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| Author: | donjoe [ Tue May 08, 2012 4:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | in a difficult situation |
Yo, would like to share my story with you guys real quick and some advice is appreciated: Met this girl around 1.5 years ago, we got put together in classes. I was the biggest AFC on the planet so I did not make a move on her, even though it was VERY obvious she liked me alot. Even after around 1 year after SUMMER VACATION she still liked me, and had not hooked up with ANY guys in that summer (mutual friends tell me) but still I was a very BIG AFC SO I DIDNT DO SH!T! now she is a very nice girl and i completely understand that she got sick of me, so she hooked up with some dude from another class. That was 5 months ago and they are stll together. I realized I had fucked up majorly and I did not want anything to happen like that in my life again so I decided to change, I went to the gym, read on sites like this one and sosuave and became overall a better man (less shy aswell).. people say they barely recognize me and that is making me proud. Now I am very happy but there is still this girl in my class that I STILL like alot... even though I am seeing various other girls now. PUA taught me to kind of read girls, but she is different. She doesn't fit in interested or uninterested, but she is mixed with both. Couple of examples: Whenever I walk into a room she always seems to notice (when I glance over her she is looking at me) I see her STARING at me from a very long distance Yesterday before class when i turned around and looked her in the eye she was litterally a deer in headlights, and looked down very submissive In Biology she was facing the teacher, but she was looking at me from sideways, like her head did not turn only her eyes did. I don't think this one means anything but she seems to post things on facebook about topics we had small conversations, like today I was talking to her about tomorrows test and she said she would study very well this afternoon. Then 2 hours later she posts on facebook that it is so hard etc. (I dont reply or anything) BUT she also shows signals that would make me think that she is not interested in me at all, When in a group she doesnt look at me one time she talks with my friend, i am standing next to him and am part of the conversation but she does not really look at me she posts facebook pictures and posts about her and her BF being so happy together What do I do? why does she do this i still like her alot but why she aint clear? It is hard for me to game other girls, last week I had heavy flirts going on with a girl at the mall but my mind kept dwelling off to her how do i handle this cool? |
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| Author: | hawksterG [ Tue May 08, 2012 4:58 pm ] |
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Move on. Game other girls. Read more on PUA. You blew your chance. If the situation arises where she is available, make a move. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Tue May 08, 2012 5:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: in a difficult situation |
Quote: but she is different.
1st kudos on changing your life!Hate to bust your balls Bro, but no she is NOT different! You are the one making her different! Your putting her on a pedestal. making her even more unapproachable. You are the one that is now different  You are now the prize! Approach her, isolate her, put your arm around her, offer to catch up on old times sometime. Then WALK AWAY! She will seek you, if there is interest. Hope this helps |
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| Author: | donjoe [ Tue May 08, 2012 5:10 pm ] |
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what do you guys think about the mixed signals ?? why she does such a thing |
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| Author: | ibhaZaa [ Tue May 08, 2012 5:20 pm ] |
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Of course she is giving you mixed signals! She has a BF so don't expect her to give you all the IOIs. She doesn't wanna seem like a bitch. Imagine if she was all flirty and would have sex with you easily. She would cheat on her BF just like this. Would you want her to be your GF after that? No... noone wants a sneaky cheater bitch as steady GF. So you gotta make a move, the signals are there. The longer you wait, the worse it gets. Meet her at a party (when her BF is not there). Use physical escalation. If you don't make a move, she will lose interest thinking that you have no balls. Think what a real alpha would do! He would make a move. Alcohol and parties make it easier. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Tue May 08, 2012 5:20 pm ] |
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Quote: what do you guys think about the mixed signals ?? why she does such a thing
Simple1. She is still attracted to you. 2. She has a BF, so she will do everything in her power, not to display public attraction to you. |
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| Author: | hawksterG [ Tue May 08, 2012 5:21 pm ] |
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Almost all the time. What guys interpret as mixed signals are just guys over-thinking things too much. But if you think theres something, and its worth ruining another relationship for, make a move. After what everyone says, what it comes to is, you either make a move or you don't. This is where you fell short in the beginning of your story. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Tue May 08, 2012 5:26 pm ] |
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Quote: Almost all the time. What guys interpret as mixed signals are just guys over-thinking things too much.
Very good Hawkster!
But if you think theres something, and its worth ruining another relationship for, make a move. After what everyone says, what it comes to it is, you either make a move or you don't. This is where you fell short in the beginning of your story. |
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| Author: | hawksterG [ Tue May 08, 2012 7:30 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: Almost all the time. What guys interpret as mixed signals are just guys over-thinking things too much.
Very good Hawkster!But if you think theres something, and its worth ruining another relationship for, make a move. After what everyone says, what it comes to it is, you either make a move or you don't. This is where you fell short in the beginning of your story. |
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