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Author:  JuniBoy [ Wed May 16, 2012 4:56 am ]
Post subject:  Want to be a PUA
Hi I want to be a PUA like Mystery or Matador, by this I mean that I want to study this learn everything step by step, in other words I want the title of PUA, but I dont know where to start, maybe start in openers?, really i dont know, so can someone tell me where to start?, I'll do everything, if I have to go to a club and practice the techniques I'll do it but let me know where to start, thanks.
Author:  Warped Mindless [ Wed May 16, 2012 6:19 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Want to be a PUA
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Hi I want to be a PUA like Mystery or Matador, by this I mean that I want to study this learn everything step by step, in other words I want the title of PUA, but I dont know where to start, maybe start in openers?, really i dont know, so can someone tell me where to start?, I'll do everything, if I have to go to a club and practice the techniques I'll do it but let me know where to start, thanks.
So long as your worried about achieving some irrelevant title such as "pua" you cant be helped. Right now you want the title more than you want women. You want the validation that comes along with it.

When you stop caring about becoming some "pua" or Mystery Jr, then you will be bale to learn. The reason why so many guys in the community dont ever get any better is because they don't actually care about the women, they care about the validation.
Author:  mapleleaf [ Wed May 16, 2012 12:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Want to be a PUA
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Hi I want to be a PUA like Mystery or Matador, by this I mean that I want to study this learn everything step by step, in other words I want the title of PUA, but I dont know where to start, maybe start in openers?, really i dont know, so can someone tell me where to start?, I'll do everything, if I have to go to a club and practice the techniques I'll do it but let me know where to start, thanks.
Do you want to be a PUA, for the title or even a player, or do you want women in life?
Author:  JuniBoy [ Wed May 16, 2012 3:56 pm ]
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Yeah I want women, let me explain it better, I want to learn this things to have a better lifestyle, I just have 3 friends, I dont go out to much only for the gym (I go to the gym because i like it not to impress any girl but it impress anyways) and university, I want to learn this things so I can have womens friends and girls but also when I master this things I want to be able to help others too, what i mean was that i like this and i would take it as a job, in toher words this is one of my passions.
Author:  JuniBoy [ Thu May 17, 2012 12:31 am ]
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So again I say, where I should start, what I have to learn first?
Author:  MaleNurse [ Thu May 17, 2012 12:47 am ]
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So again I say, where I should start, what I have to learn first?
Grammar, sentence structure, and how to unbold your messages.
Author:  Dalinkin [ Thu May 17, 2012 2:30 am ]
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I'm finding that focusing more and more on inner game is a huge aspect that a lot of people overlook. It doesn't seem like you are very happy with yourself now, so I suggest continue to eat healthy/working out, and finding what makes you happy in life. This doesn't mean having tons of girls around you. If it does, I think there are deeper issues you may be dealing with that should get sorted out before. Once you are comfortable with yourself, and everything in your life, you'll be able to walk around confidently, and approach anyone. You won't need any routines, you'll be happy with yourself and say what comes to mind with confidence.
Author:  HM [ Thu May 17, 2012 3:50 am ]
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So again I say, where I should start, what I have to learn first?
Grammar, sentence structure, and how to unbold your messages.
Give him a break, english might not be his first language, no need to torch his ass over it.
Author:  JuniBoy [ Thu May 17, 2012 3:54 am ]
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Well im a little confident about my look's the only thing that i dont like in myself is that I dont go out, because I dont have to much friends, at least I have one that like to party and im gonna see him this weekend to see if we can go to clubs so I can practice some stuffs that I learned, my biggest problem of all is fear of approaching because I dont care if I get reject but i dont know why I get scare of approaching, btw I have good body language.
Author:  MaleNurse [ Thu May 17, 2012 10:31 am ]
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So again I say, where I should start, what I have to learn first?
Grammar, sentence structure, and how to unbold your messages.
Give him a break, english might not be his first language, no need to torch his ass over it.
If I gave him a break then I'd be accepting him as being inadequate and ill-proficient. I'd rather push the guy to being better. So in actuality, you're being a total dick for excusing him. I demand you apologize right now, in perfect prose.
Author:  JuniBoy [ Thu May 17, 2012 9:02 pm ]
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Thanks both HM and Nurse, i dont speak very well english thats why im searching someone of PR or find a school of PUA
Author:  MaleNurse [ Fri May 18, 2012 2:10 pm ]
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Thanks both HM and Nurse, i dont speak very well english thats why im searching someone of PR or find a school of PUA
It's awesome you speak english, you're way ahead of these people here in South Florida who couldn't learn enough English to say "MY ASSHOLE HURTS, PLEASE GIVE ME MEDICINE".
Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Fri May 18, 2012 2:16 pm ]
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Juniboy,

Read 'the game'. great entertainment book, paints with a broad stroke - and gives you an overview. BUT - too many newbs read it and think they can do everything Style did, too... Bullshit.

Read "Rules of the game".

Read Mystery Method, if that's what you're aiming for.

Read "Influence, the Art of Persuasion".

Read books on social dynamics.


And in-between reading, start meeting people. Approach at least 10 people everyday and ENGAGE in conversation. Ten per day - minimum.

When you do that, either PM one of the guys on here whom you respect, or post on the forum.

Good luck.

RR
Author:  JuniBoy [ Fri May 18, 2012 4:10 pm ]
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MN- lol ok, im studying to get in the disney college program but before I go i still need some practice, thats why in this semester im gonna take conversational english.

RR- I have "MM's", i watched the show and i though is gonna be more practical and show more strategies, but idk if the "The Game" shows that too. Of all the info that i got from the show and the MM's book, I was going to do that, approach girls wherever i go at least to practice openers and to get rid of AA

Just a quick question in general, I know how to walk in, and start a opener after an opener whats next? ask for names?
Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Fri May 18, 2012 4:31 pm ]
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Just a quick question in general, I know how to walk in, and start a opener after an opener whats next? ask for names?
Gain acceptance to the group, or her personal space. Engage in conversation. Stack, watch and build.

VAK model.




edit: BUT - I think you have a misconception. You can't read a book, watch a TV show, and be a PUA. It takes YEARS of actually watching, engaging with, and experiencing women. Learn the social dynamics. Learn WHY she says something rather than what she merely says. Learn the indicators. Learn to cold-read a woman. This takes practice like nothing you can fathom.

This isn't for everyone, either. If you're not willing to put in the time and effort to TRULY do PU, it might get you laid from time to time, but you'll always have superficial game.

10 a day. You should already have met one by now!

GO!

RR
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