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Author:  mrlihtster [ Wed Apr 25, 2012 8:26 am ]
Post subject:  Things to look out for on my first sarge.
Hey guys. Im going on my first sarge this weekend and I could really appreciate a heads up on things to look out for when Im in the field.
I like to think that I am somewhat of a natural, but I am in need of some extensive polishing.
To be honest, at this point I havent even finished reading "The Game" but I am pretty certain ill have the basics down for saturday night.
I am more worried about things i cant plan, rehearse. This that you only experience in the field.
Right away, I know that personally for myself, procrastination is a big issue so i think the 3 second rule will be a challenge. Also being somewhat of a smartass as people tell me, I expect to take criticism/putdowns quite harshly...
Anything you guys can tell me before I am thrown into the shark tank?
Author:  CaptainJackHarkness [ Wed Apr 25, 2012 8:43 am ]
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"Swim for your life, because it is about to change."

-Me.

But in all seriousness, I'm glad to welcome you into PUA and also at the same time am going to apologize in advance because you will feel the heavy weight of mental thought that goes into this and the inner-struggles you will have will define you hopefully to be all that you know you already can be.

Go out there, expect failure, but expect to be the king of your own motherfucking world.

And remember: always have a strong disinterest in anything a girl does or says. Do not take things personally...always look to give a vibe not to receive and react. Disinterest will allow you to pass any fucking shit test on god's green fucking Earth.

Yours truly,

Captain fucking Jack Harkness
Author:  Costa-T [ Wed Apr 25, 2012 11:00 am ]
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Once you approach then you have nothing to worry about it, let the conversation flow in an interesting way and make them laugh. a bit DHV and push and pull. Be natural, don't try and copy what you learnt because you will fail, use what you learnt as a guide and put your own personality into it. My advice to those who only just started into the game is to concentrate on open sets all night and then when you feel confortable enough, head for a full on towards the end of the night'!
Author:  P-Style [ Wed Apr 25, 2012 3:00 pm ]
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And remember: always have a strong disinterest in anything a girl does or says.
Dude seriously. I have no idea on which pills you are but by now you've given plenty of completely wrong advice. Disinterest generates disinterest. Even the hardcore interested girls will eventually get disinterested due to your impossible behaviour.

On what to do? Hard to say since you gave no information whatsoever on who you are, what your background is, how good/badlooking you are, how high/low your social value would be, if you're a virgin or have had a (or plural) girlfriend(s).

The most important thing: avoid getting the reputation of the guy that hits on every girl. Not only will it most definite shut down all your options but it will get you kicked out of a club/bar.
Author:  Impeccable [ Wed Apr 25, 2012 3:55 pm ]
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be confident, and don't react negatively to their responses. Remain indifferent
Author:  mrlihtster [ Wed Apr 25, 2012 5:21 pm ]
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Go out there, expect failure, but expect to be the king of your own motherfucking world.
As motivations go, that deff put a vote of confidence in me :P thanks man
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...concentrate on open sets all night and then when you feel confortable enough, head for a full on towards the end of the night'!
Thanks for the piece of actual solid advice there, that sounds like a good place I can start.

Thank you boys for the advice, ill engrave it on the back of my skull.
Also another question. I have a small scar on my left cheek, nothing horrifying, but its there never the less. I got it in a fight, some psycho decided it would be a good idea to brake a bottle of Miller over my head. I proved him wrong, guy was cold on the ground seconds after. Now a scar on a guys face is not everyday, and I was wondering if I should get it out of the way asap, tell it to the set as a followthough to my opener, or should I leave it as something to wonder about?
Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Wed Apr 25, 2012 5:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Things to look out for on my first sarge.
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To be honest, at this point I havent even finished reading "The Game" but I am pretty certain ill have the basics down for saturday night.
Be careful. The 'Game' is a cool "story", but it's not a how-to guide.

Also, rule of thumb - when you have to say "I am pretty certain"... that means "I doubt the fuck out of myself".

You'll only be 'good' at PU if you actually embrace learning and approaching. Practice opening set after set after set. When you start to develop the "I don't give a fuck if she says No" mentality - you'll congruently notice your own confidence while in the sets is super high.

Good luck.

Practice, practice, practice, rinse and repeat. That's the only way you'll ever get experience.

RR
Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Wed Apr 25, 2012 5:54 pm ]
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Go out there, expect failure, but expect to be the king of your own motherfucking world.
As motivations go, that deff put a vote of confidence in me :P thanks man
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...concentrate on open sets all night and then when you feel confortable enough, head for a full on towards the end of the night'!
Thanks for the piece of actual solid advice there, that sounds like a good place I can start.

Thank you boys for the advice, ill engrave it on the back of my skull.
Also another question. I have a small scar on my left cheek, nothing horrifying, but its there never the less. I got it in a fight, some psycho decided it would be a good idea to brake a bottle of Miller over my head. I proved him wrong, guy was cold on the ground seconds after. Now a scar on a guys face is not everyday, and I was wondering if I should get it out of the way asap, tell it to the set as a followthough to my opener, or should I leave it as something to wonder about?
Don't say shit about the scar.

If she asks, then tell her it was from a fight - NOTHING more. Giving us the 'scorecard' of kicking some dude's ass means NOTHING. Giving that to a chick means less. If she's that damned curious, make her ask - play it down. "I was jumped, I handled business". That's all you need to say. That provides the knowledge you're not a braggart, you're capable of handling yourself and making her feel safe/protected, and that you're humble about it.

Also don't throw out a feature you yourself constantly are reminded of. It shows a self-image problem, in her eyes.

RR
Author:  Costa-T [ Wed Apr 25, 2012 6:31 pm ]
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I should get it out of the way asap, tell it to the set as a followthough to my opener, or should I leave it as something to wonder about?
You can use your scar as the perfect opener .. for example ' do you think i can land a role in a movie as the bad guy with this scar?' or 'i saw you looking at my scar so now im here what do you think of it? bad boy ha ;) ' or a cocky-werid opener will be ' i bet you wana touch my scar don't you? well too bad i don't let starngers touch me ;)'
Author:  mrlihtster [ Wed Apr 25, 2012 8:03 pm ]
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@RR: thanks for the advice, appreciate it. I fully understand that The Game is a cool and extraordinary story, otherwise I would not have been published. Its an inspiration, not much else.

PS> I was not my intention to brag, I do apologize if it came out that way.

@Costa-T, I see the enthusiasm but I think I'll have to stick with what RR was saying, that does sound braggy. It might work as an opener, but I don't think they wonna hear the the full story of it. But I'll try to open with it and get back to you on how that went.
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