Hey guys I'm kinda new here, been reading in the forum for half a year or so.
I hope that you can help me with my situation.
It's about a HB8-9
I was in Germany on my Erasmus semester and there I met this cool girl, she wasn't like my former girlfriends. She was very very self-confident and she wouldn't stop talking, at first I thought that she was really annoying but something kept me thinking bout her from time to time.
Two months later I got her Facebookpage from a friend of hers by coincidence. So i went for it and wrote her, she invited me to their christmas party at her place. We partyed there about 3 hours and went to a club, just the two of us, the others were too tired. So we went there, we were dancing and talking till the sun came up.
After that she gave me her number, I was about to ask her and she gave it to me.
So I went home for christmas, we were texting a bit during the holidays and after the holidays when I went back to germany I immediately called her out for a coffee.
That was one hell of a coffee, we were about 5 hours in the coffee shop just sitting and talking, i also did some kino like touching her hand, shoulder and stuff like that. After the coffee we both went to our homes. Ah yes i fixed that she would cook for me in 2 days and I'll cook for her in 4 days.
after that we went out with two other friends of hers and had pretty much fun, her two friends hb7 and hb8 wouldn't stop giving me compliments for my looks and my behaviour and stuff. We went to a salsa bar, i can't dance salsa so it was kinda a test from her I think, so i was staying with the hb8 and talking bout nearly everything it was cool
Finally the day came where she would cook for me, so I went there bought a bottle of wine and some pralines, she cook for me we talked, some kino was also involved, waist touching watching over her shoulder. We were talking a lot and eye contact was pretty strong too. After the dinner she asked me if I want to watch a film with her. I said yes of course and so we were watching a film, someone texted her a lot, at first I told her to reply to the messages. But after the 8th message I asked her where she got her manners from cause what she's doing is kinda unfriendly. She looked into my eyes and said "oh I'm sorry, look I'll put away my phone" that's the moment i went for it, I kissed her and after a minute she asked me, "what are we doing" and I told her something nice and continued kissing her.
That went on for about 5-10 minutes, then I started to go for more. She looked then at her watch and told me that I had to go cause the last bus was taking off in about 15 minutes. I asked her if she wants me to go, she said "yes i have to get up early tomorrow, so it would be better"
When I went to the door she stopped me and kissed me again for good night.
We had no contact the next 2 days, then the day came where I should cook for her, she came, also with a bottle of wine and pralines. and again the same thing happened, cooking, eating, a lot of talking, watching the movie and kissing, with a bit of petting. That was also 3 days before I went back to my country. She went home this night, altough I told her that I would prefer it if she would stay.
Next day no contact, the day after I called her and told her that I want her to come by to my place, she told me that she had a meeting with some guy, and I told her that I am definitely the better choice. She giggled and told me ok I'll come. half an hour before the meeting time she wrote me just a sms, saying, "I'm sorry i can't make it"
I was devastated...
The day I was travelling back home, she gave me a call and told me that she would definitely come to visit me.
So I went back to my country, for the next 2 weeks I barely could reach her, after about 10 days we were both on the phone and she told me that she has a boyfriend now. blabla so i thought to myself, ah that's why she wouldn't come to my place.
She broke up with him on valentines day, and texted me on that day, i texted her if she's crazy breaking up with him on valentines day. And didn't give her a call, I didn't want to get into the friend zone.
After that I drew my attention on another girl, and didn't pay that much attention to her, so she got SPAM on her phone and seeked again for contact. In one phone call I asked her when she will visit me, she told me as soon as possible, for the next 2 months we had regular phone calls every second or third day. Then she booked a flight to spain with 4 of her female friends. I thought to myself dafuq?!
after that she booked a flight too russia again with some female friends.
after that the contact was kinda, sucking.
I booked a flight to germany, I'll visit her and the other 2 girls with whom I wen't out back then. I did not tell anyone of them.
ah yes when we were talking on the phone i always had something interesting to tell or a dhv story.
So my question is, how should i play it to get her? Social proof bomb trough her girls? what do you think?