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Author:  crazycoolo [ Sat Apr 28, 2012 10:51 pm ]
Post subject:  makking the first move?

Wen talking to girls like if i like the girl and everything and assuming i have her number at this point and we've met like she likes me back like its just kinda natural but the thing that holds me back the most is making that initial approach to talk to a girl if i dont know her, i usually rely on friends introducing me or something along those lines so how do i overcome this i guess fear of mine?

Thanks-MarkiS

Author:  Every_Woman's_Dream [ Sun Apr 29, 2012 12:07 am ]
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What are you afraid? You're afraid of being disliked, of being embarassed, of being looked down of upon, of hurting your reputation, of being inadeqyate.

Author:  oo7 [ Sun Apr 29, 2012 1:58 am ]
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Tell yourself in a mirror for 30 days as many times as possible: "Hot girls love talking to me and I never care about what they are thinking". You will be surprised at the change in your perception of approaching girls

Author:  candybar [ Sun Apr 29, 2012 5:16 am ]
Post subject:  Re: makking the first move?

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Wen talking to girls like if i like the girl and everything and assuming i have her number at this point and we've met like she likes me back like its just kinda natural but the thing that holds me back the most is making that initial approach to talk to a girl if i dont know her, i usually rely on friends introducing me or something along those lines so how do i overcome this i guess fear of mine?

Thanks-MarkiS
I used to be like this.

But the trick is to do it in public places - where if you fail - there will be no connection back to you. It's bad to do it on campus because if you fail she may tell her friends which may get back to you.

While in public, and you want to talk to her just making a casual approach and monitor for positive signs. And make sure you go through each stages before you close and get her number. And don't stay too long talking to her. Just make it quick so you can text her later.

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