A few months ago, I stole a girl from an unhappy relationship - she was smoking hot, HB9, we had sex a few times. It was pretty fantastic while it lasted. The sex was great, and she's a fun girl to have around - loads more charisma than most boring women. Then she started to feel guilty about the overlap between the two relationships (she slept with me while she was still with him) and ran off, and later started sleeping with a friend of mine, who she dated for a month or two. I've ditched the 'friend' (he was a dick about it), but he ditched her a few weeks ago, I don't know why but I figure it's irrelevant.

I want her back, for a couple of months. I don't know A) If it's a good idea, and B) whether it's possible.

She's pretty vulnerable right now. She's not been single for about three years, and is struggling with exams and stuff (we're at college, I'm 22 she's 19), and generally feels pretty lonely. We've started texting again. I see her occasionally and we still have all the chemistry. She's super-hot and great fun, so I probably have to act relatively quickly if I don't want her to get snapped up. It did all go pretty sour when she started dating my friend. I was obviously pretty pissed off about it. I think that might be a bar to getting her back.

So I wondered if you guys have any experience of stuff like this. I just want a bit of fun before I leave college.

My current plan is just to alpha up and tell her to come back. I figure she's just looking for a guy who's strong enough to look after her, but I'm not sure directness will be particularly successful just because our history might make her reject it if she hasn't already fallen completely for me again.

Appreciate any thoughts. Including anyone who thinks I'm a fucking idiot for chasing her again. If I am, I really need to be told so.