Well how come I dont find you interesting?
I was playing devils advocate. You have to be what you say you are, in the end, is what I was trying to say.
But im still not finfing you very interesting, regardless of how many frisbees you threw.
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| Author: | Captain Catch [ Thu May 03, 2012 5:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Finding VS keeping |
So, you got past approach anxiety, you managed to make her think you are an alpha, and you got the number, and will start meeting up again. Now what? Unless you are really and truly a changed person, and not someone who learned a system, you will still be stuck with the same problem. How do you keep her believing you are the alpha, and what if you are just a shy guy, and dont have alot to say, can you do anything about that? Some of us are boring, we cant do anything about it, it's our personality. |
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| Author: | charblad [ Thu May 03, 2012 5:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Finding VS keeping |
Quote: Some of us are boring, we cant do anything about it, it's our personality. Ah it physically hurts me to hear this...You can do EVERYTHING about it; you've either been conditioned by society to believe you have no control, or you're so lazy you've told yourself you can't so many time you believe it yourself now. Go outside, do something - go gun shooting, play frisbee with a friend, go to a club even if you don't drink anything there, go skateboarding, ride your bike, go to a park, swim; almost all of those are free and available to do immediately no matter what the weather. PUA isn't about "how to get a girl by not changing at all" - you HAVE TO CHANGE SOMETHING, if you don't want to change yourself you're not a PUA, and shouldn't be on this site at all |
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| Author: | Captain Catch [ Thu May 03, 2012 5:47 pm ] |
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Well how come I dont find you interesting? I was playing devils advocate. You have to be what you say you are, in the end, is what I was trying to say. But im still not finfing you very interesting, regardless of how many frisbees you threw.
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| Author: | charblad [ Thu May 03, 2012 6:02 pm ] |
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Quote: I was playing devils advocate. You have to be what you say you are, in the end, is what I was trying to say. A)You don't find me interesting because I don't care about putting on a show or being some selfish popular guy, I just want to help without having to explaining why "I'm so cool"B) "You have to be what you say you are" It's almost like I told you exactly how to do that... Quote: Go outside, do something - go gun shooting, play frisbee with a friend, go to a club even if you don't drink anything there, go skateboarding, ride your bike, go to a park, swim; And the sports ect. that you do arn't the DHV, It's what happens and the stories you get from them"you should play Frisbee with us, one time a girl was walking right infront of me right when I threw the Frisbee and it hit her head, I was so embarrassed..." "I used to love playing soccer, when I was like 12 I played on a team and noone ever passed me the ball, but one time I finally got them to pass me it and I made a goal from halfway across the field" "When I went snowboarding I went to the very top of a double black diamond, and you could see the entire park below, the snow was so deep if you fell you went 2 feet down and it was a struggle just to get back up, and at the bottom there were so many hills you were forced to do 2-4 ft high jumps every few seconds" See the sport doesn't matter at all, it's what you do and how much fun you had (yes those are all true for me) You can see from those stories too, when I was young I was very non-social, I wasn't friends with anyone on my soccer team and was kindof a loner, but I CHANGED and now am playing frisbee with girls and snowboarding with groups of people |
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| Author: | GeorgePH [ Fri May 04, 2012 6:16 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Finding VS keeping |
Quote: So, you got past approach anxiety, you managed to make her think you are an alpha, and you got the number, and will start meeting up again.
You are right. If you are using a system, you will be stuck with the same problem. Now what? Unless you are really and truly a changed person, and not someone who learned a system, you will still be stuck with the same problem. How do you keep her believing you are the alpha, and what if you are just a shy guy, and dont have alot to say, can you do anything about that? Some of us are boring, we cant do anything about it, it's our personality. Your problem is that you think you're boring. You're fucking yourself over. 2 days ago, I was on a date with a younger girl and told her: "You know, I like you and I want to kiss you. But I've never been with a younger woman [this is true] and I'm kinda nervous right now." BOOM, makeout 5 minutes later. You don't have to be an alpha. It's fine to be shy. A man who's truly comfortable and confident about himself allows himself to be vulnerable. I tell girls weird stories about myself, I never DHV. And it all works for me because I believe I'm interesting and valuable enough to say those things. Basically, STOP THE LIMITING BELIEFS. |
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