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Author:  Fvckitimout [ Sun May 13, 2012 11:19 am ]
Post subject:  Question for seasoned pua
Ok ive pretty much internalized pua, but recently ive been thinking of making some adjustments. And we all know making adjustments could mess with you innergame a bit.

Its about girls who play hard to get. If a girl is hot enough and smart enough with a good amount of self esteem, 90 of the time they will play hard to get. And thats the type of girl i usually want and encounter in day game.

Ive had experience with this in the past and how i usually deal with it is to cut all the shit and ask them directly whats their deal. And that has worked wonders for me because its with my personality.

But recently ive been thinking thats still a little bit too emotionally involved. And its usually triggered by the fact that i dont like taking shit from anyone.

Now my point is, do any of you find any success in this strategy:
You text the girl first inviting her to day 2. She resists you drop convo. Wait 3 days text again. If she says no Wait a week text again. If shesays no Wait 2 weeks text again. So on and so forth.

It seems like a pussy way to avoid confrontation if she keeps saying no, but it looks more systematic and less involved. It get stressful whenever i have a great sets and when it comes to day 2's i constantly have to emotionally deal with women playing hard to get. Then i would have a talk with them. Then they will eventually say ok. Then i will eventually get to the sexual things.

Ive dropped 3 gorgeous women recently and about to drop another one because i currently have limited time, and patience. I dont feel like going through all that just for sex that im already getting.

And i mean it so obvious they want to hang with me, they have fun with me, yet they have to play hard to get to keep their female ego intact.

What are your opinions, stay true to my own style or try this sytematic strategy?
Or am i missing something?
Author:  CaptainJackHarkness [ Sun May 13, 2012 11:21 am ]
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Do what you feel is right. Obviously you can't expect to apply the same system to EVERY scenario. Usually for me personally, I don't waste time on 1 girl. I'm always going out and if I see one I want I go for her.
Author:  Fvckitimout [ Sun May 13, 2012 11:45 am ]
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Well ya i do what feels right which is why im thinking of making changes.

And I am dealing with multiple women which is why i have limited time and patience. I'm good on those ends.

With the system im thinking about, it feels right to implement it because if it works, that means i will make my game a bit more efficient.
Author:  Maccas [ Sun May 13, 2012 1:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Question for seasoned pua
Quote:
Now my point is, do any of you find any success in this strategy:
You text the girl first inviting her to day 2. She resists you drop convo. Wait 3 days text again. If she says no Wait a week text again. If shesays no Wait 2 weeks text again. So on and so forth.
Nope. If I texted the girl inviting her to day 2 and she resists, I wouldn't bother again.. Why? Because I really couldn't give a shit no matter how attractive she was.. Having that attitude and willingness to lose the girl to potentially get the girl is at the essence of successfully picking up women in the long term..
Author:  Fvckitimout [ Sun May 13, 2012 8:20 pm ]
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I hear you on the not giving a shit. And yes thats me.

However, im trying to think outside the box. And perhaps someone uses this strategy and had some sort of success with a more systematic less involved approach with day 2s.

Or maybe you guys know of a frame to adapt to become a little more patient.
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Sun May 13, 2012 8:48 pm ]
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Seasoned sarger here but still a PUA newbie. I specialize in play hard to get girls.

Situational Analysis on Closure

If you're in college or already working as a professional, do you still remember those high school girls you have the hots on? You still wish deep inside that when you get to see them again, you would fuck them if you had the opportunity.

After several decades of sarging and having many women friends, I have learned that girls feel the same way.

For instance, I had this sorority sister I met again at a funeral and we started texting. She admitted she had a crush on me and that's the reason why she joined the fraternity. She's already married with several kids when she said this. This lead to sex on phone and eventually more sexual escalation. She wanted closure on a chapter of her life.

There are more instances like these. I'm sure you also had one of these experiences.

Situational Awareness on Play Hard to Get Girls

Girls play hard to get because they are baiting you to chase them. This tactic works for them a dozen or maybe a bajillion times. However, if you don't chase, most of these girls get fried in their own circuits. They get into intrusive thinking mode.

For instance, I had been sarging on an off and on basis this HB7 who plays hard to get every time I tried to isolate her for a quick lunch or dinner. Then I didn't show up for 3 months. When I showed up again, she said she had been seeing me talking with several girls in my place.

I turned the tables on her and played hard to get instead. In the end, she asked to sleepover my place at no effort at all. She wanted me to be her boyfriend but I declined. I said I'm also seeing other girls. This drove her crazier and wanted to have sex with me everyday.

Conclusion

You get the drift. Yes. Your idea works. Not 100% of the time though. Depending on the attraction you've built, your success rate with play hard to get girls could be as much as 80%. It works because of the following:
  • 1. People, men or women, want closure.

    2. Girls get into intrusive thinking mode when they suddenly realize they'll lose you and you're not one of the bajillion other guys who kissed her ass.
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Author:  Fvckitimout [ Sun May 13, 2012 9:15 pm ]
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Perfect.

Ya i do agree it does depend on how hooked she is in the first place. I just wanted some confirmation that what im going to try has some field research basis to it.

One thing i would like to add is that sometimes when i wait too long too early with a high demand girl, they overthink too much and they start holding a grudge and decide to move on. Which means i would have to reescalate on the phone. And for me personally i prefer to have little phone escalation as possible because they become more resistant to meeting up. Dont know why, but thats the nature of it. Their kinda like the female version of me except not as dashingy handsome.
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