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Author:  MikeSpike [ Fri Apr 27, 2012 10:14 pm ]
Post subject:  She doesn't respond to texts. Why not?
Hey guys last week a met a very attractive girl we chated for a while and the convo was going really well. I acted like a real male. My tone of voice was great she was laughing the whole time and giggling. 2 days later I text her and it goes as follows:

Me: Hey wat up FBI girl
She: This is
Me:It's xxxx we met at this and this place.
She: Ohh what's up
Me: Enjoying the good day. Wat about u.
She: lol like wise getting pampered lol
Me: Any plans for tonite?
She: I can't got my tattoo filled out
Me: Kewl. What tattoo?
She: Ull see in person :)
Me: Haha. R u trying to get me excited
She: Lmaoo maybe :-p
Me: I knew it! My momy warned me about girls like u
She: Lmaooo oh rly. What she say
Me: She said they'll seduce u and..... The rest ill tell u in person ;)
She: Lmfaoo ohh boYy
Me: Wat days u free next week.
She: Tue and weekend
Me:Alright, ill call u next week
She: Ok

I texted her later on in the week to meet up and she didn't respond to the text. I send her another text 2 days later she still didn't respond. What do you guys think happaned? I don't have oneitis on this girl. I am asking this because I want to get feedback on this conversation. So please guys if you have constructive feedback feel free to comment.
Author:  EddieFews [ Fri Apr 27, 2012 10:32 pm ]
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You said you'd call her..
Author:  MikeSpike [ Fri Apr 27, 2012 10:57 pm ]
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I know but I didn't! So now what
Author:  EddieFews [ Fri Apr 27, 2012 11:02 pm ]
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call her
Author:  MikeSpike [ Fri Apr 27, 2012 11:24 pm ]
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Ok I will call her and let you know what happened. But what do you think about the conversation itself?
Author:  EddieFews [ Fri Apr 27, 2012 11:27 pm ]
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it was cool.. you didn't really establish a connection though.. its was just a quick text thread and then on to the next one.. A phone call is the best way to solidify things.
Author:  Every_Woman's_Dream [ Fri Apr 27, 2012 11:46 pm ]
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Call her. I hope that works. Move slower going forward and don't push to much or too fast going forward. I can feel your anxiousness in your text.
Author:  MikeSpike [ Sun Apr 29, 2012 12:53 am ]
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Call her. I hope that works. Move slower going forward and don't push to much or too fast going forward. I can feel your anxiousness in your text.
Yes your statements are very accurate. I happen to be very pushy and impatient. When I was texting I just texted exactly what was in my mind. I had thoughts of "she might not like this and this" but I said fuck that to those thoughts and texted what I wanted. The reason I went so fast was because I wanted to project my sexuality because I am very sexual.
Author:  MikeSpike [ Sun Apr 29, 2012 12:55 am ]
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it was cool.. you didn't really establish a connection though.. its was just a quick text thread and then on to the next one.. A phone call is the best way to solidify things.
Fuze can you explain a little bit about establishing a connection. Do you mean like just small talk. Or what exactly do you mean.
Author:  EddieFews [ Sun Apr 29, 2012 1:27 am ]
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What you did over the text was small talk... There was no real emotions being exchanged during that text thread. Just general flirty banter which is good but it won't get you far. It is just temporary fun.


A phone call allows you to go into depth and fully express your thoughts and feelings, it allows her to do that as well.. As you know the tone is more important than the words themselves. Its kinda of hard to convey a tone through text messaging. This lead it to being a limited form of communication. A phone call give your a direct connection to her brain, she is sure to think about you often after a solid one.
Author:  MikeSpike [ Sun Apr 29, 2012 1:36 am ]
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O ok thanks I see.
Author:  oo7 [ Sun Apr 29, 2012 1:49 am ]
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She didn't reply to 2 of your texts. Time to move on to the next in line. She missed out on you, not the other way around. Always remember you are the more important one out of you and any girl
Author:  MikeSpike [ Sun Apr 29, 2012 3:19 am ]
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Yea 007 totally agree with you. I had some doubtful thoughts in my head saying "you messed up" "this girl probably thinks you're weird" etc.. but I tried keeping them away and substituting them with thoughts such as "she lost out" etc.. But the thing is the thoughts keep coming back to me for a long time until time passes. Is there a way to somehow prevent these thoughts from reappearing?
Author:  oo7 [ Sun Apr 29, 2012 3:31 am ]
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Yes there is. Go out and start chatting with as many hot girls as possible and you will see that there are far too many opportunities to hook up hot girls to waste your time sitting around thinking about 1 8)
Author:  candybar [ Sun Apr 29, 2012 5:06 am ]
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What people are saying to call her is wrong. If she was interested, she would of text back.

Since she didn't text back - it's probably because of un-attraction along the way.

I think there's a 20% chance that it's not your fault -

But it's good if you improve what you do so you improve your odds the next time around for the next girl.

You did everything well. Flirting with her - and throwing out suggestions that she's trying to get in your pants.

The one thing you could improve which I suggest you try on the next girl - then tell me how it works.

Instead of going directly to the fact that you're going to set up a next appointment with her for next weekend - you gotta re-engage her and re-attract her.

When you asked right away, "Me: Wat days u free next week. "

It seems a little too needy right away that you wanna see her as soon as possible.

ALSO it's important NOT to text back right away.

After her text "She: Lmfaoo ohh boYy"

She's letting it die, so you gotta wait a while. You don't need to rush to fill the silence by jumping into a new topic. If she replies something like that, it's even best to wait ONE whole day before you reply asking what her schedule is like.

You want to seem like you're busy all the time and you have things to do, otherwise she may feel that you're being too clingy too fast.
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