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| Author: | PLYR [ Fri Apr 20, 2012 8:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Been talking to a girl on Fb met her in street... help |
Just been speaking to her..... Then she says to me... "Jesus is this a job interview with the questions you're asking me?" How do i get out of the Job interview stage.... I WANT TO ASK QUESTIONS which makes me like her but i also want to gain a connection HELp please PLYR |
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| Author: | Sluggler [ Fri Apr 20, 2012 8:33 pm ] |
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Okay mistake number 1. NEVER question a girl. They hate this. Put yourself in their shoes. Would you want to be bombarded with questions. You can ask those same questions but in a different indirect way to make it seem more natural and less pressuring. For example.. Lets say you want to know what her favorite color is.. You: "Wow i really think lavender is a vivid color. Its really one of those colors that catches my attention. (Try to make a connection with something in your life) Whats a color that really catches your eye?" Her: blah blah blah You: So im guessing that would be your favorite color? Her: Yes/no, blah blah blah Do you see how i worked my way up to the question. I took one simple question and turned it into a conversation. THIS is the way you should be working your questions in trying to get the girl. If you do it this way she wont see it as you are asking her question, after question, after question. It will feel more natural. Also when she gives you answers try to connect with them. Take that question and go deeper with it. This will really help you build rapport and pull out the emotions in her that you want. |
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| Author: | charblad [ Fri Apr 20, 2012 8:50 pm ] |
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I Likem All was close Most pua's suggest that you turn the question, into a sentence You wear blue a lot, I'm just going to guess that's your favorite color I bet you like the number 7 the most ect. And i'd suggest never asking more than 3 questions in a row, remember you're having a conversation WITH her, not TO her |
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| Author: | titanman [ Fri Apr 20, 2012 8:50 pm ] |
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Asking questions are shit, you don't want to do that. It's ok though, with practice you will get better. The tricks are: -only ask questions when you have nothing to say -banter banter banter -tease -observe -banter banter -converse Basically you need to find some ground and talk about it, and just have a banter going. If there's something significant in a convo, bring it back up in a few days. Example: Don't ask how, but me and a girl got talking about a news article where a guy shits on people. Made a joke how we both have shit fetishes and it sort of stuck for the rest of the day calling out each others sexy shit fetishes. A week later she calls me an old man for something, I then brought back the shit thing saying "yeah that's why I love shit so much, I have to sit in it all day". Now I've brought it up again, it's going to stick. And me and her are going to have this inside fetish joke for a long time now. This is sooo effective. You can't just come back to something which had no significance. But because we had a laugh over the article it stuck, I brought it back and it re-engages the emotions from before. This is a powerful thing. Secondly, don't think that the convo has to flow. My FB convos start and stop and then might have an hour of silence. You don't have to reply to everything. If she gives you nothing you can comment on then don't reply with anything. FB convos are nothing like real life convos. Another point. Serious 'get to know each other' convos on FB are shit and boring. Yeah talk about life but once she says something comment on it, make a joke if you want to and then say something about it. Example, this one girl said how much she hates todays kids who act like adults, I then took this and spoke about how rubbish kid shows are todays and then we started talking about the kid shows we loved. We built an emotional connection. It'll come with practice, but try not to ask questions. |
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