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I was texting her and she was texting me to. (she text first) it was going good, i showed i had a strong frame. I tried to qualify her by asking if she can cook and she said no, her boyfriend cooks everything. She actually does have a boyfriend though because i have her on facebook. I replied to that text with "maybe he can make us breakfast in bed sometime

xxx" she replied with "calm it! xxx" then i said "since he can cook afterall xxx" and she never replied.

So where did i go wrong? What should i have said. I'm not that bothered. It's just practice afterall.

Maybe she thinks you're gay and trying to bed her bf.

Seriously though, the qualifying stuff isn't always a good idea to get a girl 'hooked' particularly if she's already got a boyfriend (she doesn't have to get invested in you as she has her fallback).

I wouldn't say you did anything unforgivably wrong just leave it as it sits (don't be afraid to break rapport as that's what busy guys with other options do). Simply catch up to her in a day or too with a "what's good runt?" or whatever it you call her.

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runt? again bad stuff, that's mean.

Author:	Shady0125 [ Mon May 07, 2012 9:48 pm ]
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I was texting her and she was texting me to. (she text first) it was going good, i showed i had a strong frame. I tried to qualify her by asking if she can cook and she said no, her boyfriend cooks everything. She actually does have a boyfriend though because i have her on facebook. I replied to that text with "maybe he can make us breakfast in bed sometime xxx" she replied with "calm it! xxx" then i said "since he can cook afterall xxx" and she never replied. So where did i go wrong? What should i have said. I'm not that bothered. It's just practice afterall.

Author:	E_R0CK [ Mon May 07, 2012 9:54 pm ]
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Something might have came up man. Now if a few days past I dunno.

Author:	Shady0125 [ Mon May 07, 2012 9:55 pm ]
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It was about 45 minutes ago and before that she replied instantly to every text.

Author:	E_R0CK [ Mon May 07, 2012 10:03 pm ]
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Bro things come up, sometimes phones don't make the sound. This shit has happened to me personally. I have the same feelings you have sometimes too man, but its neediness and counterproductive. Don't worry about it, its like AA, the more you obsess over it the worse it gets

Author:	Defy [ Mon May 07, 2012 10:04 pm ]
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Quote: I was texting her and she was texting me to. (she text first) it was going good, i showed i had a strong frame. I tried to qualify her by asking if she can cook and she said no, her boyfriend cooks everything. She actually does have a boyfriend though because i have her on facebook. I replied to that text with "maybe he can make us breakfast in bed sometime xxx" she replied with "calm it! xxx" then i said "since he can cook afterall xxx" and she never replied. So where did i go wrong? What should i have said. I'm not that bothered. It's just practice afterall. One thing on role plays although this is not classic roll play. If she doesn't get hooked right away, don't milk it. It seems try hard instead of being spontaneous. Breakfast in bad comment was good and suffice. You should have cut the thread and not mention the bf at all anymore. Also, even though this qualifier is ok, i don't use it in texting. instead you can just call her and when she asks you what are you doing you can say Some friends are coming over, I should go buy some beers. BTW, can you cook? and throw her into some role play. combine it with some cold reading/teasing... make a story/plot and lead her. if she doesn't, drop it and try something else. just don't follow her threads and be reactive.

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Author:	Domr [ Mon May 07, 2012 11:29 pm ]
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Quote: I was texting her and she was texting me to. (she text first) it was going good, i showed i had a strong frame. I tried to qualify her by asking if she can cook and she said no, her boyfriend cooks everything. She actually does have a boyfriend though because i have her on facebook. I replied to that text with "maybe he can make us breakfast in bed sometime xxx" she replied with "calm it! xxx" then i said "since he can cook afterall xxx" and she never replied. So where did i go wrong? What should i have said. I'm not that bothered. It's just practice afterall. you're trying to hard. asking girls to qualify themselves is really bad game man. They should want to qualify themselves not be forced into it.

Author:	agentprovocateur [ Mon May 07, 2012 11:32 pm ]
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Maybe she thinks you're gay and trying to bed her bf. Seriously though, the qualifying stuff isn't always a good idea to get a girl 'hooked' particularly if she's already got a boyfriend (she doesn't have to get invested in you as she has her fallback). I wouldn't say you did anything unforgivably wrong just leave it as it sits (don't be afraid to break rapport as that's what busy guys with other options do). Simply catch up to her in a day or too with a "what's good runt?" or whatever it you call her.

Author:	Domr [ Mon May 07, 2012 11:33 pm ]
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Quote: Maybe she thinks you're gay and trying to bed her bf. Seriously though, the qualifying stuff isn't always a good idea to get a girl 'hooked' particularly if she's already got a boyfriend (she doesn't have to get invested in you as she has her fallback). I wouldn't say you did anything unforgivably wrong just leave it as it sits (don't be afraid to break rapport as that's what busy guys with other options do). Simply catch up to her in a day or too with a "what's good runt?" or whatever it you call her. runt? again bad stuff, that's mean.

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