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| Author: | JSCA [ Tue May 01, 2012 8:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Fucked up. BIG TIME!!! |
In a recent post of mine, I spoke about always being in the friend zone. I was referring to a current HB9(Thats according to other people. I dont really see her more the a 7 but anyway) that I was trying. I THOUGHT that i was just stuck in the friend zone and couldn't get any further. So I attempted to do as the replies on the post said, Game her friends. Which I did. I managed to kiss close one of her friends, not a very close friends but she's kinda in her circle. Anyway it turned out that the HB9 thought something was going on between us and now she is completely pissed at me. In her words, "I'm fine, my issue is you,think about your actions.night." *Please note this was on text message as she would not answer my calls. I attempted to end the conversation by saying I need to go to sleep. Good night* How can I fix this as I really would like to mend this? If it would be of any benefit to know, she has always been scared of getting too involved with a guy due to the fear of getting hurt. I also made it very clear I would never think of doing anything like that... |
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| Author: | hawksterG [ Tue May 01, 2012 8:40 pm ] |
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You were in the friendzone buddy. Bitches are crazy. Don't want you, don't want you with other people. Continue what you're doing. Keep freezing her out. Don't explain your actions or anything. Thats weak. Calls? Plural? Why would you do that. Also weak. If she confronts you about it. You can drop this: "Listen, I don't know what you're thinking. But clearly we we're not on the same page. I just wanted to clear things up with you. " Don't tell her you like her. Just tell her "Its funny how some things work out eh" And then ask her what SHES thinking. Go with that. If shes like ...welll i thought we were....then you work with that... Cause she might pull a 180 and leave you hanging in the friendzone still. Then, when she wants |
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| Author: | NikAFC [ Tue May 01, 2012 8:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Fucked up. BIG TIME!!! |
Quote: In a recent post of mine, I spoke about always being in the friend zone. I was referring to a current HB9(Thats according to other people. I dont really see her more the a 7 but anyway) that I was trying. I THOUGHT that i was just stuck in the friend zone and couldn't get any further. So I attempted to do as the replies on the post said, Game her friends. Which I did. I managed to kiss close one of her friends, not a very close friends but she's kinda in her circle. Anyway it turned out that the HB9 thought something was going on between us and now she is completely pissed at me. In her words, "I'm fine, my issue is you,think about your actions.night." *Please note this was on text message as she would not answer my calls. I attempted to end the conversation by saying I need to go to sleep. Good night* Well obviously someone gave you a really shit advice. All you need to get out of the friend zone is to escalate with comfidence. But obviously you weren't in the friendzone anyway.
How can I fix this as I really would like to mend this? If it would be of any benefit to know, she has always been scared of getting too involved with a guy due to the fear of getting hurt. I also made it very clear I would never think of doing anything like that... |
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| Author: | JSCA [ Tue May 01, 2012 8:49 pm ] |
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Quote: Well obviously someone gave you a really shit advice. All you need to get out of the friend zone is to escalate with comfidence. But obviously you weren't in the friendzone anyway.
Everyone else thought something was going on between us. So apparently I was the only one that never saw it?? She would sometimes give me an IOI but she would also give IOD, But i always thought IOI's were just because she had flirty personality.Is there anyway to get past this one?[/quote] |
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| Author: | synergyz [ Tue May 01, 2012 9:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Fucked up. BIG TIME!!! |
Quote: Quote: In a recent post of mine, I spoke about always being in the friend zone. I was referring to a current HB9(Thats according to other people. I dont really see her more the a 7 but anyway) that I was trying. I THOUGHT that i was just stuck in the friend zone and couldn't get any further. So I attempted to do as the replies on the post said, Game her friends. Which I did. I managed to kiss close one of her friends, not a very close friends but she's kinda in her circle. Anyway it turned out that the HB9 thought something was going on between us and now she is completely pissed at me. In her words, "I'm fine, my issue is you,think about your actions.night." *Please note this was on text message as she would not answer my calls. I attempted to end the conversation by saying I need to go to sleep. Good night* Well obviously someone gave you a really shit advice. All you need to get out of the friend zone is to escalate with comfidence. But obviously you weren't in the friendzone anyway.How can I fix this as I really would like to mend this? If it would be of any benefit to know, she has always been scared of getting too involved with a guy due to the fear of getting hurt. I also made it very clear I would never think of doing anything like that... |
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| Author: | seph89 [ Tue May 01, 2012 9:21 pm ] |
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Hey man, Check out this video of a lecture by my mentor, Arash Dibazar. It will really help you break out of this "approval-seeking" mindset, which would ultimately help you "mend" the situation if you so still choose to after watching it. If you have any further questions regarding your situation or anything in general, feel free to PM me. All the best, Sepano |
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