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| Author: | Criss hell [ Mon May 07, 2012 7:28 am ] |
| Post subject: | In love with my roommate-What can I do? |
Guys, I think it doesn't sound good . I really like my roommate.She is 22 She came to US like 1 month ago from Europe and moved in here a week ago. I like everything about her. she has a great personality and she is the type of girls I love to hang out. The thing is that I knew that she was seeing a guy. So I tried to avoid her and didn't see her much for a week.I have 2 other roommates. But last night there was a group of people here and we decided to go out together. From the beginning she started to have strong eye contact with me and she was just standing next to me the whole time.We had great conversation it was like a real date.She just talked to me and it was obvious she liked me .Even when I talked to another girl I saw the sign of jealousy in her. So all people came back to our place and we had good time .At the end she was tired so she went to her room and slept. we continued the party. Tonight,she came home around 10:30 pm and I asked her where she went and she told me she watched a movie and had already dinner. Well it's obvious that she was seeing this guy. After one week, I can say she doesn't have sex with him since she is home at night. So , this is not good situation for me.Since I am intoxicated with her and I can't get rid of her since I see her every day at home and I think she likes me too.It could be a real problem for me now. What can/should I do guys? |
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| Author: | agentprovocateur [ Mon May 07, 2012 7:31 am ] |
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Start walking around half naked (if you're fat don't bother). If she seems excited then you sexually escalate, if not than things will get awkward and she'll hopefully move out. |
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| Author: | deanokenny1 [ Mon May 07, 2012 12:50 pm ] |
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I suppose just start Kino and act like the other guy doesnt exist, iv spent days or even months dealing with girls in the same situation as you are, i find, the longer u leave it, the more annoying it will get.. maybe build kino and more attraction, then go for it |
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| Author: | Salvyguy [ Mon May 07, 2012 1:14 pm ] |
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Dont get too obsessed with her, thats all. one thing is for sure, sometimes just because someone is in a relationship does not mean theyre happy. as long as you dont diss the boyfriend, it will make you look better and also, you can go kino, considering that she already likes you. from here and on, its up to her dude, you cant control her mind 
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| Author: | "The Gift" [ Mon May 07, 2012 1:26 pm ] |
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You've known her 3 weeks, and you're 'in love' with her. I hate to see it but I highly doubt you're in love with her. Doesn't mean you don't like her. No need to exaggerate it to prove a response. If you guys have mutual friends invite them for a night out including her. Create a relaxed SPAM, laid back. People will be drinking, she will be, you will be and everyone will be enjoying each others company. You're in a nightclub, it takes her out of the "but he's my room mate" zone. This is where you can start dancing with her, escalating and building attraction. Interact with different girls, make them laugh...show her girls like you, and she's missing out. You are the prize. |
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| Author: | KimPa [ Mon May 07, 2012 3:45 pm ] |
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Last year a girl from spain moved in our apartment.. From the first day I started gaming her.. I showed a lot of value.. My room has a lot of pictures with other girls having fun and going out at bars and stuff like that. That demonstrates value.. Anyway, first two days I gamed her and the 3rd day I fucked her.. She became my girlfriend for a 6 months and then she left to spain because her course at uni ended.. So be careful the more you wait the more it becomes weird and difficult to you.. Btw, you only meet her like 3 weeks ago.. You don't love her bro or at least shouldn't that early.. The more you expect from her the less you will get.. I live by that rule.. keep it in mind  Good luck
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| Author: | Sergeant Stardust [ Mon May 07, 2012 3:47 pm ] |
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Love is a bit of a strong word there man.... |
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| Author: | Captain Catch [ Mon May 07, 2012 7:49 pm ] |
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Never shit where you sleep. I wouldnt go there. And I agree that is not love, it's lust. |
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| Author: | DamnDirtyApe [ Mon May 07, 2012 8:23 pm ] |
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Quote: Never shit where you sleep. I wouldnt go there.
Totally agree... but if you really want to, ignore the relationship with the other guy. I would take the advice from the guy who told you to call them to a club... make everyone have fun, take the lead and game her.
And I agree that is not love, it's lust. |
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| Author: | TheGreatestPuaOfAllTime [ Mon May 07, 2012 8:25 pm ] |
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take it slow...think about if this was your sister or niece or your cousin or even your mom... you don't want to put the girl in a compromising situation where her home environment is sexually hostile for her. But, then again she might like you so if you escalate slowly but surly you can avoid a huge mess. Once again taking it slow is to avoid falling off a cliff. |
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| Author: | Criss hell [ Mon May 07, 2012 9:49 pm ] |
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Guys thank you for your responses. I need your support and help. I should clarify something : she moved here 1 week ago. So I know her for 1 week and the guy she may see can't know her more than 3 weeks.I think she still doesn't have deep relationship with that guy. Just Seeing him. She doesn't have any friends here. She is type of girl who is shy, look really innocent and you want to support her (if you know what I mean.) When I asked her where she went she was nervous. I've not seen a girl like that for a long time and last night was like one of my best night for a long time.I felt really good being with her.I didn't have any stress and was relaxed .Since I felt she likes me. I probably not in love but can't help thinking about her. I couldn't sleep last night well.( I am doing good now )The attraction is not choice as you know guys.There are 2 problems : 1- she is my roommate , so even if I want to ignore her I can't. 2- If she didn't show me any interest, I could have forgotten her. I intentionally didn't see her the whole week, when i saw her after 1 week, she complained (peacefully) about not seeing me.So now I don't want to miss my chance. I think the best option for me is to make my move (to see if she is interested) and if it doesn't work, move out to another place which is not what I want but I have to. Also, as others suggested it's beter to move fast since I know it's going to be late really soon.I was thinking of asking her out for this weekend. My plan is not seeing her again for like 2 days, and after that ask her to come to my room and show her something interesting & chat with her for a while and after that ask her out on the weekend just to show her the city. What do you think guys, do you have better idea? Need your advice. |
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| Author: | TheGreatestPuaOfAllTime [ Mon May 07, 2012 10:04 pm ] |
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Dude, I seriously would not do something rash with someone that has to live with you and may not have somewhere else to move to. Something about that just does not seem fair or right. Attraction may not be a choice, but your attitude is. And you can chose to not indulge in fantasies about her.... Please be smooth |
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| Author: | Criss hell [ Tue May 08, 2012 1:26 am ] |
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Quote: Dude, I seriously would not do something rash with someone that has to live with you and may not have somewhere else to move to. Something about that just does not seem fair or right.
I am nice to her and will be. she told she will be done with her school this week.Attraction may not be a choice, but your attitude is. And you can chose to not indulge in fantasies about her.... Please be smooth So to be smooth, I 'll tell her I'd like to show her some part of city this weekend. If she gives me some excuse , it means she doesn't want to go further. But if she wants, during that day in weekend I can get to know her better and I'll realize if she really likes me. Btw, she probably will go back home by the end of summer. So if it sounds rash , please let me know what you would do? Thank you, |
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| Author: | WildfireTP [ Wed May 09, 2012 4:31 am ] |
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Act like the boyfriend doesn't exist and do what you would normally do. She's only been seeing the other guy for 3 weeks. If what you're saying is correct she's probably interested in you too. |
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| Author: | Criss hell [ Wed May 09, 2012 5:43 am ] |
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Quote: Act like the boyfriend doesn't exist and do what you would normally do. She's only been seeing the other guy for 3 weeks.
I pretty sure she was.Not completely sure now.If what you're saying is correct she's probably interested in you too. The night we had party, after she went for sleeping , I said some crazy things since I was a little drunk and I know for sure she heard them and she might have not liked them.. So today I asked her to come to my room and she came and we talked for like 10 mins I told her I want to show her the city this weekend. She said ok and we got each others numbers. I said what about Friday?and she said she doesn't know her plan yet. I don't know but maybe she is waiting to see her plan with the other guy or maybe she doesn't really know her plan yet. It's hard for me to read her since she is kind and always smile. Since Friday she is coming back from work , she will be tired and based on my experience it's not going to be a great time any way. So I am planning to ask for Saturday night later. So based on what I said what do you think about the situation so far ?do I have chance? what should I do? Thank you guys! |
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