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My favorite rebuttal to that is " Oh.. A boyfriend? How long have you had that problem?

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I generally leave the girls alone with actual boyfriend, however that line has got me some decent action.

Well...considering you went sarging direct, it's going to happen. Usually the girls always lie about the bf, but surprisingly a lot of them actually do have boyfriends. I think you have to keep your frame and just be like thats fucking cool. I have a girlfriend. And if she says you're terrible, grab her and say i can be worse....

Thats very direct though....as you start off, direct game is terrible but relax and keep doing it...

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My favorite rebuttal to that is " Oh.. A boyfriend? How long have you had that problem?

"

I generally leave the girls alone with actual boyfriend, however that line has got me some decent action.

Haha nice. I'll probably use that line the next time a girl throws that at me.

For the OP, usually if she IS giving you that line that means you've come off too needy and shown too much interest, so she she playing that card as a shield to ward you off, regardless of whether it is true or not.

You can go sexually playful and use Fuze's line or you can also use what I do:

Laugh or chuckle as if she said something very irrelevant to the conversation thread, just make sure it's not in a mocking way, then say something like, "Woah did it come off like I was hitting on you? Because that was not my intention at all, you just looked like you were enjoying yourself and having a good time so I wanted to see what the fun was all about. I mean don't get me wrong, you're beautiful (she actually HAS TO BE beautiful but this goes without saying), but [I have a girlfriend/you're not really my type/I look at you as a good friend or sister even just by the vibe you give off] (all negs)"

Hope that helps. PM me if you have any other questions. Also be sure to check out the website below. The guy in the videos is my mentor, Arash Dibazar, and he's a Social Genius

All the best,
Sep

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My favorite rebuttal to that is " Oh.. A boyfriend? How long have you had that problem?

"

I generally leave the girls alone with actual boyfriend, however that line has got me some decent action.

why play it down like you weren't hitting on her? that combined with negging her just seems like an unnecessary way to boost your own self esteem since you got 'rejected'. i'd go with the above and just make a joke out of it. if she is adamant about having a boyfriend, then just say nice talking to you and move on.

Author:	mapleleaf [ Fri Apr 27, 2012 1:04 am ]
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I went sarging today, and it was terrible. But, my quesiton is that what should I do or say if a girl says she has a boyfriend, when I try to n-close?

Author:	CaptainJackHarkness [ Fri Apr 27, 2012 1:08 am ]
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Well...considering you went sarging direct, it's going to happen. Usually the girls always lie about the bf, but surprisingly a lot of them actually do have boyfriends. I think you have to keep your frame and just be like thats fucking cool. I have a girlfriend. And if she says you're terrible, grab her and say i can be worse.... Thats very direct though....as you start off, direct game is terrible but relax and keep doing it...

Author:	EddieFews [ Fri Apr 27, 2012 1:08 am ]
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My favorite rebuttal to that is " Oh.. A boyfriend? How long have you had that problem? " I generally leave the girls alone with actual boyfriend, however that line has got me some decent action.

Author:	seph89 [ Fri Apr 27, 2012 1:38 am ]
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Quote: My favorite rebuttal to that is " Oh.. A boyfriend? How long have you had that problem? " I generally leave the girls alone with actual boyfriend, however that line has got me some decent action. Haha nice. I'll probably use that line the next time a girl throws that at me. For the OP, usually if she IS giving you that line that means you've come off too needy and shown too much interest, so she she playing that card as a shield to ward you off, regardless of whether it is true or not. You can go sexually playful and use Fuze's line or you can also use what I do: Laugh or chuckle as if she said something very irrelevant to the conversation thread, just make sure it's not in a mocking way, then say something like, "Woah did it come off like I was hitting on you? Because that was not my intention at all, you just looked like you were enjoying yourself and having a good time so I wanted to see what the fun was all about. I mean don't get me wrong, you're beautiful (she actually HAS TO BE beautiful but this goes without saying), but [I have a girlfriend/you're not really my type/I look at you as a good friend or sister even just by the vibe you give off] (all negs)" Hope that helps. PM me if you have any other questions. Also be sure to check out the website below. The guy in the videos is my mentor, Arash Dibazar, and he's a Social Genius All the best, Sep

Author:	mapleleaf [ Fri Apr 27, 2012 2:15 am ]
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Quote: Well...considering you went sarging direct, it's going to happen. Usually the girls always lie about the bf, but surprisingly a lot of them actually do have boyfriends. I think you have to keep your frame and just be like thats fucking cool. I have a girlfriend. And if she says you're terrible, grab her and say i can be worse.... Thats very direct though....as you start off, direct game is terrible but relax and keep doing it... I started talking to this girl who works at Hollister, and then she was like she always buys grey shirt for her bf. Then, after a few minutes I left.

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Author:	Midrange [ Fri Apr 27, 2012 2:24 am ]
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Quote: Quote: My favorite rebuttal to that is " Oh.. A boyfriend? How long have you had that problem? " I generally leave the girls alone with actual boyfriend, however that line has got me some decent action. Haha nice. I'll probably use that line the next time a girl throws that at me. For the OP, usually if she IS giving you that line that means you've come off too needy and shown too much interest, so she she playing that card as a shield to ward you off, regardless of whether it is true or not. You can go sexually playful and use Fuze's line or you can also use what I do: Laugh or chuckle as if she said something very irrelevant to the conversation thread, just make sure it's not in a mocking way, then say something like, "Woah did it come off like I was hitting on you? Because that was not my intention at all, you just looked like you were enjoying yourself and having a good time so I wanted to see what the fun was all about. I mean don't get me wrong, you're beautiful (she actually HAS TO BE beautiful but this goes without saying), but [I have a girlfriend/you're not really my type/I look at you as a good friend or sister even just by the vibe you give off] (all negs)" Hope that helps. PM me if you have any other questions. Also be sure to check out the website below. The guy in the videos is my mentor, Arash Dibazar, and he's a Social Genius All the best, Sep why play it down like you weren't hitting on her? that combined with negging her just seems like an unnecessary way to boost your own self esteem since you got 'rejected'. i'd go with the above and just make a joke out of it. if she is adamant about having a boyfriend, then just say nice talking to you and move on.

Author:	mapleleaf [ Fri Apr 27, 2012 2:34 am ]
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My plan was to try the Paul Janka method. He is so smooth when picking up, that is almost a mere chance. Any ideas how to refine my game like Janka?

Author:	seph89 [ Fri Apr 27, 2012 2:49 am ]
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Quote: Quote: Quote: My favorite rebuttal to that is " Oh.. A boyfriend? How long have you had that problem? " I generally leave the girls alone with actual boyfriend, however that line has got me some decent action. Haha nice. I'll probably use that line the next time a girl throws that at me. For the OP, usually if she IS giving you that line that means you've come off too needy and shown too much interest, so she she playing that card as a shield to ward you off, regardless of whether it is true or not. You can go sexually playful and use Fuze's line or you can also use what I do: Laugh or chuckle as if she said something very irrelevant to the conversation thread, just make sure it's not in a mocking way, then say something like, "Woah did it come off like I was hitting on you? Because that was not my intention at all, you just looked like you were enjoying yourself and having a good time so I wanted to see what the fun was all about. I mean don't get me wrong, you're beautiful (she actually HAS TO BE beautiful but this goes without saying), but [I have a girlfriend/you're not really my type/I look at you as a good friend or sister even just by the vibe you give off] (all negs)" Hope that helps. PM me if you have any other questions. Also be sure to check out the website below. The guy in the videos is my mentor, Arash Dibazar, and he's a Social Genius All the best, Sep why play it down like you weren't hitting on her? that combined with negging her just seems like an unnecessary way to boost your own self esteem since you got 'rejected'. i'd go with the above and just make a joke out of it. if she is adamant about having a boyfriend, then just say nice talking to you and move on. That's an indirect approach and it works very well, but there's more than one way to go about it. You're really missing the point if you see that and think of it as a way to "boost self-esteem".

Author:	mapleleaf [ Fri Apr 27, 2012 3:11 am ]
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Has anyone tried using Paul Janka method and became successful at daygame? My venues are: malls, coffee shops, groceries Malls: customers, and employees

Author:	Slip n Slide [ Fri Apr 27, 2012 3:24 am ]
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I just say "Sure you don't need another one?" she laughs, and then I change the subject right away. A minute later, I try for the number again. I get it surprisingly often that second time.

Author:	Every_Woman's_Dream [ Fri Apr 27, 2012 12:59 pm ]
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Don't Listen to Captain Jack Ass. If she tells you she has a bf...have an answer for that. Usually you want to convey enough value that the bf doesn't matter. I've had this happen twice where a girl gave me her number but just told me upfront that she had a boyfriend.

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