I'll try make this as short as possible.

My biggest insecurity has to do with the fact that I know I'm loving.
I have a girlfriend who perfect and is crazy about me - comes to pick me up from work at midnight when she was getting ready for bed, told me she wants to get married one day, loves my cum in her mouth (i know it's blunt, but I guess it's proof she wants me sexually as well), respects my time to hang out with friends.

But basically I feel like she will leave me, because I show her that I love her lots (sleep while hugging her close, tell her how much she means to me, behave sexually aggressive when I want her, enjoy making time to see her).

This is based on my perception that girls don't want nice guys who always show how much they love them. I can try and hide it, but it's seriously just in my nature to treat her like my girl who I want to protect and love. It's very hard for me to act aloof all the time and act like I don't care.

My insecurity is based on the idea that girls don't like nice guys, and are attracted to guys who don't care. So hypothetically, when an attractive bad boy comes along and hits on her everyday, she will eventually crack and sleep with him, because she is a girl and all girls crave a guy who they have to "chase" as they are evolutionary hardwired to.



Note: -We have been dating already for a year.
- We have awesome sex over 3 times a week (and we don't even see each other more than that).
- She talks about me all the time and often initiates sex.



My question: Although things are good now, is my loving nature a tragic flaw which will decrease her attraction? Am I too nice by nature? Does she subconsciously want a guy who is the opposite of me, or am I just insecure about something which isn't an issue?

Thanks heaps