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| Author: | That_New_New [ Tue May 08, 2012 1:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | flirting with co-worker, yields..... weirdness. Help? |
Alright guys, based on my last post in general questions, i figured I'd come back! So, there's this girl Nicole at my work, pretty cute, HB7 and all into animals and shit. so i was flirting pretty hard with her, were cashiers and i always caught her glancing over, smiling at me, whatever. she even took it upon herself to bag for me. Now, the weird part. After he shift a bearded man, 20s came up and she was all happy and shit, presumably her BF, now when the two came to check-out through my line, she introduced the odd-looking mountain man as "wally" not her bf. we i acted nonchalant and asked him if she wanted a receipt, he declined, but she insisted he take it.... i flat out said "well that's awkward" i heard laughter, but not sure if it was just wally. Then she basically gave me this bitchy attitude throughout her order, to which i acted even more unfazed. The two left. I figured I'd post this because I have no idea what this girl is trying to do haha, she definitely likes flirting with me, but why introduce her bf.... without calling him her bf, i guess that's a clear sign that's she's interested.... Am i right? Wrong? Let me know what you guys think, all constructive input is greatly appreciated. |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Tue May 08, 2012 2:47 am ] |
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whats the downside of asking her "who the fuck is this wally character?" the "fuck" part is optional, its just for emphasis. depending on how you ask her she may now will wonder why you are asking. Being direct is often helpful if you dont seem at all needy. especially for new guys who need to be more direct. |
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| Author: | That_New_New [ Tue May 08, 2012 4:49 am ] |
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Quote: whats the downside of asking her "who the fuck is this wally character?"
And if it is her BF?
the "fuck" part is optional, its just for emphasis. depending on how you ask her she may now will wonder why you are asking. Being direct is often helpful if you dont seem at all needy. especially for new guys who need to be more direct. |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Tue May 08, 2012 5:33 am ] |
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then you may want to exclude the "fuck" part, as I said you could just ask her, do you think thats going to be weird or awkward? |
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| Author: | CaptainJackHarkness [ Tue May 08, 2012 9:25 am ] |
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Who cares about wally? Damn why do so many guys get intimated when they see a woman with some dude she's hugging and stuff. Newsflash, I'm usually that guy with HB10 girl/friends. I realize that I probably am killing their chances for some poor shmuck who is like "Aw damn thats probably her bf! damnit..." And most of the time, if they show a strong creep/neediness, I do PRETEND to be their bf for their sake when I know it's awkward. As for this girl..whatever she's doing, flirt with her. Show her this is WHO YOU ARE. You are the fucking prize. Who gives a shit about Wally the Waldo. Who cares if its her bf and if it isnt. Escalate. If you try and she says "dude fuck off. I have a bf, why dont u get it?!!" Whatever - great. I do recommend escalating OUT of work. Could lead to sexual harassment charges against you if you try to escalate IN work. |
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| Author: | BingumBailey [ Tue May 08, 2012 9:44 am ] |
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Quote: Whatever - great. I do recommend escalating OUT of work. Could lead to sexual harassment charges against you if you try to escalate IN work.
 Haha, I know about this first hand. That's why I died laughing when I read this. Got let go of my first job because I was hitting on co-workers, and even tried to kiss a customer. Work is perhaps the worst place to start pick-up. You have a job, why aren't you going out New_New? I'm just curious. |
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| Author: | That_New_New [ Tue May 08, 2012 7:12 pm ] |
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Quote: You have a job, why aren't you going out New_New? I'm just curious.
Laziness? haha
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