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| Author: | chinoko [ Thu May 10, 2012 12:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Do you think I should keep trying? help I'm new to this |
I texted a girl recently while on unmentionables "hey want to kick it and sesh? aha" and woke up to no reply. Before this though (like a week before) I was texting her and she was flirting with me. I'm kind of confused. |
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| Author: | RetiredRodeo [ Thu May 10, 2012 12:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Do you think I should keep trying? help I'm new to this |
Quote: I texted a girl recently while on unmentionables "hey want to kick it and sesh? aha"
No wonder you were ignored. You sounded like every other dude she texts with...and woke up to no reply. Before this though (like a week before) I was texting her and she was flirting with me. I'm kind of confused. Learn text game. Learn the positive messaging, text/time differentials, controlling the frame, and perception modeling. Always be the escape for her with a text, then escalate to phone/F2F, and fuck her. Texting is a TOOL to fuck a chick for me. It's not a way to have a conversation. RR |
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| Author: | chinoko [ Thu May 10, 2012 12:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Do you think I should keep trying? help I'm new to this |
Quote: Quote: I texted a girl recently while on unmentionables "hey want to kick it and sesh? aha"
No wonder you were ignored. You sounded like every other dude she texts with...and woke up to no reply. Before this though (like a week before) I was texting her and she was flirting with me. I'm kind of confused. Learn text game. Learn the positive messaging, text/time differentials, controlling the frame, and perception modeling. Always be the escape for her with a text, then escalate to phone/F2F, and fuck her. Texting is a TOOL to fuck a chick for me. It's not a way to have a conversation. RR But I'm 18 and have NO game yet. My friends are helping me out and they are pick up artists, but they can be really mean to me so can you give me some advice? Oh and off topic, but what would you do in this situation? My homies are always bagging on me just 'cause I don't get pu$$y but they can get really fucked up and go passed the limit. They made me tear up once, but I can't do shit to them 'cause they're older and stronger than me. |
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| Author: | RetiredRodeo [ Thu May 10, 2012 12:34 pm ] |
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You need to work yourself first. No matter if they'er bigger - you need to get your friends in check or find new friends. I won't tolerate a 'friend' who CB's me, or is insulting. I love to give shit to my buds, I love to talk smack- but - it's all done in jest, and when it's time to get serious, we do. All bullshit stops and we focus. If you have a problem, ADDRESS IT. As for the drugs - NEVER sarge when you're fucked up. I drink LITTLE when I'm in a club. I'll nurse the same beer 2 hours. The most I will do is smoke out before heading to a grocery store - as long as it's GOOD weed. As for this chick, you came across sounding - well - fucked up... Let it marinate (this is one of my favorite sayings, but it's true...) Just let it sit and circle back in a week or so with a random/funny. Start reading as many books as you can. I'd highly recommend "Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion", Robert B. Cialdini. This is a book designed for marketing, but the same nuances can transfer almost seamlessly to the PUA world. Get perspective: read any book by Robert Fulghum. Start reading the paper and watching the news - why? As you're improving yourself, you're also developing habits to ensure you'll ALWAYS have shit to talk about. So many newbs fall into the trap of learning openers, gambits, etc... that they have NO material to actually discuss once they get the girl alone - then they escalate too fast, fuck up and ruin the chance. The biggest thing to do is practice. Everyday. Meet people, engage in conversation, smile... But - the first thing to do is have a heart-to-heart with your friends. If they're friends at all - you can establish ground rules. If not, they're not friends to begin with. RR |
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