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| Author: | Klauss [ Wed May 09, 2012 8:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | HELP! How do you tell your best friend you dating his EX? |
So basically they saw each other maybe 5-6 times no sex! and no long relationship and no on Friday i must tell him that she is my girlfriend. how do i explain myself without my best friend getting pieced ? We have lots of respect to each other and i never planned it but she is both beautiful and matching to me and from her words she want my heart. HELP GUYS! |
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| Author: | Roberto101 [ Wed May 09, 2012 8:27 am ] |
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I know how you feel bro. depends on how much he liked her. if he's your friend he should understand |
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| Author: | ibhaZaa [ Wed May 09, 2012 8:54 am ] |
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Tell him that you like each other with the girl, its mutual and ask him if he would mind if you guys would be dating. If he is a good friend, he won't mind. If your firend has a girlfriend now, than its 100% sure he won't mind. |
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| Author: | ibhaZaa [ Wed May 09, 2012 8:56 am ] |
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Be honest with friends, don't do stuff behind their back. It's better if he hears it from you, than from a gossip. |
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| Author: | Klauss [ Wed May 09, 2012 9:01 am ] |
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Quote: Tell him that you like each other with the girl, its mutual and ask him if he would mind if you guys would be dating. If he is a good friend, he won't mind. If your firend has a girlfriend now, than its 100% sure he won't mind.
That's what i think their relationship was short and now he has a girlfriend sohe shouldn't mind >< but still it pains me to do that cause it looks bad and i really love and respect him. |
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| Author: | P-Style [ Wed May 09, 2012 10:59 am ] |
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Yeah dude, even though she made the move you still had a choice not to play along. Play open cards now, your friend might be offended at first but I think he will forgive eventually. Depends also on the break-up between your friend and your current gf. |
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| Author: | Furiox [ Wed May 09, 2012 12:30 pm ] |
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Bros before hoes. |
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| Author: | Reo [ Wed May 09, 2012 1:48 pm ] |
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I had a so called friend in college who tried to move in on a girl I had briefly dated right after we broke up. He failed but the fact he tried made us not friends anymore we became enemies. So i don't know what kind of friend you have or how much he really liked the girl but be prepared for it to go badly. If the guy was just an aquiantance I'd be like so what but thats you're bestfriend I like to know how this works out. |
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| Author: | Klauss [ Wed May 09, 2012 2:22 pm ] |
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Quote: I had a so called friend in college who tried to move in on a girl I had briefly dated right after we broke up. He failed but the fact he tried made us not friends anymore we became enemies.
I didn't make any moves with her we just started chatting and i found out we have similar past and we have been through a lot and we got so much a common So i don't know what kind of friend you have or how much he really liked the girl but be prepared for it to go badly. If the guy was just an aquiantance I'd be like so what but thats you're bestfriend I like to know how this works out. you know there is a girl you might meet 1 in a life time and if you let this go you will hate yourself and live life with regret. Well from PUA side regret= worst then death from respect side i hate myself for doing this but if she were a regular girl i would never even talked to her cause she is a best friend ex. This situation is complicated but there is a lot of potential in our relationship that's why i have to talk to him. |
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| Author: | league [ Wed May 09, 2012 4:29 pm ] |
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If they only met a few times and didn't have sex i cant see him being that bothered, i wouldn't be if i was him. Even less so if he has a gf now |
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