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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Fri May 04, 2012 4:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | How do you handle the typical bitch on her pedestal |
I am good with non bitches, but there comes a time when I get the "I am better than you" or the "Don't even try" girls and half the time they break my frame. But in other good news, I am not as hesitant to approach them as before. Any ideas? |
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| Author: | Hakuna [ Fri May 04, 2012 4:57 am ] |
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Their goal, their ONLY purpose, their ONLY single-minded obsession with all their trolling and yelling and screaming and betatizing responses; is to draw blood from you. Those obnoxious remarks have ONE GOAL, to elicit some sort of response from you, preferably an emotional one. They want your attention, nothing else. And the moment you give it to them, whether through a pissed-off asshole remark, or a sign of appeasement, they have broken you and lost interest. The correct response to trolls is simple: Ignore them. But not in the active way where it’s CLEAR that you’re ignoring them; because then they’ve gotten a reaction out of you. Ignore them in the most passive of ways, and then watch their frames melt in an effort to regain your attention. It needs to be a careless ignorance, because really, why DO you care what they say? Like the bucket list of betas at the bottom of the food chain, they are the most pathetic of their gender Don't hit em with blatantly hard negs. Opt for something like: "Oh... you're that type of girl" followed by a casual back turn. This type of subtle neg is a fuckin soul-kill because deep down, her id is thinking "omg... he sees through my charade" |
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| Author: | agentprovocateur [ Fri May 04, 2012 4:58 am ] |
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Question should be why would you want to even invest your time in a bitch? Anyhow, I'd use a confidant yet humble approach. Typically these self-obsessed women over-aggress expecting a nasty response in return. Answering in a confidant yet humble manner will catch her off guard and often times make her feel guilty for responding to you in such a manner (assuming she truly isn't a bitch at heart, which most women arent). The whole bitch thing is usually just to see how a guy will respond to resistance (e.g. will he stay and escalate, or flee the scene with his tail between his legs). |
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| Author: | RedCali [ Fri May 04, 2012 5:06 am ] |
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I always glance over it quickly. Easy if you have wings or the majority of a set on your side. Last time this happened I was at a friends house party. HB9 with a MASSIVE bitch shield, kept making smart ass comments about my stories while looking away/acting dismissive and bored. I had the other 4-5 people in the group engaged though, 2 other girls including another 9 (friend's GF). I called her out on acting like those snobby girls you see on reality TV shows, which was easy because my sister acts the exact same way and I always mock her by doing my stereotypical spoiled girl voice (anyone who's seen George Lopez has seen him do it) This is what I remember of it: Me: (Finishing story about meeting an NBA player) Her: (sarcastic) wow..cool story Me: (staring at her, smiling, look to group) Doesn't she remind you of those girls from The Hills? Look at her! Her: What are you talking about? Me: (ignoring, talking to group) She checks her phone every 10 seconds (stuck up girl voice) "Oh god, this is soooo boring, I'm way too popular to be with these people!" (Groups laughing) Her: (cracks into smile) what? I'm not like that! When I'm solo, I mock her immediately after her BS comment, "Haha that's cute (love tap)" If I finally break down a huge BS then sometimes I'll neg any DHV they give to maintain that edge..and keep going. I actually learned that from a girl I dated, she was good at shutting down my DHV stories. Never show anger and never show frustration at their BS. If you do you're dead in the water. |
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| Author: | P-Style [ Fri May 04, 2012 2:13 pm ] |
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Be indifferent. |
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| Author: | gtdave [ Fri May 04, 2012 2:52 pm ] |
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My girlfriend is a bitch shield kind of girl though she doesn't really show it to me much apart from in a joking way. Though when I first met her I managed to bypass it really quickly even if I didn't realise it. Without meaning to I managed to insult her appearance. So much so that she actually had to find a mirror to check herself. Thing is she was absoulutely perfect I just made a hash of what I was trying to say and it got interperated wrongly! I've seen other guys try to hit on her and she first gives a dirty look then if they persist she says "just fuck off will you" then comes up to me lol. Handy for me but a nightmare for the other guys |
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| Author: | Techgame [ Fri May 04, 2012 5:12 pm ] |
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Quote: Be indifferent.
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