PUA Forum :: Officially sexually frustrated

I see a couple possibilities here.

For one, it might actually just be that you've had a couple weeks of less sex for normal reasons--your mom staying with you and her being on her period (if that's a deal breaker for either of you) are easy answers, and you seem to know that.

If that's not it, she might have some emotional stuff going on. What was that fight about? Did she have some kind of issue with your mom staying, or did you say anything that would put her off?

And the last possibility is that the sex is getting different. Are you going down on her, etc.? Or has it become mostly about you and significantly less fun for her? If you're not doing your part, you can expect it to happen less and less.

Absolutely don't tell her she's being a little girl. Ask what's up and whatever the answer is, deal with it appropriately.

Author:	wingman3 [ Wed May 09, 2012 10:35 pm ]
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So she’s my GF now, and everything is going great in-terms of how we get along, and things we enjoy in life (She cooks for me all the time, buys me cool thoughtful gifts., etc.)…We have so much in common, add the fact that she’s actually hott^^, and I honestly see her as potential wifey material, but one thing that’s been off is that she’s extremely up and down on the sex tip…After our 3rd Date we went at it like rabbits for 2-3 weeks straight, averaging like 3-4 times a day on the weekends, but in the past month it hasn’t been as rapid….Sunday before last (After we had a big fight, we made up) and we parked in an abandoned park at 4:30 in the morning and banged… Now my Mom came to stay with me a week, so it’s understandable that we didn’t do anything, but after she left I expected fireworks and still nothing…then she says she’s on her period which will cost me another week almost…Now this doesn’t sound that bad, but I’ve picked up a pattern with her where we’ll have awesome sex, then she won’t want to do anything for days and days( she has admitted that my size tends to hurt her, so I initially thought it was that, but she can take me now)…I told her straight up early in the relationship, I got to have 2-3 times a day sometimes, but atleats once every few days, but now it’s starting to become weird where I almost have to ask for it, and ofcourse she gets pissed off when I keep bringing it up…In the start whenever I was laying with her and I was hard she’d play with my $hit, if not bjay me hjay me…Now it’s like she’s scared to touch me because she knows just playing with me will have me on edge… So I’m officially sexually frustrated, and I almost wanna go off on her and tell her stop being a little girl (she’s 22, I’m 32), but I know that’s the wrong move…Honestly everything else is going so great, so what can I do to emphasize to her the importance of my sex needs without making things worse? I can’t do this 8-10 day break $hit…

Author:	Matrimcauthon77 [ Thu May 10, 2012 1:36 am ]
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I see a couple possibilities here. For one, it might actually just be that you've had a couple weeks of less sex for normal reasons--your mom staying with you and her being on her period (if that's a deal breaker for either of you) are easy answers, and you seem to know that. If that's not it, she might have some emotional stuff going on. What was that fight about? Did she have some kind of issue with your mom staying, or did you say anything that would put her off? And the last possibility is that the sex is getting different. Are you going down on her, etc.? Or has it become mostly about you and significantly less fun for her? If you're not doing your part, you can expect it to happen less and less. Absolutely don't tell her she's being a little girl. Ask what's up and whatever the answer is, deal with it appropriately.

Author:	RetiredRodeo [ Thu May 10, 2012 3:42 am ]
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I'd add something else to my spice rack. Maybe a nice ginger, 28-35'ish? Or an Asian flavor? Whatever you prefer.... RR

Author:	wingman3 [ Thu May 10, 2012 3:50 am ]
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Quote: I see a couple possibilities here. For one, it might actually just be that you've had a couple weeks of less sex for normal reasons--your mom staying with you and her being on her period (if that's a deal breaker for either of you) are easy answers, and you seem to know that. If that's not it, she might have some emotional stuff going on. What was that fight about? Did she have some kind of issue with your mom staying, or did you say anything that would put her off? And the last possibility is that the sex is getting different. Are you going down on her, etc.? Or has it become mostly about you and significantly less fun for her? If you're not doing your part, you can expect it to happen less and less. Absolutely don't tell her she's being a little girl. Ask what's up and whatever the answer is, deal with it appropriately. Dude it's not even a question on going down on her...I kills it, and thank god she's pretty down there, so that's not it...I'm always encouraging foreplay, mostly giving her head...We even went to a sex store to get her a vibrator for more intense fellatio and she was the one pushing that, yet at the same time she can be such a prude and not want to have sex sometimes..It's so confusing The fight we had was about me being too arrogant with her in public in front of other women, but I secretly suspect she likes my cockiness at times (Parkbang makeup proves that)... I don't know we had a couple mishaps with me shooting inside her, so is she scared of getting preg? But if that's the case why wake me up in the mnorning and ride me with no condom, so I don't get it... Whatever the case I need some advice on how I should communicate this to her, because I've been holding this in for sometime now, and I feel like I'm gonna just go off on her the next time I make a sexual advance and she denies me...What makes it crazy, it's like I said everything else is borderline perfect...

Author:	wingman3 [ Thu May 10, 2012 3:53 am ]
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Quote: I'd add something else to my spice rack. Maybe a nice ginger, 28-35'ish? Or an Asian flavor? Whatever you prefer.... RR My girl's half Asian, half Dominican...Asian face Latino body...Only Asian chick I ever seen in real life with true a$$, that's why I had to have it^^....

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Author:	RetiredRodeo [ Thu May 10, 2012 3:55 am ]
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Yeah, I suck at the relationship-deal. I'd suggest speaking plainly to her about it, complimenting your intimacy and explaining how you want it to get back to that...but take it for what it's worth...I don't know shit about KEEPING a chick, I seem to have lost that concern. Good luck. RR

Author:	wingman3 [ Thu May 10, 2012 10:31 pm ]
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LOL, well yeah I'd like someone that actually gives a damn about relationships to give me some more advice, but thanx for the try man^^...

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