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| Author: | Enubis [ Fri May 11, 2012 7:47 pm ] |
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Thanks in part to this forum I am slowly building my game. You guys are doing a great job. Now on to my question I know this girl from high school, an HB8, started talking to her through FB after 7 yrs and got her number. I initially called, no answer so I shot her a text and it all began. In the course of the convo, I told her I was taking her out tomorrow at 3 which she responded with "I won't be around tomorrow". Then I tried to make a more comfortable situation by asking her to come along to see the Avengers because I was taking my little bro to see it tonight. I knew she would say no because it was her sister's bday but I threw it out there. I also knew from what I read that movies on first dates suck but I figured if I threw my little bro into the mix it would be a DHV of some kind. Sure enough she responds with "it's my sister's bday so I'm going to hang out with her". I closed with "a fangulo lol. Ciao". She responds with an "Lol" 1. Texts were 1 to 1 ratio, none of her texts were one word answers 2. Did I show DLV by asking her out twice within the same convo? Afterward all I could think was I shouldn't have said anything about tonight because it looks like I am breaking my plans for her. If so, how much of a hole have I dug here? 3. Should I wait until she starts things off next time? If this doesn't matter and I can still initiate, I am thinking to wait at least until Tues. because it's obvious she has shit to do this weekend, mothers day and all, so to text Monday would show neediness. Thanks guys, look forward to contributing to this site with field tests and maybe I'll come up with my own openers that can't miss. _Enubis_ |
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| Author: | Eyyt [ Sun May 13, 2012 1:21 pm ] |
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First, i think asking her twice is a DLV and shows neediness. knowing that it is her sister's bday tomorrow is good, you can plan out on inviting yourself to join her family AS A FRIEND, you don't want her thinking "this guy is wierd, he is always kissing my ass". Start your texting games with hook-up openers like "i have a little problem with my friend, i know that i can't answer this one but an intelligent woman could, can you help me out?" about 78% of the time, she will answer. tell her you need the conversation via call. Then come up with a story or better yet, use the jealous gf opener. she will be glad to answer that one. You have sparked interest and tell her that you need to go(time-constraint) by doing such, you have made a frame that you are not needy and willing to cut the conversation. |
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