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| Author: | AthleticSmartass [ Fri Apr 27, 2012 11:20 am ] |
| Post subject: | Online date flaked out. What now? |
I met a girl on an online dating platform last week and since we are both keen runners we went for a run. I had the impression this "date" went very well - I could make her laugh and we had a really good conversation. She suggested another run the next day, but I couldn't make it and since she had to go to another town for a few days we agreed to run again this Thursday. That was yesterday, but she just didn't show up. I send her a message, asking her what was going on - but no answer yet. How should I proceed? I'm thinking about suggesting to go for drinks this weekend and if she doesn't agree to this, she's definitely not interested and I can forget her. Or do you guys have other suggestions? Also, what could be the reason for this behavior. As I said, I thought, the date went well. |
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| Author: | ThexTallxNinja3 [ Fri Apr 27, 2012 2:15 pm ] |
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Maybe it didnt. Who knows. Keep your options open, talk to other girls, move on as if it doesn't matter. Because it doesn't. If she wants to go out with you again she will respond. Don't send her another message. That just comes off as needy. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Apr 27, 2012 2:23 pm ] |
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Wait for a reply, move to NEXT in the meantime! |
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| Author: | mapleleaf [ Fri Apr 27, 2012 6:56 pm ] |
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Wait for her reply and DO NOT keep on sending her messages. Let me ask you, do you keep on sending messages if your guy friends dont show up for run or fun activties? No, right? So, act like that too. If you are putting too much pressure on this girl, she will run away. Just act casual and cool. |
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| Author: | diaoman [ Fri Apr 27, 2012 6:57 pm ] |
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I'm wary of online game. Impossible to escalate and you're forced to be social, which I'm highly against, b/c it makes you friends not lovers. Being sexual on online game is hit or miss. This is why I never interact with girls I wanna bang online. Nothing beats face to face. Just my two cents. |
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| Author: | agentprovocateur [ Fri Apr 27, 2012 7:00 pm ] |
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Give it a few days and text her "hope everything's ok" |
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| Author: | AthleticSmartass [ Fri Apr 27, 2012 9:25 pm ] |
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Thanks guys! My last message to her was "Hey, where were you today?". Still no answer... I think I'll stick with agentprovocateur suggestion. If I get nothing until Monday, I'll message her something like "Hope everything is OK", if I get no reply I'll forget her. Of course this might look a little needy, but I have nothing to lose. If she gets back to me, maybe I'll manage to get her meet up with me for drinks and hopefully more afterwards and if not: fuck it... |
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| Author: | AthleticSmartass [ Sat Apr 28, 2012 12:26 pm ] |
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does that sound good to you guys? |
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| Author: | Pokee [ Sat Apr 28, 2012 12:41 pm ] |
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No. I think that "hope everything's ok" sounds afc like you're just sitting there waiting for her to tell you what's up. I think your next message could be something like, "thursday. 10am. 3 miles @ Central park." Or whatever your particular details are. Tell her what she's going to expect with you in this way. If she's down with you, good. If not, next. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Sat Apr 28, 2012 1:28 pm ] |
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Hope everything is ok? wtf is that???? Hope my balls are ok in your purse! |
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| Author: | Lodo [ Sat Apr 28, 2012 6:45 pm ] |
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dude, if yu had set up a date and she didnt even bother cancelling it?? and then she doesnt even respond to your message? come on... |
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| Author: | Every_Woman's_Dream [ Sat Apr 28, 2012 11:54 pm ] |
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don't date online... |
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