Hi guys!
I want some tips on how to save this one :p
This girl came into the bar I work at about 3 months ago. She is a friend of a colleague of mine. When we closed, she came up to me and told me how handsome she thought I was. So after closing time we met up at an afterparty. Turns out she has a boyfriend. Still, we ended up making out. This happened twice after that, but I then said I wouldn't keep doing this as long as she has a boyfriend.
2months later she is single. I send her a couple of casual txts, but no answer. This weekend she was at my bar again. Happy as ever! We made out, but then she said: I really like you, and want to have sex with you. But something you have said has hurt me, so that won't happen now.
What happened was that I was at a party with one of her friends, and he bet me that I wouldn't manage to fuck this girl in 3 months time. Drunk as I was and being just me and him I said: sure, let's bet 200$. It was just a stupid joke while drinking, but now it turns out he has told her, and she now thinks she is only a bet to me. Truth is, I like this girl, and am more than willing to maybe to more eith this girl than just fuck her. But, she thinks that is all I want and, understandably, is pretty pissed and dissappointed that I bet her :p
So, guys. How can I explain this to her in a way that makes her forget the whole thing so we can get back into business?
Thx in advance
!-alex the startender
