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| Author: | MetaMonster [ Thu May 10, 2012 2:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | avoiding commitment/relationships |
Basically I've been fucking a girl from my work. I get the feeling that she wants something more along the lines of a relationship. I'd like to keep going out and playing the field but I'm gonna be working with this girl for another year at least so I don't want things to be awkward. I don't necessarily want to break things off with her, just want to avoid commitment while still having sex with her quite often...any tips? |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Thu May 10, 2012 3:31 am ] |
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moderate your contact, manage her expectations. Girls dont generally get upset or phycho unless you have given them false hope, fucking them isn't false hope per se, but acting like a provider and boyfriend then withdrawing that role is false hope. If you already emotionally escalated and given her false hope just act like you are super busy an de-escalate with her to a comfortable pace. Prevention of false hope and pacing is still the best solution because de-escalation can get messy. |
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| Author: | RetiredRodeo [ Thu May 10, 2012 3:36 am ] |
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Find a way to break it off where it's her idea - but you're still a victim. This will ensure you can re-tap it from time to time in moments of weakness... and especially during the holidays. RR |
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