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Author:  Criss hell [ Thu May 17, 2012 7:47 am ]
Post subject:  Too horny , No GF, need urgent help
So I've not had sex for long time like 2 months and generally for the last year I got laid like 3 times.
I have to confess I am so desperate now .I live with roommates that get laid like twice a week and by seeing them getting laid, I feel terrible.
I am sarging and approaching a lot. But I blew up my chances because of not patient or being horny. Generally, it affects me so much mentally.
Since last week, I masturbate every day and still horny.
Please let me know if there is any solution for my situation?
Thank you,
Author:  LBot [ Thu May 17, 2012 8:54 am ]
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Castration...

Hahah nah you just need to not be so dependent on the outcome of your interactions with these girls. Don't be so desperate for a lay and you will get one.

I'm pretty sure girls can smell desperation so if you keep your cool and focus on just having fun with them you are going to be more attractive.
I know this seems easier said than done but if you practice and not get frustrated you will blow less chances.
Author:  Criss hell [ Thu May 17, 2012 9:09 am ]
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Castration...

Hahah nah you just need to not be so dependent on the outcome of your interactions with these girls. Don't be so desperate for a lay and you will get one.

I'm pretty sure girls can smell desperation so if you keep your cool and focus on just having fun with them you are going to be more attractive.
I know this seems easier said than done but if you practice and not get frustrated you will blow less chances.
Dude thanks for the response. But it's not as simple as you say and it's getting serious for me that affects my life.
The worst part is seeing others getting laid and they live besides you. It's fucking awful.
I am thinking of hiring an escort although I feel terrible about it.
Author:  crowdude [ Thu May 17, 2012 9:23 am ]
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Do not hire an escort!

Just keep going out and sarging. You'll find out what works and what doesn't eventually.
Or if your room-mates are that good at pulling, just man up and ask them for advice, there's nothing wrong with showing a bit of humility.
Author:  CaptainJackHarkness [ Thu May 17, 2012 9:41 am ]
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Whats the problem in hiring an escort? I mean who cares. He just wants sex. Of course, it's not a pick up technique....

But then again if he doesn't want to spend 500$ on some girl taking her out to dinner and shit, why not?

I hate how escorts are blacklisted. I mean seriously people...realize your women are also on the prostitution paradigm of their biological agenda.
Author:  LBot [ Thu May 17, 2012 9:48 am ]
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Do not hire an escort!

Just keep going out and sarging. You'll find out what works and what doesn't eventually.
Or if your room-mates are that good at pulling, just man up and ask them for advice, there's nothing wrong with showing a bit of humility.
Agreed ask them for advice, go out with them and wing, pick up the scraps they leave behind that will sort out your hornyness.

You are setting yourself a self fulfilling prophecy. You go out and go to a few different bars and clubs talk to 20 or so girls odds are you will get laid by one of them.

Don't try too hard relax and have fun. Soon you will be realizing that you are making your situation even worse by focussing on it.
Author:  Tr@veler [ Thu May 17, 2012 12:32 pm ]
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Dude, this is the point where you read about pickup, where you learn all the shit you can, and you go on a lifelong journey of learning how to be good with girls and being a better person.

Use this low point to drive you into being a better person. Read read read!
Author:  Fvckitimout [ Thu May 17, 2012 12:53 pm ]
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Whats the problem in hiring an escort? I mean who cares. He just wants sex. Of course, it's not a pick up technique....

But then again if he doesn't want to spend 500$ on some girl taking her out to dinner and shit, why not?

I hate how escorts are blacklisted. I mean seriously people...realize your women are also on the prostitution paradigm of their biological agenda.
Why not?
1. Std's - duh
2. Money - dates wont even reach $100 per girl if you know how to budget.
3. Self-respect - he is at an all time low, broke up with gf, not gettng laid. I dont think doing another confidence lowering act will help his self-esteem.

Why bother refining your techniques, working on inner game, and finding a way to better project your personality if you were planning on hiring a woman anyways. You should have just skipped to that in the first place.

There are multitudes of reasons why an aspiring "pua" should not hire a prostitute these are just some of the few.
Author:  crowdude [ Thu May 17, 2012 1:18 pm ]
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Whats the problem in hiring an escort? I mean who cares. He just wants sex. Of course, it's not a pick up technique....

But then again if he doesn't want to spend 500$ on some girl taking her out to dinner and shit, why not?

I hate how escorts are blacklisted. I mean seriously people...realize your women are also on the prostitution paradigm of their biological agenda.
Hiring an escort is a definitive way to admit that you have no chance of pulling women whatsoever. It's a complete admission of defeat.

I don't think the money is really a problem, it's whether you hold your own self in high esteem or not.

Also half the game is in the pickup! That feeling of when you're building attraction and knowing that the girl wants you is pretty amazing...or maybe I'm just insecure :P

Without attraction, sex is just completely meaningless.
Author:  MrBreeze [ Thu Jul 19, 2012 3:19 am ]
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Hiring an escort is a definitive way to admit that you have no chance of pulling women whatsoever. It's a complete admission of defeat.


Without attraction, sex is just completely meaningless.

Maybe if its all about ego! Its rare, but Ive hired an escort. It was never about admitting defeat... it was about reminding myself of abundance. I was in a new city, spending far too much time working and felt stupid for not number closing a woman I had met. The few months off and women can smell it....feast or famine, right? So I righted my mind and walked up to the woman the next day...a few texts, closed on date number two... It helped my remember that even if I cant close my options are open! ALso, there can be attraction. I once gamed a 22 yo... in an hour had her real name, personal phone number and was asking me to hang out. I actually didnt even sleep with her... just fucked around.
Author:  Blown_Away [ Thu Jul 19, 2012 6:35 am ]
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But it's not as simple as you say and it's getting serious for me that affects my life.
The worst part is seeing others getting laid and they live besides you. It's fucking awful.
Just want to make clear for myself:

Do your friends fuck girls in the same house/apartment you live?
I mean, are they your roommates?
This is crucial to know.
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