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Author:  Untouchable3 [ Sun Apr 29, 2012 10:10 pm ]
Post subject:  HB9-10 day2, confused!!

Sup guys, I NEED your help.
So I a couple of days ago I approached (direct) this HB9-10 (18yo, Im 20) in a club, was kinda drunk, but everything went well, talked to her for about 15 minutes , got her number and then she had to leave the club with her friends. After a couple of days just texting we met up for a drink.
She was shit testing me kinda a lot; Mentioned I don't have a really good body ( but I kinda do ;) ), standard teasing, that I'm going to sleep alone tonight, that she doesn't know yet if there is going to be another drink etc. - I (think) I responded well. She was also very talkative but she also mentioned that around guys who she likes she is usually quite. wtf? - another shit test?.
Then I asked for the check and we walked back to the bus station and she talked about something and I didn't really listen so when I responded she realized I wasn't listening, but there was no awkward silence, just a little awkward moment. Then her bus came and she just kinda went on without any hug or a kiss on cheek and when I told her; see ya, talk to you later she replied; I doubt it - not in a to serious way. No I'm confused.. was that another shit test? Was she mad because a minute ago I wasn't listening? I'm more of a natural and I know a little bit of the theory, but maybe I was teasing to much and didn't gave her enough interest in her - didn't told her any compliments all though I told her I wont bore you with them, and I also didn't use kino much. I also worry I didn't come across as to arrongant/asshole. MY QUESTIONS for more experienced guys: 1. How should I proceed? 2. How much teasing and how much interest do you convey when HB9 is giving you so many shit tests.
I know I'm maybe complicating too much but the girl is really hot and intelligent so I would like to see more of her in the future :).
I would REALLY appreciate your help!

Author:  Warped Mindless [ Sun Apr 29, 2012 10:37 pm ]
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Not everything is a shit test. She made it blatantly obvious in the beginning that she had no interest in you as was just for the drinks.

However, lets say that her being rude to you was just a shit test. Maybe she wanted to see how much you respect yourself. Any man who does respect himself wouldn't have tolerated that sort of behavior and would have left. You stayed. What conclusions do you think she came to because of that?

Author:  Untouchable3 [ Sun Apr 29, 2012 10:42 pm ]
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Quote:
Not everything is a shit test. She made it blatantly obvious in the beginning that she had no interest in you as was just for the drinks.

However, lets say that her being rude to you was just a shit test. Maybe she wanted to see how much you respect yourself. Any man who does respect himself wouldn't have tolerated that sort of behavior and would have left. You stayed. What conclusions do you think she came to because of that?
Beside this test we had a lot of fun that's why I stayed. I don't really know what to think so I'm asking you guys.

Author:  crowdude [ Sun Apr 29, 2012 10:43 pm ]
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I agree with the above.
There's a fine line between identifying shit tests, and being clueless. Now I'm not saying you're one or the other, but just be careful.

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