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Hi all, first post on this forum! I have loosely followed the game and pua techniques for about a year, and have found myself in a situation that I could use a bit of help:
I met this girl at a party on cinco de mayo, who things went pretty well with, but I screwed up in not taking her home. We were dancing and making out for a good 20-30 minutes (plus a lot of touching, ass grabbing, neck biting, etc.).. I have no doubt I could have left with her, but I waited way too long (I was really drunk at the time) and then she had to leave with a friend. She gave me her number though and has been pretty flirty the couple times I texted her.
I would like to f-close with her sometime before this weekend is over, or I think it will be too late for anything to come of this. If it isn't already (I realize I royally screwed up that night)... My question is how should I approach texting her? I would like to be direct as possible about the fact that I see this as no more than a booty call or friends w/benefits, but not be too bold to where it repels her. What kind of approaches work for you guys? Invite her over for drinks, movie, or just to hang out? How forward should I be in texting her about this?
I am in college in the south btw.
Hey man you are in good hands. I'm in Nashville so I understand the southern culture. Look invite her over for a movie, which is pretty much code for come sleep with me in most languages spoken in the US. I met this girl at a party on cinco de mayo, who things went pretty well with, but I screwed up in not taking her home. We were dancing and making out for a good 20-30 minutes (plus a lot of touching, ass grabbing, neck biting, etc.).. I have no doubt I could have left with her, but I waited way too long (I was really drunk at the time) and then she had to leave with a friend. She gave me her number though and has been pretty flirty the couple times I texted her.
I would like to f-close with her sometime before this weekend is over, or I think it will be too late for anything to come of this. If it isn't already (I realize I royally screwed up that night)... My question is how should I approach texting her? I would like to be direct as possible about the fact that I see this as no more than a booty call or friends w/benefits, but not be too bold to where it repels her. What kind of approaches work for you guys? Invite her over for drinks, movie, or just to hang out? How forward should I be in texting her about this?
I am in college in the south btw.
When she's there you can offer drinks or whatever but bring her over for the movie. She knows whats up. Snuggle up to her and soon enough you'll be all over each other. Don't worry too much about trying to talk about or define the relationships before things happen sexually... it'll naturally go to what you want, or right after she'll ask you where this is heading. Regardless, you both want each other...enjoy yourselves...then worry about it. Jon