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Author:  Psychotic [ Mon May 07, 2012 7:13 am ]
Post subject:  Can you create attraction?

There has been much debate in the pickup community on whether or not attraction is something that you can create within a girl.I'm interested in hearing what everyone's opinion is on this subject

Author:  Tr@veler [ Mon May 07, 2012 9:55 am ]
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Of course you can. You can create and heighten attraction. It is the first thing you do when you meet a girl.

Author:  pumpington [ Mon May 07, 2012 10:39 am ]
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you can create ''attraction'' in everyone you meet, guys and girls, doesn't matter, it is simply that force that draws you to someone,

ever met a guy who was very charismatic and want to hang out with him because he was fun to be around?, that guy managed to get you ''attracted'' to him

it is the same on both sides, in my opinion how ''attracted'' to someone you are is just how much you are interested in them, there are tons of factors that will effect this, how likable you are, how good looking, what sort of lifestyle you lead, how you smell, your body language, your tonality, your social status etc.

the only thing is some people only see terms like ''creating attraction'' in absolutes, it has to be black and white with them, managing to get someone to admire your personality will make them more attracted to you, but it is not the be all end all that makes up how sexually attractive you are

Author:  Captain Catch [ Mon May 07, 2012 4:15 pm ]
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you can create ''attraction'' in everyone you meet, guys and girls, doesn't matter, it is simply that force that draws you to someone,

ever met a guy who was very charismatic and want to hang out with him because he was fun to be around?, that guy managed to get you ''attracted'' to him

it is the same on both sides, in my opinion how ''attracted'' to someone you are is just how much you are interested in them, there are tons of factors that will effect this, how likable you are, how good looking, what sort of lifestyle you lead, how you smell, your body language, your tonality, your social status etc.

the only thing is some people only see terms like ''creating attraction'' in absolutes, it has to be black and white with them, managing to get someone to admire your personality will make them more attracted to you, but it is not the be all end all that makes up how sexually attractive you are
That doesnt answer the question really. The questions is whether or not YOU can create attraction. These people you gave as examples might just "have" it.

I dont know if you can learn charisma. If everybody could have charisma, then charisma, wouldnt mean anything, it be like having a belly button.

I dont think you can create attraction, but you can learn to obtain what you can attract. Most people cant even attract women that might find them attractive cause they dont know how to talk to women etc.

I dont know that learning pua material will help you score a supermodel type, but might help with women in your league

Author:  ThexTallxNinja3 [ Mon May 07, 2012 4:41 pm ]
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you can create ''attraction'' in everyone you meet, guys and girls, doesn't matter, it is simply that force that draws you to someone,

ever met a guy who was very charismatic and want to hang out with him because he was fun to be around?, that guy managed to get you ''attracted'' to him

it is the same on both sides, in my opinion how ''attracted'' to someone you are is just how much you are interested in them, there are tons of factors that will effect this, how likable you are, how good looking, what sort of lifestyle you lead, how you smell, your body language, your tonality, your social status etc.

the only thing is some people only see terms like ''creating attraction'' in absolutes, it has to be black and white with them, managing to get someone to admire your personality will make them more attracted to you, but it is not the be all end all that makes up how sexually attractive you are
That doesnt answer the question really. The questions is whether or not YOU can create attraction. These people you gave as examples might just "have" it.

I dont know if you can learn charisma. If everybody could have charisma, then charisma, wouldnt mean anything, it be like having a belly button.

I dont think you can create attraction, but you can learn to obtain what you can attract. Most people cant even attract women that might find them attractive cause they dont know how to talk to women etc.

I dont know that learning pua material will help you score a supermodel type, but might help with women in your league
Don't agree with the idea of "in your league". At all. Seen WAY too many real life examples that prove there is no such thing. It's all just psychological BS.. I know several girls who were not necessarily attracted to their boyfriends at first but over time it was created and built. I think you have a very narrow view of the world of attraction if you think leagues exist.

Author:  Captain Catch [ Mon May 07, 2012 5:10 pm ]
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But you must not be that real world example since you are on a forum trying to learn how to pick up women.

Ill agree I have seen some hot women with ugly guys, but not often enough to call it a trend.

For the most part hot women stay with hot guys

average women stay with average guys

ugly women stay with ugly guys

Author:  ThexTallxNinja3 [ Mon May 07, 2012 5:16 pm ]
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But you must not be that real world example since you are on a forum trying to learn how to pick up women.

Ill agree I have seen some hot women with ugly guys, but not often enough to call it a trend.

For the most part hot women stay with hot guys

average women stay with average guys

ugly women stay with ugly guys
Well the main reason for this is that I think most guys tend to go for what they feel is "in their league" because they don't feel they could do any better. Which is false because leagues do not exist. Now if you are some obese slob you are not going to get with a an above avg looking girl. My main point is that most uneducated guys feel intimidated by better looking women and assume they will not want them. So they do not bother or when they do they display many unattractive traits. I am not saying looks do not matter but I think you have a bit of a narrower mind about it.

Also, to assume I am here for that reason is very narrow minded as well. I can tell you right now all the girls I've been involved with were better looking than me. So please do not make assumptions like that.

Author:  Captain Catch [ Mon May 07, 2012 5:36 pm ]
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But you must not be that real world example since you are on a forum trying to learn how to pick up women.

Ill agree I have seen some hot women with ugly guys, but not often enough to call it a trend.

For the most part hot women stay with hot guys

average women stay with average guys

ugly women stay with ugly guys
Well the main reason for this is that I think most guys tend to go for what they feel is "in their league" because they don't feel they could do any better. Which is false because leagues do not exist. Now if you are some obese slob you are not going to get with a an above avg looking girl. My main point is that most uneducated guys feel intimidated by better looking women and assume they will not want them. So they do not bother or when they do they display many unattractive traits. I am not saying looks do not matter but I think you have a bit of a narrower mind about it.

Also, to assume I am here for that reason is very narrow minded as well. I can tell you right now all the girls I've been involved with were better looking than me. So please do not make assumptions like that.
My bad, most people who come here are experts getting lots of women, and they come to fill up their time.

I done put my foot in my mouth again. Sorry Mystery :D

Author:  ThexTallxNinja3 [ Mon May 07, 2012 5:39 pm ]
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But you must not be that real world example since you are on a forum trying to learn how to pick up women.

Ill agree I have seen some hot women with ugly guys, but not often enough to call it a trend.

For the most part hot women stay with hot guys

average women stay with average guys

ugly women stay with ugly guys
Well the main reason for this is that I think most guys tend to go for what they feel is "in their league" because they don't feel they could do any better. Which is false because leagues do not exist. Now if you are some obese slob you are not going to get with a an above avg looking girl. My main point is that most uneducated guys feel intimidated by better looking women and assume they will not want them. So they do not bother or when they do they display many unattractive traits. I am not saying looks do not matter but I think you have a bit of a narrower mind about it.

Also, to assume I am here for that reason is very narrow minded as well. I can tell you right now all the girls I've been involved with were better looking than me. So please do not make assumptions like that.
My bad, most people who come here are experts getting lots of women, and they come to fill up their time.

I done put my foot in my mouth again. Sorry Mystery :D
I feel you are just being an ass now but, whatever. I am not here claiming to get with supermodels or that I have a surplus of women. I am not disagreeing with you either but I am just saying I think your opinion is just misinformed. You're entitled to your own opinion and obviously nothing I say is going to change that.

Author:  Captain Catch [ Mon May 07, 2012 7:46 pm ]
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Well the main reason for this is that I think most guys tend to go for what they feel is "in their league" because they don't feel they could do any better. Which is false because leagues do not exist. Now if you are some obese slob you are not going to get with a an above avg looking girl. My main point is that most uneducated guys feel intimidated by better looking women and assume they will not want them. So they do not bother or when they do they display many unattractive traits. I am not saying looks do not matter but I think you have a bit of a narrower mind about it.

Also, to assume I am here for that reason is very narrow minded as well. I can tell you right now all the girls I've been involved with were better looking than me. So please do not make assumptions like that.
My bad, most people who come here are experts getting lots of women, and they come to fill up their time.

I done put my foot in my mouth again. Sorry Mystery :D
I feel you are just being an ass now but, whatever. I am not here claiming to get with supermodels or that I have a surplus of women. I am not disagreeing with you either but I am just saying I think your opinion is just misinformed. You're entitled to your own opinion and obviously nothing I say is going to change that.
Not being an asshole, just what im saying are very human things, dont claim to not know what Im talking about.

Show me some pictures of 10's you have gotten. Preferably with you in the same picture. :D

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