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Author:  alrasch [ Fri Apr 20, 2012 2:38 pm ]
Post subject:  I made the goal.... (Best sucess i ever had)
I just writet what happend last night with alot of details it took me over a hour to write everthing while in that time it looged me out somehow i dont wanna write the whole text again so im just going to write the importment things

Yesderday i went to a Club meetet some guys talked with them and I had a good time after alot of drinks I saw a set near the dance floor of 2 girls they were dancing near the dancefloor i waitet alot like 1 hour before i had the courage to go near them and dance near them i tried to come closer and closer to see if the girls accept it one girl didt she walked away pretty fast when i came closer but the other girl not she looked and me and smilied so i tought ok I have to approach her now xd

Here is the Conversetion

Me:Hei did you see the fight ouside 2 girls were figthing over a guy named George it was a Blonde Girl and a Black skinned girl at the begin they only insultet each other but then they really start to fight the blonde girl kicked the black girl in the stomach it looked really painfull do u know those girls? :D

HB7:No but too bad i wasnt there i would love watch it :D

Me:You look really beautiful i like you :)

HB7: Thanks :)

we startet do dance together we came closer to each other ^^

HB7:How old are you?

Me:im 20 years old and you?

HB7:im 19

Me:Whats your name ?

HB7:Sabrina and yours?

Me:My name is Rashid but everyone call me Rash

HB:HB7 Cute Name

And then she did go back to her table and grabbed a bottle of alcohl and drinked even more i guess she was allrighty pretty drunk but when i saw her drinking even more i tought in my head lol there is no way im gonna lose this even tough i was pretty drunk myself

Me:Are u from interlaken? i never saw you here its the first time i see you here

HB7:Nop im not from here im from meringen (This is like 5 km away from my country)

We startet to dance even more she grabbed me on my shoulder and i grabbed her too oh it was soooo awesome :)

We danced continued to dance together but lets say more intense we both tried to check if there is any restitance in the opponent
but there wasnt so I spinned her and then we were face to face. She was so cute ... i had to risk a kiss escalition i just wantet to try it so i turned my head a bit see if she accept it and she did :) we kissed each other i cannot descrive you guys in words how happy i was in that momment finaly all the
work has paid off all the hours that i watched mystery episodes all the hours i was reading a mystery book pracitizing infront my mirror to approach :) has come to an end I DID IT WEEEEW I could do this only because of mystery big thanks to you if u ever gonna read that you changed my life :)

Well at 3:00 in the morning the NightClub closed so we decided to go to check out if the other night club that is like 100 feet away from the club that we were currently in is still open but the club wasnt open no one could go inside anymore the party is over when we were walking outside hand in hand i asked her for her number and she gave me her number then a bouncer came to me and said hei can u come here to me for a second? i said sure why not whats going on? he asked me how in the hell i picked up that beatuful woman? i didt said anything i was just laughing and then i said skill :P he asked me if wanna come to his house with my girl and i said lol no ofc not i have my own room then he said ok cool and walked away when I turned back i couldet see sabrina anymore? i think i just couldet see her anymore i think she run away or something im not sure she just wasnt here i asked some ppl if anyone saw her but no one did i dont know really know what happend there or what she was thinking but np i have her number.

Today in the morning when i waked up i writet her a message and asked her if shes sober now and not drunk and that i really have enjoyed the last night with her and it was really cool to hang out with her she answer back via sms that she enjoyed the night too and that she is sober now and she asked me how are u? :)

i never came so far to that game that i got a phone number and the girl even answer me in the next day can u guys give me any advice how i should continue? i would love to have a relationship with her thanks

and thank you verry much to eric van markovic he is the best guy in this world without him i would never come this far!!
Author:  alrasch [ Fri Apr 20, 2012 3:34 pm ]
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omg shes now calling me but im afraid to answer xddddddd damn

:oops:

Pls anyone can give me advice how to continue :/ i dont wanna screw things up
Author:  Entourages [ Fri Apr 20, 2012 3:42 pm ]
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Pick up the damn phone and be a man, be loud and clear. If you are nervous give short answers, but dont make her lose interest. Be a FUCKING MAN!!!

Tell her you have plans for the weekend and she should come with. Go to a club again or whatever!
Author:  Visor92 [ Fri Apr 20, 2012 4:01 pm ]
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You did well, good job. The reason she left is probably because you were talking to some guy and she was just standing there. She wants you to chase her, to be the prize, so she left. You did nothing wrong here.

You should answer the phone and stop being a pussy, grow some balls! She's only a human being, talk to her as if one of your best buddies called.

Organise a day 2. I dont know where you're from, so I dont know what you do in you're culture. If she lives close by, keep it casual. Invite her for a coffee, or lunch. Or as Raphael suggested, meet her at the club again.

And for the love of god, don't get one-itis. You've only just met her. Continue to sarge other women in order to avoid putting her on a pedestal. Other than that, good luck :) Let us know how it goes.
-V
Author:  CaliForniCatioN [ Fri Apr 20, 2012 4:58 pm ]
Post subject: 
Rash,first off,welcome man i'm glad things worked out good for ya. :wink:

now,to the real bizz:


"Me:You look really beautiful i like you"

:arrow: never compliment on physical beauty..and sure as hell,it should't be the

second you met her.


"HB7:How old are you?

Me:im 20 years old and you? "

:arrow: a little tip:let her guess your age.

" i was pretty drunk myself "

:arrow: do NOT game drunk,it'll fuck up your "sober" game..if such thing even

exist.


" then a bouncer came to me and said hei can u come here to me for a second?"

:arrow: don't leave her alone,that's why she left..i think.


" i said lol no ofc not i have my own room"

:arrow: did she heard it?

" can u guys give me any advice how i should continue?"

:arrow: i could but..haven't you read mystery's books? it should be clear to you...

"i would love to have a relationship with her thanks "

:arrow: hey now,you kissed a drunk girl in a club and hang out with her a

bit..that's cool,but a relationship is far far ahead..don't you think? but then again,to

each their own.


"and thank you verry much to eric van markovic he is the best guy in this world

without him i would never come this far!!"

:arrow: LOL yeah,he is pretty awesome.


All in all,you're on your way man!

a few tips:

1.make them work for your attention and kindness(ioi's compliments etc...)don't just give them away.

2.i dont know if you're still very new to this,but you should read some more..and that dosen't mean stay home and read until you're good..just learn some more and continue what you do now.


Regarding your question:

Day-2s and Setting the Frame:

http://www.venusianarts.com/day-2s-and- ... the-frame/


also:

Comfort – Building Commonalities and Connection

http://www.venusianarts.com/comfort-bui ... onnection/

and:

The Power of Qualifying

http://www.venusianarts.com/the-power-of-qualifying/

BONUS:

Getting To Know Her

http://www.venusianarts.com/getting-to-know-her/

And one of the best comfort building routins:

The Bucket List (A Gambit for A2-A3-C1)

http://www.venusianarts.com/the-bucket- ... -a2-a3-c1/

have fun!



PS:if you need more help,just reply or send me a PM and i'll gladly help you.


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Author:  agentprovocateur [ Fri Apr 20, 2012 5:03 pm ]
Post subject: 
How old is this guy 12?
Author:  CaliForniCatioN [ Fri Apr 20, 2012 5:06 pm ]
Post subject: 
No need for that ^^
Author:  alrasch [ Fri Apr 20, 2012 5:20 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
How old is this guy 12?
Seems like ur parents didt teach you much decency..... why should you offend somone on the internet in a pua forum? thats just poor srsly..
Author:  96Firebird [ Fri Apr 20, 2012 5:24 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
Quote:
How old is this guy 12?
Seems like ur parents didt teach you much decency..... why should you offend somone on the internet in a pua forum? thats just poor srsly..
Don't worry, it is usually young teens that ask questions like that. He'll grow up one day...

Congrats on your success, sounds like you had a good night. Don't get too caught up on the first one though...
Author:  CaliForniCatioN [ Sat Apr 21, 2012 8:11 am ]
Post subject: 
Bro' tell us what happend...
Author:  alrasch [ Sat Apr 21, 2012 11:19 am ]
Post subject: 
hello nothing really new i asked her if she wanna come with me to the cinema yesderday night(with sms) no answer untill now to be cotinued... i will keep u guys update lets see i dont have many hopes but who knows
Author:  alrasch [ Sat Apr 21, 2012 11:24 am ]
Post subject: 
here is what she writet she just writet 2 minuts ago :

I writet her a sms asking if she wanna come with me to the Cinema yesderday night now i writet her a sms if she recevied the sms

here is her answer:

Heii..yes i recceived your sms but i didt know what to say greeting...

hmmmm not good :/ np


btw yesderday i went out again it was a really bad night i get rejectet from narly everyone even ugly girls Q_Q i was even dancing on the dance floor and girl came to me ans said "you suck at dancing lol" -.-
Author:  CaliForniCatioN [ Sat Apr 21, 2012 6:43 pm ]
Post subject: 
" i asked her if she wanna come with me to the cinema yesderday night(with sms) no answer untill now to be cotinued"

No,just no.

Don't ever ask a girl out on a fucking "date"...just say"wanna hang out?" or "i'll be at X place tomorrow at six,you can tag along if you'd like.."

A little tip:don't take a girl for day 2's to places that make HER the subject matter..go someplace to have fun,and tell her she can come...something along those lines.

"Heii..yes i recceived your sms but i didt know what to say greeting... "

WTF is this "greeting" means?
And you said this was bad? you should've called her after she send that to you,it seems she's insecure and don't know what to say...it dosen't mean she aint in.(at least that's what i've picked up from this weird sms. )


"yesderday i went out again it was a really bad night i get rejectet from narly everyone"

That's actually good man,you should make it your mission:get rejected as much as you can,and learn from it(micro calibration)


"even ugly girls"

This means nothing,really.

"girl came to me ans said "you suck at dancing lol" -.-"

LOL,that happens when you try to dance,but you don't know how.avoid that situation. and just so you know it's actually an ioi..in a way.


Now tell me:have you been reading the stuff i've linked you to?

Have you been reading the basic PUA books? have you been watching in-field footage to learn the basics?

i mean,you sound like you need to sharpen your skills a bit,you've made some mistakes along the way(from what i've read) and you still sound like you're not aware to your problems.


Answer these questions,and i'll be able to assist you further.
the reason i do this is,i see a little bit of my old self in you,and that hurts... :?
Author:  alrasch [ Sun Apr 22, 2012 1:43 pm ]
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hello thank you for your answer yes i watched the links and readed all the stuff that was included on the page altough my english isnt really perfect so i have some problems with some words thats why im using google transolator one think i didt said i tought Cinema could be a good idea because im a totaly night person im not going out in the day often because i suffer from an eye problem and i am extermly light sensetiv :/ im really a total night person i think i get the first part of this game i can now open a set thats allrighty alot for me now i just have to continue learnning what to do at day 2 i wont give up this experience that i had last Thursday was an eye opener for me it showed me that im not a special snow fleck and i can do it even if the girl was really drunk i did a good job.

I have alot of videos from mystery on my computer (I have the full episode 1 and 2 ) so there are alot of infield videos so yes i watched them

and i also have videos from mystery while he does bootcamps and a guy secretly recorded while hes explaining everthing.

My bigest problem SPAM are 2 things i suck at storry telling and im making to many mistakes at day 2 but np i still think i can learn this i wont give up no matter what happens

thank you verry much for your support

ah here is conversetion that i had with her this morning ( with sms not phoning)...

Me:Hei how was ur day yesderday did u had fun? i did go with some friends in a goa party it was awesome :) really nice music nice bass only one thing wasnt really good the weather there was alot of rain but np u cant have anything :)it wasnt a indoor party it was outdoor in the forest

HB7:heii yes i had a good night aswell ohhh a goa party? that would be nothing for me i had a really nice night i was in balmers and caverne (those 2 nightclubs that i metet her)

Me:Okei nicee =) do you have MSN btw?

HB7:No i dont have msn but do you have facebook?

Me:No i dont have facebook i had a profile but i deletet it but if i have time this night i can make a profile :) ( ofc i have time lol ) didt tell her but i dont wantet to show to much interest

HB7:Hei no Problem you do not have to make a facebook profiel just for me its not a world-sunset.

Me:Ämmm i dont say anything now i just think it :D it will not take more then 5 minuts to make facebook profiel that's the least I can do, for such a pretty girl like you unfourtinetly you dont know me well you have no idea what you are missing im sure we will see see us again one day what do you work btw?

HB7: Haha i know that =) although I must admit that I needed 7 minutes to create my profiel :) i work in the hotel managment and you?

Me:Ah cool i work in a bicycle workshop i repair I take them apart to resikle
(Wich is a lie i dont work there anymore i dont have a job SPAM)

thats all till now
Author:  CaliForniCatioN [ Sun Apr 22, 2012 3:16 pm ]
Post subject: 
@Rash:

This is great,you have the will to pull this off and to be amazing at this game!


You wrote: " im not going out in the day often because i suffer from an eye problem and i am extermly light sensetiv "

I heard about a special sunglasses for that man,chack it out.

Also,it dosen't really matter where you'd go with her(or any other girl,in day 2's)as long as she isn't the center of the meeting,for exemple:if you go bowling,she's not the center because you go there to do something,play.but,if you go for a..coffe let's say,it's just you and her talking,thus,she's the center.

In short:you have alot of things to do at night,other then cinema,coffe etc...

"My bigest problem SPAM are 2 things i suck at storry telling and im making to many mistakes at day 2 but np i still think i can learn this i wont give up no matter what happens"

Exectly,this is the only way to learn,keep it up man good job!

Now,about that convo you had with her.

:arrow: IMPORTANT!:

1. again,you really should stop telling her she's beautiful,pretty whatever. this will not benefit you nor her in anyway,in fact,it'll screw you up.

2.ABOUT THAT FACEBOOK THING:

SHE TOLD YOU:"Hei no Problem you do not have to make a facebook profiel just for me its not a world-sunset. "

You should listen to her man,seriously.no need to open a facebook for her...it's too much intrest and effort on your part and it'll make her feel un-comfortable.even if you decide to do that,don't tell her that.


3.I don't know if you're in the game for a girlfriend,or just to get laid,or both but,i just wanted to say,you should meet other girls and not hang out with just one.at least in the begining.


Other then that,it seems you nailed it pretty good man! she seems interested and that's always good.

I hope i helped you improve your game bro' good luck on your way up and,feel free to ask anything here or PM me.

Cheers bro' 8) :D
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