PUA Forum :: Help - I fucked up?

Just to add a couple of things, I don't throw cash at women. Prior to our first date I said"if your lucky ill let you buy me a drink" setting the tone, so on our first date she went and bought the first round. So for me to offer to pay for dinner was to show I was genuinely sorry. My apology was quite brief before as I didn't see it as a massive issue. Now I'm wondering wether I do a more heart felt apology. I don't want to come across as needy or DLV myself. I haven't text her atall today. She will probably be in the same bar as me on Saturday, we both go there most weeks.

Text her with a bigger more heartfelt apology? Do nothing, if I see her sat act like nothing happened? Iv not spoken to her on the phone yet other than giving directions to my house and arranging meets. Never for chit chat etc.

It feels abit of a silly thing to stop seeing eachother over to me, it's been dealt with afterall

Author:	Tinfoil88 [ Wed May 09, 2012 12:54 pm ]
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Ok so I dated this girl, went out with her on 3 dates and it fizzled out. I wasn't hung up on her so I don't need the typical advice of "move on". One of her friends later told me she found me too cocky, a little arrogant. Meh, you win some you lose some. I also had another girl on the go at the same time who lived my level of cocky/funny. I forgot her, then two weeks later she invited me to her birthday, I gave it a miss. I'm alpha, I have other things going on, other girls, and don't come running at the click of her fingers. So I didn't go. Few weeks later I bump into her in a bar, have a brief chat and have her kino me. I have other targets to I leave her. Anyway, that sets the basis.. Now the recent stuff... A few weeks later I see her out, we get talking, she comes back to mine. She gives me the typical "I'm not that type of girl" bullshit shit test... I take her clothes off and dominate the situation, she lets me. We have sex. Over the next two weeks we see eachother 3 times a week. Having sex most times. I think iv got it in the bag. She's a HB9.5 and iv got her hooked I think. Shell text me 3 maybe 4 times without me replying. Then this Saturday just gone we were both going out with our friends and said we would probably bump into eachother which we did. She came back to mine... I CAME INSIDE HER! She was fine at the time with it, I promised to give her a lift home the following day but was too hungover so gave her taxi money and she took my hoody and left her panties. So Sunday we barely talked, then Monday she tells me she is pissed off I came inside her. She had to get the morning after pill. I apologized because I thought she was ok with it, after a few texts back an forth it's all she is talking about, I say I'll pay for the pill and I'll take her out for dinner to make up for it, she says "hmmmm maybe" I decided to leave it for the evening to give her time to calm down. Text her the following day asking if she was up for dinner one night, intentionally not bringing up the rest of the incident. And she hasn't replied. So this is where I need advice!

Author:	Tinfoil88 [ Wed May 09, 2012 1:01 pm ]
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Just to add a couple of things, I don't throw cash at women. Prior to our first date I said"if your lucky ill let you buy me a drink" setting the tone, so on our first date she went and bought the first round. So for me to offer to pay for dinner was to show I was genuinely sorry. My apology was quite brief before as I didn't see it as a massive issue. Now I'm wondering wether I do a more heart felt apology. I don't want to come across as needy or DLV myself. I haven't text her atall today. She will probably be in the same bar as me on Saturday, we both go there most weeks. Text her with a bigger more heartfelt apology? Do nothing, if I see her sat act like nothing happened? Iv not spoken to her on the phone yet other than giving directions to my house and arranging meets. Never for chit chat etc. It feels abit of a silly thing to stop seeing eachother over to me, it's been dealt with afterall

Author:	ThexTallxNinja3 [ Wed May 09, 2012 2:12 pm ]
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This happened to a friend of mine. This girl he had been wanting to get with for a long time finally jumped his shit and had sex with him. He came inside her and she left immediately after they were done. He hasn't had sex with her since.

Author:	Rough Operator [ Wed May 09, 2012 5:50 pm ]
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Did you use a condom? I don't really see the issue if you did and it didn't break :/

Author:	RetiredRodeo [ Wed May 09, 2012 5:59 pm ]
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Quote: Just to add a couple of things, I don't throw cash at women. Prior to our first date I said"if your lucky ill let you buy me a drink" setting the tone, so on our first date she went and bought the first round. So for me to offer to pay for dinner was to show I was genuinely sorry. My apology was quite brief before as I didn't see it as a massive issue. Now I'm wondering wether I do a more heart felt apology. I don't want to come across as needy or DLV myself. I haven't text her atall today. She will probably be in the same bar as me on Saturday, we both go there most weeks. Text her with a bigger more heartfelt apology? Do nothing, if I see her sat act like nothing happened? Iv not spoken to her on the phone yet other than giving directions to my house and arranging meets. Never for chit chat etc. It feels abit of a silly thing to stop seeing eachother over to me, it's been dealt with afterall MAN THE FUCK UP. Go see her in person. If you feel the need to apologize, do so. Texting is for pussies. If you have an issue - you face it, head on. Sounds like she's a cool chick - to which point you should get to know her - and OPEN UP yourself a little. The 'game' is meant to be tactical, not strategic. Best of luck. RR

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Author:	Tinfoil88 [ Thu May 10, 2012 6:56 am ]
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So I had planned to take no action yesterday, to give her a little space and to see what advice my arise. And to take action today, whatever that may be. Well last night she text me "Sorry (my name). I do have your hoody and stuff tho? X" Which doesn't really carry on from the last text I sent the day before. So I'm guessing that's it. Over. "it's over come get your things" is how it translates to me. But of an extreme reaction I feel?! Don't you guys think? Don't get the logic, unless this is masking something else. If this really is the reason is seems over the top, and I don't think I would want her back on that behavior . Guess I'll have to meet her to wt my bits. Don't wana make a move as it would seem needy and I'm sure I can bump into her on a night out at some point if I'm desperate to see her which I'm not feeling. So I guess my question is, should I try and see if there's another reason? And if so how? Don't want to come across as needy.

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