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Author:  sourcream86 [ Thu May 10, 2012 9:02 pm ]
Post subject:  hanged around with a girl for 3 months, Over-gamed her WFT?

So I have talked to this girl for about 3 months. Only meet her on the weekends and then we watch movies, sex, walk, get drunk and go to clubs together.

Have not made the best of this situation. In the beginning I sometimes ignored her calls and texts when she was really into me. I often call her buddy, trash worlds and say dumb stuff like we should go out flirting or when she told me to put the condom on I responded with of course I dont want to have children with you. I say shit like this all the time.

Last time with her was this weekend. I sent her a text and asked her what she where doing and she didnt respond. So I called her some hours later when I was drunk. I dont remember much of the call but I joined the party she where at with her sister and best friends. After I while me and the girl left the party because I wanted that and went home to me and we kissed and fucked the hole night and morning. Then after this its completely silent until today 4 days after and I texted her this:

Me: You there with the long, fine hair that sheds. Are you sleeping?
She: haha soo funny. Im awake =D
Me: Do you know who I never ask if shes sleeping?
She: Me because Im always awake =D. But Who?
Me: (Intern joke)
She: hahahaha

So she never call or text me anymore if I dont do it first. I escalate, fuck, kiss, hold her hand, everything. But her brain seems to be confused after all my game-shit I did on her. She think that I want to be friends or someting only? My friend asked her how things going on with her/me thing and she didnt where so talkative on this topic but asked "why? is he talking about me?".

IOIs

She say things we should do togheter.

She is always happy and glad when she see me.

I can do whatever I want with her kiss, cuddle hold her hand. She will not pull me away.

For 3 weeks ago when we said goodbye she hugged and kissed me hard and told me to call her. Then she looked at me in a few seconds when I went away.

What should I do to take this further guys? I will not tell her that I like her because I have done this before and got game over.

Sorry for my english, wrote this in google translate. :(

//Thanks

Author:  Eyyt [ Sun May 13, 2012 1:34 pm ]
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First things first. I don't think you over gamed her. it is just that she doesn't want attachment (friends with benefits) I also see that you have installed some kind of thinking into her mind saying "this guy is only texting me to have sex. and he is always saying that we are JUST friends. I think he is bot seriously into me so I will gonna put him into sex-zone" girls categotize all men that she meets. you are lucky you have been categorized in sex-zone. if you want commitment, you should've used other methods to input "relationship" into her mind.

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