PUA Forum :: Do you practice on less attractive females?

I seem to get quite a few less attractive females that like to approach me at bars and start conversations. Usually I try to be as boring as possible, but they just keep asking questions. I don't want to be a dick, but I also don't want to lead them on. The other night I had a relentless one...

My buddy and I were sitting at a table, he goes to the bar to get us drinks. She sits down in his seat and starts talking to me. I am as boring as possible, but she keeps asking question after question. It felt like an interview. My buddy comes back, I introduce him, she keeps on with the questions. Thankfully another kid came over and started talking to her, so I turned to my buddy and his friends and joined there conversation. About 20 minutes later, she tries to get me to dance. I tell her I can't dance, and she grabs my hand and tries to get me out of the chair. I tell her I am stuck to the chair and can't get out of it, as I really didn't want to dance. She gets all mad and says its my loss, to which I agree with her. We move to another part of the bar and her and her friend keep staring at me, luckily we end up leaving before they killed me.

How do you handle situations like this? Like I said, I hate being an asshole. But again, I don't want to lead them on and get them all interested when I have no attraction towards them.

well its not really pua practice if they are so willing and eager. but it can be good practice just learnig how to talk to women, if you are not there yet.

In my system I reccomend starting with average looking women just to gain confidence and experience.

But the girls could serve as social proof too. Just go with the flow, it wont kill you to talk to them.

Just go with the flow, it wont kill you to talk to them.

I guess "practice" wasn't exactly the right word to use...

I just hate knowing that every minute I talk to a less attractive interested female, she is thinking, "OMG he is interested in me, I have a shot at him!" When in reality, that is not true. And then when I stop talking to her and leave, she then runs through everything that she may have done wrong. She may not have done anything wrong, I just wasn't attracted to her. A lot of guys here go through that, I just hate to do that to a woman. But I guess that is just part of the game...

I just hate knowing that every minute I talk to a less attractive interested female, she is thinking, "OMG he is interested in me, I have a shot at him!" When in reality, that is not true.

Maybe you keep missing the part where it says "interested"? That is far from saying all less attractive females want to bang me, I'm talking about the ones that have approached me and are trying to get to know me. Aka, interested.

Just go with the flow, it wont kill you to talk to them.

Author:	96Firebird [ Wed May 16, 2012 5:15 pm ]
Post subject:	Do you practice on less attractive females?
I seem to get quite a few less attractive females that like to approach me at bars and start conversations. Usually I try to be as boring as possible, but they just keep asking questions. I don't want to be a dick, but I also don't want to lead them on. The other night I had a relentless one... My buddy and I were sitting at a table, he goes to the bar to get us drinks. She sits down in his seat and starts talking to me. I am as boring as possible, but she keeps asking question after question. It felt like an interview. My buddy comes back, I introduce him, she keeps on with the questions. Thankfully another kid came over and started talking to her, so I turned to my buddy and his friends and joined there conversation. About 20 minutes later, she tries to get me to dance. I tell her I can't dance, and she grabs my hand and tries to get me out of the chair. I tell her I am stuck to the chair and can't get out of it, as I really didn't want to dance. She gets all mad and says its my loss, to which I agree with her. We move to another part of the bar and her and her friend keep staring at me, luckily we end up leaving before they killed me. How do you handle situations like this? Like I said, I hate being an asshole. But again, I don't want to lead them on and get them all interested when I have no attraction towards them.

Author:	Captain Catch [ Wed May 16, 2012 5:29 pm ]
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Quote: I seem to get quite a few less attractive females that like to approach me at bars and start conversations. Usually I try to be as boring as possible, but they just keep asking questions. I don't want to be a dick, but I also don't want to lead them on. The other night I had a relentless one... My buddy and I were sitting at a table, he goes to the bar to get us drinks. She sits down in his seat and starts talking to me. I am as boring as possible, but she keeps asking question after question. It felt like an interview. My buddy comes back, I introduce him, she keeps on with the questions. Thankfully another kid came over and started talking to her, so I turned to my buddy and his friends and joined there conversation. About 20 minutes later, she tries to get me to dance. I tell her I can't dance, and she grabs my hand and tries to get me out of the chair. I tell her I am stuck to the chair and can't get out of it, as I really didn't want to dance. She gets all mad and says its my loss, to which I agree with her. We move to another part of the bar and her and her friend keep staring at me, luckily we end up leaving before they killed me. How do you handle situations like this? Like I said, I hate being an asshole. But again, I don't want to lead them on and get them all interested when I have no attraction towards them. well its not really pua practice if they are so willing and eager. but it can be good practice just learnig how to talk to women, if you are not there yet. In my system I reccomend starting with average looking women just to gain confidence and experience. But the girls could serve as social proof too. Just go with the flow, it wont kill you to talk to them.

Author:	charblad [ Wed May 16, 2012 5:38 pm ]
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Quote: well its not really pua practice if they are so willing and eager. but it can be good practice just learnig how to talk to women, if you are not there yet. In my system I reccomend starting with average looking women just to gain confidence and experience. But the girls could serve as social proof too. Just go with the flow, it wont kill you to talk to them. For once I can agree with this guy, there's almost no downside to practicing on less attractive women. I've done it and have learned a lot; also the "not caring about the girl" is probably what attracted her to you and kept bringing her back, she couldn't have you so she tried harder

Author:	Enubis [ Wed May 16, 2012 5:41 pm ]
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Quote: Just go with the flow, it wont kill you to talk to them. To add, you should have invited her friend over to break up that sausage fest and a better looking girl will see it as a DHV to have women in your social circle. This is my understanding from what I've read

Author:	green_mo [ Wed May 16, 2012 5:43 pm ]
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I was practicting with less atractive girls (5 or 6 on scale), just conversations. I wan't to see how women react or think about diferent situations. Some benefits from talking with less atractive girls i have, is that: you meet new friend (this girl on scale 5-6), question is, is this girl have atractive friend. In my experience i met three or four girls and they introduce me to hers attractive friends.

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Author:	ThexTallxNinja3 [ Wed May 16, 2012 5:52 pm ]
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There is nothing wrong with practicing on girls you dont find attractive. It's just talking, it's not like you have to do anything with them. But, also it's a good idea to practice on girls you do find attractive at first too because you'll learn what it takes to compete at that level even if you get your tail kicked for a little while. There will always be more girls.

Author:	RetiredRodeo [ Wed May 16, 2012 6:04 pm ]
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The secret is to get to the point where practice and actual game is a very blurry line. I open sets all teh time - regardless of my goal. Will I open ugly chicks? Chicks I'd never fuck? SURE! Why not? I love to talk to women. it's that simple. I enjoy it. I don't have any AA. My anxiety comes from reducing the time it takes to fuck her to the qwuickest time possible. I don't like to wait. Many times, I'll close it a bit too quickly, and lost the chance for a repeat fuck - THAT sucks, but the approach - never even a blip on my radar. Whom you fuck denotes your standards, not with whom you converse. And - ugly chicks always have friends.... For me... I don't believe in 'practice' anymore. I believe in DOING. I suggest every newb that wants to truly and sincerely LEARN this - practice on EVERYONE until they also cannot distinguish what is, and isn't practice. (If you read that and "got it"... good for you. Those that read and end with "what the fuck did he just say?".... My apologies, and thank you - your AFC-status is complete... ) RR

Author:	96Firebird [ Wed May 16, 2012 6:10 pm ]
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I guess "practice" wasn't exactly the right word to use... I just hate knowing that every minute I talk to a less attractive interested female, she is thinking, "OMG he is interested in me, I have a shot at him!" When in reality, that is not true. And then when I stop talking to her and leave, she then runs through everything that she may have done wrong. She may not have done anything wrong, I just wasn't attracted to her. A lot of guys here go through that, I just hate to do that to a woman. But I guess that is just part of the game...

Author:	Vice9011 [ Wed May 16, 2012 6:34 pm ]
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Friendzone (ASAP): Average looking girls have social circles with the higher HBs. Forward merge: Merge with another set which does have the women you're pursuing. Use your newly acquired friends as social proof and/or to pawn off. Imho, once you get past the early stages of learning- gaming HB5s and 6s (with sexual intent, SNL or otherwise) isn't going to get you much for the 9's and 10's. The dynamic is different enough to require completely different calibrations, at least as far as I know. Warm-ups, knock yourself out- seduction, go for HB8's and higher.

Author:	RetiredRodeo [ Wed May 16, 2012 6:35 pm ]
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Quote: I guess "practice" wasn't exactly the right word to use... I just hate knowing that every minute I talk to a less attractive interested female, she is thinking, "OMG he is interested in me, I have a shot at him!" When in reality, that is not true. And then when I stop talking to her and leave, she then runs through everything that she may have done wrong. She may not have done anything wrong, I just wasn't attracted to her. A lot of guys here go through that, I just hate to do that to a woman. But I guess that is just part of the game... Dude, seriously... read your words here... You sound like a pompous ass. Damn. News flash - not every woman who isn't attractive to YOU wants to fuck you. That whole "I'm God's gift to women"... is more for your own self-confidence. LOL.... funny shit man! RR

Author:	96Firebird [ Wed May 16, 2012 6:54 pm ]
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RetiredRodeo, perhaps you should take another look at the thread. I never said all women who are less attractive than me want to fuck me. I never even came close to saying that. If that is what you read, then I feel sorry for your blatant misunderstanding. Are you going to tell me that when a less attractive female comes up to me and starts conversation, and continues conversation for as long as possible, she DOESN'T want me to be interested in her? You can say I'm cocky, you can say I am calling myself God's gift to earth. You'd be wrong, of course, as that is not how I see myself at all. And that is not how I am portraying myself in this thread. Usually you give some good advice, but you have either misunderstood a lot in this thread, or you have something against me?

Author:	RetiredRodeo [ Wed May 16, 2012 6:59 pm ]
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Dude, I don't know you, how could I ever have anything against you?. I call it like I see it... and this quote below.... is pompous! That's how I read it. I can be wrong... and I hope to fuck I am... Quote: I just hate knowing that every minute I talk to a less attractive interested female, she is thinking, "OMG he is interested in me, I have a shot at him!" When in reality, that is not true. That shit there... reminds me of Stifler saying "I knew that dude wanted to fuck me" in American Wedding...It was friggin hilarious, dude. Just sayin' RR

Author:	96Firebird [ Wed May 16, 2012 7:01 pm ]
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Maybe you keep missing the part where it says "interested"? That is far from saying all less attractive females want to bang me, I'm talking about the ones that have approached me and are trying to get to know me. Aka, interested.

Author:	RetiredRodeo [ Wed May 16, 2012 9:24 pm ]
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Quote: Maybe you keep missing the part where it says "interested"? That is far from saying all less attractive females want to bang me, I'm talking about the ones that have approached me and are trying to get to know me. Aka, interested. Whatever works for you.... In my world - an IOI is an indicator of INTEREST. Not every one means I'm going to get laid, though... All good things... RR

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Author:	jurupa [ Wed May 16, 2012 9:56 pm ]
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Quote: Just go with the flow, it wont kill you to talk to them. This. At the very worse you made another friend. The thing is you never know what sort of female friends they have and can have a smoking hot girl friend.