Chicks dont want a guy who follows around and copies what everyone else does!
I'm wagging school today and just felt like posting this onto here.
Im off, getting ready for another night of heavy drinking and getting hunted by cops in the Australian bush. Cya!
You quit weed because girls don't like pot heads? Do you think you should allow women to dictate the life choices you make?

Being a badboy isn't about drugs, graffiti and petty theft. It's having that aggressiveness and assertiveness in your attitude. I really don't think that breaking the law matters when it comes to game.
Author:  Jav [ Fri May 18, 2012 3:26 pm ]
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Australians are weird like that.
Author:  Toke [ Sat May 19, 2012 1:22 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Being the bad guy. Why chicks love it.
I'd say it's pretty different in high school. Well atleast in Aussie ones! I dont know why, but girls at my school like guys who break the lawn n stuff. I dont know why. My year is filled with girls who act like sluts but none of them put out.
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Okay, So I think a lot of us know that a lot of chicks like that ''bad boy''. The guys who have the balls to do whatever they please. I'm interested if anyone here has actually made a change from that 'good guy' attitude to the bad boy attitude. I want to warn you guys, dont do stupid stuff like weed or any drugs to get a girls attention. Girls really don't like pot heads. One of the main reasons I quit that shit 6 weeks ago :)
I always hung with out the bad guys in high school, and after a while, you kinda start doing what they do. For example, Every since the end of last year, I discovered drugs, shop lifting and the main one graffiti. Since then. I've stopped everything except for graffiti. Might as well get out of the game before I get caught! For any graffiti artist puas out there, chicks dont like tagging, they think this is ugly vandalism. What makes there vaginas cry is guys who do massive pieces. The ones which museums would consider art.
Because of all this, a lot of those conservative, rich babes always try get with me. I mean, sometimes they even ask me out, not me. So I guess with these chicks, they are after adventure and want more.. extravagant experiences.
But remember BE YOURSELF. Chicks dont want a guy who follows around and copies what everyone else does!
I'm wagging school today and just felt like posting this onto here.
Im off, getting ready for another night of heavy drinking and getting hunted by cops in the Australian bush. Cya!
You quit weed because girls don't like pot heads? Do you think you should allow women to dictate the life choices you make?

Being a badboy isn't about drugs, graffiti and petty theft. It's having that aggressiveness and assertiveness in your attitude. I really don't think that breaking the law matters when it comes to game.
Author:  Toke [ Sat May 19, 2012 1:22 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Being the bad guy. Why chicks love it.
I'd say it's pretty different in high school. Well atleast in Aussie ones! I dont know why, but girls at my school like guys who break the lawn n stuff. I dont know why. My year is filled with girls who act like sluts but none of them put out.
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Okay, So I think a lot of us know that a lot of chicks like that ''bad boy''. The guys who have the balls to do whatever they please. I'm interested if anyone here has actually made a change from that 'good guy' attitude to the bad boy attitude. I want to warn you guys, dont do stupid stuff like weed or any drugs to get a girls attention. Girls really don't like pot heads. One of the main reasons I quit that shit 6 weeks ago :)
I always hung with out the bad guys in high school, and after a while, you kinda start doing what they do. For example, Every since the end of last year, I discovered drugs, shop lifting and the main one graffiti. Since then. I've stopped everything except for graffiti. Might as well get out of the game before I get caught! For any graffiti artist puas out there, chicks dont like tagging, they think this is ugly vandalism. What makes there vaginas cry is guys who do massive pieces. The ones which museums would consider art.
Because of all this, a lot of those conservative, rich babes always try get with me. I mean, sometimes they even ask me out, not me. So I guess with these chicks, they are after adventure and want more.. extravagant experiences.
But remember BE YOURSELF. Chicks dont want a guy who follows around and copies what everyone else does!
I'm wagging school today and just felt like posting this onto here.
Im off, getting ready for another night of heavy drinking and getting hunted by cops in the Australian bush. Cya!
You quit weed because girls don't like pot heads? Do you think you should allow women to dictate the life choices you make?

Being a badboy isn't about drugs, graffiti and petty theft. It's having that aggressiveness and assertiveness in your attitude. I really don't think that breaking the law matters when it comes to game.
Author:  Toke [ Sat May 19, 2012 1:38 am ]
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We are awesome people!
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Australians are weird like that.
Author:  Fvckitimout [ Sat May 19, 2012 10:52 am ]
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This seems like a shallow perspective of the effectivity of the "bad guy" image. A "bad guy" will always be a bad guy even with a clean criminal record and bloodstream. Thats because a "bad guy" is layman terms for a man who takes risks. Because he knows that life is fundamentally boring if everything is guaranteed.

A loser will always be a loser because he is too afraid of losing the small happiness, comfort, or illusionary prestige that he has.
Author:  pablohernandez [ Sat May 19, 2012 11:03 am ]
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I really dont see being a 'bad boy' as being someone who steals a snickers bar from a shop and spray paints his name on buildings. Its about having a 'dont care' attitude and having a lack of fear about certain situations.

Taking risks is part of life, some take more risks, others less. Taking risks like stealing from shops just isnt very sexy, at all. Taking risks like swimming with sharks or riding a fast motercycle is sexy.
Author:  BeardlessSanta [ Sat May 19, 2012 1:43 pm ]
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well australia was formed by a bunch of outlaws! :o
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Sat May 19, 2012 7:00 pm ]
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Taking risks like swimming with sharks...
That's lame.

Swimming on top of a female shark and fondling her pussy while several alpha male sharks look on is THE shit. :twisted:
Author:  agentprovocateur [ Sat May 19, 2012 7:18 pm ]
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Australians are weird like that.
Too much blow. Seriously, Australians come here (Canada) all the time they're screwed in the head, bring diseases, and more often than not druggies.
Author:  7000 [ Sat May 19, 2012 11:46 pm ]
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This seems like a shallow perspective of the effectivity of the "bad guy" image. A "bad guy" will always be a bad guy even with a clean criminal record and bloodstream. Thats because a "bad guy" is layman terms for a man who takes risks. Because he knows that life is fundamentally boring if everything is guaranteed.

A loser will always be a loser because he is too afraid of losing the small happiness, comfort, or illusionary prestige that he has.
Nicely worded. Like it.
Author:  SlamBoy [ Sun May 20, 2012 3:14 pm ]
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I can confirm that there are a few (not all) women like that in Australia. Makes it a whole lot harder, where the 'bad boy' image becomes more then just not caring and taking risks it becomes about breaking the law. Australia breeds very immature women and even more immature men.Most girls roll with the "gangstas" I guess because they enjoy the thrill of law breaking/drug dealing etc.
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Sun May 20, 2012 7:33 pm ]
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I can confirm that there are a few (not all) women like that in Australia. Makes it a whole lot harder, where the 'bad boy' image becomes more then just not caring and taking risks it becomes about breaking the law. Australia breeds very immature women and even more immature men.Most girls roll with the "gangstas" I guess because they enjoy the thrill of law breaking/drug dealing etc.
It's all about testosterone and the counter culture bro.

When the testosterone of men shoot up the roof and they have no venues where they can compete and excel in accepted social norms of achievement, they turn to the counter culture. Women on the other hand are attracted to high testosterone levels or the manifestations of it. :twisted:
Author:  agentprovocateur [ Sun May 20, 2012 8:24 pm ]
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Bad boy types provide the woman with a sense of exhilaration; they're often aloof types who pose a challenge to being 'captured' (elusive nature naturally creates a draw), they're also typically spontaneous and unpredictable (in a good way) getting her to think "What's he going to do next?" keeping her on the edge of her seat - in the same vein they are masters of putting her on a bit of an emotional roller coaster (highs and lows, bitter with the sweet). It's not the assholish nature of bad boys that is alluring to women, in fact often times they will grow tired of such SPAM and lose interest in him.

You want to remain aloof but not too aloof (as this would show complete disinterest and she'd view you as inaccessible and eventually lose interest in the pursuit). You want to have the appearance of being unshakable, while also showing her and only her your vulnerable side - she knows a side of you nobody else does and this is a big turn on to her as it shows you are emotionally accessible to her but to the rest of the world a bit cold and distant; remember that dualities are very enticing for people (think of a woman who looks angelic, but has a devilish streak, or, in this case the bad boy who has a soft, not weak, center!). Learn to play with dualities as they are your trump card in seduction. Learn to give a person a lot of attention, but then pull back inexplicably when they're least expecting it. Chase the person, appeal to their sense of vanity, only to then pull back and remain more self-absorbed or distracted by other matters beyond that person. Careful not to do this on an extreme level for you risk coming off as schizophrenic. Bad boys represent duality at a more extreme level; tough, hard exterior hinting at the possibility of having a soft, caring and vulnerable center - if you act tough inside out it comes off as too much machismo and will turn off any woman. That said, if you are going to try to project a bad boy image, be sure that you give her glimpses of this soft inner state that you have, but do not get carried away with it; softness does not infer weakness, nor being needy which run counter to building attraction and the antithesis of being seductive.
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