Depending on what part of friend zone you are currently in you will vary this a bit.
If you are in the just friend zone be sure to notice HBs and even point them out to her when you are together. You can regale her with stories of things you did with other girls that she would find sexy. Doing things like that will let her know that you are a sexually aware man. Then be sure to point out how good it is to have a female friend who is not trying to get sex from you, thus flipping the tables on her. Give her a kiss on the cheek and leave her to think about how awesome you really are. Make sure you are the first to leave so she knows you aren't needy. Let her initiate your next meeting. When she does this, tell her you have a date but are free the next day or later on and would love to get together with your best female friend (push pull). When you do, look for IOIs and see if the spark is there. Do long pauses, do the eye mouth triangle, and some kino. If there is sexual tension, IOIs, or verbal indicators go to phase 2.
Phase 2
If you left it with sexual tension you can pick up where you left off by telling her you are just friends and pointing out all the lame things that "just friends" do, for example, you could rub her feet and it would mean nothing. You can take her to the movies and she can pay for you. You can give her a back massage and remain just friends... Mean while kino escalate. Rub her shoulders, play with her hair, smell her neckline, etc and when she throws up resistance you just agree with her "yeah we shouldn't do this" and "this would ruin our friendship" and all that kind of stuff while continuing to escalate. Think of all the objections she could possibly raise and beat her to the punch. The tendency is for women to pick an opposite view point so in her mind she will be asking herself "why shouldn't we?" and things like that.
I have an old friend who I haven't seen in years coming to visit me and this is the route I'm going to try. Will post results.
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should be pretty easy, GOOD LUCK!