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Author:  Lennister [ Sun May 06, 2012 9:27 am ]
Post subject:  Call her before or after the other date?
Dear PUA's,

Next week there is a girl from Slovakia (im from Holland) comming over for me that I met when i was there. This is great of course but a bit weird since i dont really know if she is comming for me or the country or...i dont know, since i havent seen her for a year. So the first question is, how do i get the heat starting again really soon since she only is her for four days? Just the normal PUA techniques?

The second question is about this girl I really like but sadly friendzoned me. I try to get out of the friendzone there by creating more distance and laying low for a while (yes i have read some tips on this forum 8) ). I know she is the jealous type so i want to make use of the Slovakian girl oppertunity. Do you guys think it is smart to try to date with her before the Slovakian girl, so she thinks: O fuck there are girls even from foreign countries comming here for him, he must be good. I must get him now! :D Or after the girl has left so i can brag about what i did with her?

Please let me know. Thx
Author:  detox75 [ Mon May 07, 2012 3:59 am ]
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My tip for the slovak broad is to first pretend that you dont expect sex. The sexual tension will be there no matter what her expectations, but you will seem way cooler if it looks like your not relining on her to get laid and expecting it. Take her somewhere you have a lot of social proof at your leisure and then run game on her as needed. You should have some social proof set up, maybe your friends can help you with this.

Its normally not my style to employee a jealousy plot-line for game. However you have picked out a textbook case where its a truly nice option and applicable. I would go with your plan, but if she has completely friend-zoned you dont expect much.
Author:  agentprovocateur [ Mon May 07, 2012 4:14 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Call her before or after the other date?
Quote:
Dear PUA's,

Next week there is a girl from Slovakia (im from Holland) comming over for me that I met when i was there. This is great of course but a bit weird since i dont really know if she is comming for me or the country or...i dont know, since i havent seen her for a year. So the first question is, how do i get the heat starting again really soon since she only is her for four days? Just the normal PUA techniques?

The second question is about this girl I really like but sadly friendzoned me. I try to get out of the friendzone there by creating more distance and laying low for a while (yes i have read some tips on this forum 8) ). I know she is the jealous type so i want to make use of the Slovakian girl oppertunity. Do you guys think it is smart to try to date with her before the Slovakian girl, so she thinks: O fuck there are girls even from foreign countries comming here for him, he must be good. I must get him now! :D Or after the girl has left so i can brag about what i did with her?

Please let me know. Thx
1st part who cares why she's coming, be a bit delusional and just assume its for you if it helps. Fact is she's gong to see you and that's all that matters - it's an opportunity. Invite her over to your place for drinks and to go through some photo album stuff, for example. Be physical with her upon greeting her (take her hands caress them before letting go), sit close with her (knee to knee on couch)...BUILD A CONTEXT TO CREATE THE ILLUSION WHERE THINGS SEEM TO JUST HAPPEN ORGANICALLY (women love this shit!--the "it just happened" phenomenon).

2nd part do whatever will put you in a better frame. If you can date one girl earlier, by all means do so as knowing you've got options will likely make you feel more confident on your approach with the next girl (cumulative effect). I wouldn't necessarily use one girl as a pawn to make the other jealous as your sole intention, but rather create every opportunity you can with many women so your options are never limited and your state control is always calm, cool, and collected (knowing you've got options if one chick doesn't pan out rather than functioning from a frame of neediness).
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