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| Author: | crowdude [ Sat Apr 28, 2012 1:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Direct vs Indirect openers |
WHICH IS BETTER? Direct openers examples: Hey I thought you were really cute blablabla... You can't keep looking at me like that without saying something! etc. Indirect openers examples: Woah did you see that fight outside!? Hey do you know any good places to get something to eat? etc. |
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| Author: | titanman [ Sat Apr 28, 2012 2:22 pm ] |
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Depends on situation. |
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| Author: | European-Dj [ Sat Apr 28, 2012 2:36 pm ] |
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I never use indirect openers - i did when i started gaming and still was AFC .. But i have learned that a direct opener, presented with the right attitude and confidence, is the best way to approach. Keep in mind though, i would never go up to a girl and say "ohh, you are the most beautifull girl in here, please give me your number". You tell her in a discreet way, so you do not come on too strong. |
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| Author: | Little Panda [ Sat Apr 28, 2012 2:43 pm ] |
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I use indirect for being generally social and direct for when I actually want to get laid. No need to hide your intentions, total waste of time. |
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| Author: | crowdude [ Sat Apr 28, 2012 3:13 pm ] |
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I mostly use indirect so that I don't come off as too interested. I find that this works a lot better on HB9s and 10s Also i prefer going into a set rather than 1 on 1 because that way you can pick up or if, for any reason, it doesn't work out you've made a new group of friends. And ofc you can't go direct into a set without making it awkward for the friends. |
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| Author: | Rough Operator [ Sat Apr 28, 2012 3:41 pm ] |
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Generally direct, it depends on the situation. Both will work though. I still sometimes use indirect because I do still have a lot of AFCness holding me back and if I am suffering from bad approach anxiety, I find it easier to go indirect for a an approach or two, it's like putting the training wheels back on to steady me. When starting out I lacked a lot of confidence required for direct openers so I was using indirect until a few successes with that boosted me. |
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| Author: | jurupa [ Sun Apr 29, 2012 9:01 am ] |
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Both ways work, but I use direct majority of the time as for me it works better. |
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