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| Author: | chinoko [ Wed May 16, 2012 10:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | What should I do now? Please help |
I've been texting this girl I met on facebook for a week or so. We exchanged pics yesterday while texting, and we might chill one of these days. I told her I would smoke her out and she said "she'll see". I don't know what to do next, how can I get to meeting her? My goal is to fuck her, but I don't have game yet. What would you masters do in my situation? How would you get from where I'm at to fucking her? Please be as detailed as possible! I've never even heard her voice or anything, and she's a hb8. Thanks |
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| Author: | GeorgePH [ Wed May 16, 2012 10:47 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What should I do now? Please help |
Quote: I've been texting this girl I met on facebook for a week or so. We exchanged pics yesterday while texting, and we might chill one of these days. I told her I would smoke her out and she said "she'll see". I don't know what to do next, how can I get to meeting her? My goal is to fuck her, but I don't have game yet. What would you masters do in my situation? How would you get from where I'm at to fucking her? Please be as detailed as possible! I've never even heard her voice or anything, and she's a hb8. Thanks
Edit: Oh shit, you're not even meeting her? LOL. Uhhhhhh.. Dude, I don't know, it's pretty hard to tell from the limited info you gave us. Ignore her shit test (i'll see) and assertively go for the meet-up. You are right; you don't have game. The problem is that to get good with ONE girl, you must get good with ALL girls. You've already made mistakes by telling her you want to "chill" and then saying you'll smoke her out. On one hand you're hiding your sexual interest, and on the other you're investing in her (I'm assuming you'll buy the weed?). In her mind, it's like: "this guy I don't know wants me to smoke weed with him and "chill".. huh..." Anyways. In your scenario, just meet up; use push pull/kino and escalate. Examples of push-pull: "Oh, you're soooo sweet! It's a shame I like bad girls "I want to kiss you, but I'm way too shy - I wouldn't know what to do" "I like your positivity so much! You're not high on something, are you?" "You have such a fit body! I don't think I'd be able to handle a girl like you, I'm lazy" Whatever, these are just examples. The point of it is to INDICATE INTEREST... and then create a BARRIER to that interest, or otherwise BREAK RAPPORT. The structure is simple: [COMPLIMENT/STATEMENT OF INTENT], buuuuut [disqualification/push/joke]. that and touch her and you're in there. don't forget to just vibe, i.e. talk like a regular human being, as well. |
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| Author: | chinoko [ Wed May 16, 2012 10:53 am ] |
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Thanks, and fuhhh I shouldn't have asked her to chill and smoke. Now, how important is this push/pull kino concept? Is it a crucial part to lead to sex? Thanks. |
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| Author: | chinoko [ Wed May 16, 2012 10:55 am ] |
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How should I assertively go for the meet up? LOL I'm asking all these questions, because that is how I learn best, but I'm pretty sure I could meet up with her because she thinks I'm cute |
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| Author: | GeorgePH [ Wed May 16, 2012 10:57 am ] |
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Quote: Thanks, and fuhhh I shouldn't have asked her to chill and smoke. Now, how important is this push/pull kino concept? Is it a crucial part to lead to sex? Thanks.
Kino is pretty important, though I've managed to do without it by announcing intent (I wanna kiss you) sometimes. Push-pull is the bread and butter of seduction. Every school of thought uses it extensively. Juggler, RSD, LoveSystems, Mystery... All have it, it is absolutely necessary. Actually, I went on 5-10 dates where I didn't use push pull at all in the past month (I do shit like this to experiment for my blog). Failed miserably although my overall game is good. If anyone has come up with ways to seduce without push-pull, my mind will be blown. |
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| Author: | Tr@veler [ Wed May 16, 2012 12:16 pm ] |
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What you do is you meet her at a specific location, and when you meet you forget about pickup and have a good fucking time. Go in with the mindset that you want her, you're not apologizing for it, and if you don't get her it doesn't matter. Push Pull is important, I've never really put much thought into it, although my experience is also limited. |
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