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In all honesty this probably isn't going to end the way you want it to. I have been in a similar situation with a girl who has a boyfriend and their families are close, been together for years and it ended in a lot of heartache for me. She probably wants the excitement of having fun with you, but without leaving her long term boyfriend whom she probably does love.

If you genuinely love her, lay it on the line and be prepared to cut her off if she doesn't want to commit to you. That's all I can suggest and what I would try and do. Keeping it going when you have strong feelings for her is just going to make it worse for yourself.

If you didn't love this girl, then it would be easy to just continue with the fun you're having right now.

Author:	greenkid [ Mon May 07, 2012 2:26 pm ]
Post subject:	Caught in Affair
At the moment I get caught up in the affair. I am having an affair with a woman who has a boyfriend. I really love this woman, and I feel she is also love me back. What we do have such a couple. We were hugging, kissing, holding hands. When I asked her why she cheated on her boyfriend with me. She told me that her partner was not romantic and often angry for no reason. But when I asked why they are still together. He says that it is not easy, because they had been dating for four years. And their families have known each other closely. And if she break up with him it would be a BIG thing. And I also think that if I and her get in official relationship. it wont work. Because of our different backgrounds, she has a very rich parents. She always to be picked up by his girlfriend or family personal driver and rich family thing. She is willing to adjust to me. That's what impressed me. We always travel with my bike or take a taxi and leave her standard. I really love her, but I can not go on like this. What should I tell her so she would tell the truth to her boyfriend about this condition?? What should I do in this affair? I really want advice from all of you guys so have different point of view. so that I can do much better. Thank you so much.

Author:	Rough Operator [ Mon May 07, 2012 2:35 pm ]
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In all honesty this probably isn't going to end the way you want it to. I have been in a similar situation with a girl who has a boyfriend and their families are close, been together for years and it ended in a lot of heartache for me. She probably wants the excitement of having fun with you, but without leaving her long term boyfriend whom she probably does love. If you genuinely love her, lay it on the line and be prepared to cut her off if she doesn't want to commit to you. That's all I can suggest and what I would try and do. Keeping it going when you have strong feelings for her is just going to make it worse for yourself. If you didn't love this girl, then it would be easy to just continue with the fun you're having right now.

Author:	Klauss [ Mon May 07, 2012 2:59 pm ]
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Quote: In all honesty this probably isn't going to end the way you want it to. I have been in a similar situation with a girl who has a boyfriend and their families are close, been together for years and it ended in a lot of heartache for me. She probably wants the excitement of having fun with you, but without leaving her long term boyfriend whom she probably does love. If you genuinely love her, lay it on the line and be prepared to cut her off if she doesn't want to commit to you. That's all I can suggest and what I would try and do. Keeping it going when you have strong feelings for her is just going to make it worse for yourself. If you didn't love this girl, then it would be easy to just continue with the fun you're having right now. Totally agree.

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