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Author:  safety [ Thu Apr 19, 2012 7:08 am ]
Post subject:  Push me! I need external motivation

Ok so recently I have been doing a little bit of self discovery and have come to the conclusion that I am far more motivated when I am Being pushed by someone else.
When I have been challenged or have something to prove I find it far easier to make the approach than when I am doing it solely because I want to meet the girl. I've always had a friend behind me turning pickup into a game where he points out girls and challenges me to approach and it really works for me but since he is not around anymore I am struggling to motivate myself even though I crave female interaction and involvement in my life I just can't bring myself to approach whole heartedly.

So can someone here try and motivate me? Tell me why I should be approaching or tell me how I can find the internal motivation that I am lacking.
Thanks Guys

Note: I prefer day game and like to number close directly and try and date the girls.
My most common limiting beliefs are "she probably had a boyfriend" and "I should wait for a better opportunity".

Author:  0uch [ Thu Apr 19, 2012 7:17 am ]
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with that attitude, your gonna fail in pick up or anything. Take a step back, and learn to push yourself first.

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